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I love to anwser questions so ask away! I give pretty good advice and if you don't think so just let me know! Please send me a question cuz I'll anwser it right away! I pretty much open to all topics! if you rea the questions I've anwsered you'll see my opinion on boys and dating! I fyou agree with me please let me know! Feel free to ask me anything or e mail me about whatever!

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Where can I find cute backgrounds and icons for my advicenator??????? And cute cursors also?????

I sugesst soupfaerie.com or try bravenet.com



Hope it helps!

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my computer works like a piece of crap. its really anoying, and thats not the worst part, i really really really really really really really want aol instant messenger.i had it but then my dad was like "it ruined are computer" when it was his kazza that gave us viruses. any way the only time i can ever go on is the rare occasion when
i visit my aunt and i have to share the time with my sisters. i know this is a dumb question but i really really really miss aim! thanks!

Why don't you tell your dad what really caused the virus! Also you can show him AOL AIM's privacy policy. If that doesn't work you can buy your own computer and do whatevery you want with it!

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does anybody kno anygood rap or disco songs?

Depends if you wants oldies. If so I reccomend Funky Town!

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okay ive babysat before before i moved to a new neighborhood and me new one has some little kids on it that i wouldnt mind to babysit so how should i let my neighbors no im avalible when they need me without being o like hi can i be your babysitter or yeah so any tips (and the kids i used to babysit were 2 boys ages of 4 and 6 and a little girl age 2-3 and the kids in my neighborhood are around that too)

What i did was i made a flyer on my computer and handed it out to people. it really helps if you've been to any babysitting classes!

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I need help finding a webiste to order a bathing suit from because im going to Florida soon. I live up north in NY so they dont really have the swimwear in stock in stores yet. I've tried askjeeves and google searches. Does anyone know any good websites? I dont know why..but when i went to wal mart. com and searched for swimwear..it showed there was nothing in stock. This was weird because dont wal marts down south selll swimwear? of course..! so if you could give me a website for walmart where i can buy a bathing suit from there that would be great also.

Well it really depends on how old you are. Most swimsuites come on in Febusry and March. But you could try Limited Too and Venus Swimsuites!

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Ok, well my friends turned on me at the beginging of this year (7th grade)I have been hanging out with other peeps thati really like. Then all of a sudden this girl marissa imed me on aim and said that since i left they are now the most popular girls in school and i have no style! i to have style. maybe i have to have the RIGHT style. Should i go by what i think or be one of the crowd. and if it do need some "style tips" can any popular/cool 7th grade girls tell me wat would look good. i have brown hair with blonde highlights. i have blue eyes.i a kinda short. i mean, wat kind of clothes r in? am i doing my makeup right?

PLEASE HELP ME
JENNA

Don't try to be popular and wear what's in! Wear what you like to wear, what you feel comfertable in. If people don't like you because of what you wear then don't hang out with them! Don't try to be somebody youre not!

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what are you suposed to do once you have a boyfriend?

Well some would say make out and have sex but I think everyone these days has the wrong idea about what a boy is all about. Shouldn't a boyfriend be a friend, but a boy? Also don't try to make out with him at every chance you get, A kiss should be something special, not something you do everyday! Hope you get what I mean!

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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again?

Well you really can't make him cange his mind. Don't do anything stupid like change your whole look or something to make him like you. If he doesn't like you for who you are he's not worth it! try to find anoter guy that likes you for who you are, not how you look.

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ok, if this makes any sense, plz help. what are the levels in a relationship? i know there's like friends, dating, kissing, french kissing, etc, but what's after that?

Well some would probally say sex but people these days do that way way way way way way way way wya wya wya too young! Personally, why can't boyfriends and girlfriends just be really good friends? Personaly I think you shouldn't be doing anything more than that till after your married! But alot of people would disagree with me on that.

Sorry if that didn't anwser your question!

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my sisters planned a surprise party for my mom's birthday because she is turning 50! my sisters said i could bring a boy to it if i wanted. i really want to, but how would i ask him if he wanted to go?

Easy! You go up and ask him. Or you could get a friend to ask him, ask him online, call him and ask, give him a note. There's endless possibilties!

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ok.... so there's this boy who i THINK fancies me. We hang out in the same group of friends and i've been to a few sleepovers with him, but the problem is he's in year 9 - 2 years younger than me. i'm a really youg in year 11 though so the age thing shouldn't be a problem. I'm not sure how i feel about him, but i'm thinking that i might like him... Argh i don't know what to do! if i do go out with him then people at school will start talking... i dont even know if i like him like that but im sooooo confused
help!

You don't need to decide anything right now! You have years ahead of you to date! As for people talking about you if you go out...who cares as long as your happy. Besides people only say mean things because they're insecure about themselves! So they're probally only making fun of you cuz they don't have a boyfriend and you do!

Hope I halped!

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I have a friend who told someone I like that I was a slut, stupied, a freak, and a lousey girlfriend. only because I went out with him for a long time and then we broke up. I have no idea of what to do to get him to like me agian. Please help me

If he said that about you he's not worth your time! Why do yuo want to go out with him after he said that about you? Also do you think he's really going to want to go out with you again?

I hate to sound harsh but these are some things you need to think about!

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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me?

I think you will definatily have losts of friends at highschool! For one there will be way more people there! Also in a way you can "start fresh". Also there will be clubs and activitys that do things you like. I hope you have agreat year next year!

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For class, we have to do a profile/interveiw on someone that we know. We have to have at least 20 questions and i dont know what questions to use. I will rate 5's for effort

where are your ancestors from?
Do you ever want to travel to another contry?
Have you ever faild at something and then triend again and succed?
Have you ever wondered about lifes greatest mystries?
Do you keep a journal?


These are just a few but I hope they help!

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I just dyed my hair medium brown and I really like it. How do I keep the color from fading? Are there any special shampoos or techniques I should follow?

You could just re-dye it when it starts to fade lol!

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I have a bit of a big decision here and I was hoping for opinions/advice about it if you'd be so kind. My parents split up a long time ago over the summer acutally and I had said I didnt want to be around her soon to be husband because of the fact he took mom away from us although it takes two. And his son got in trouble for molestation of his little sister so I said I didn't want to be around him either. So I live with my father. But lately, I've been seeing my mom after not seeing her for a long time. We've been getting close again. The other night she took me to her house to see my cat that she had taken but her boyfriend and his son were there. And my court I have said I don't want to be around them but it isn't official until March 28 when we go to court about it. Dad thinks that I want him to have custody of me and that I hate my moms boyfriend and his son. But I went to her house a lot this weekend with my friend, we walked. And moms boyfriend and his son are really nice. Her boyfriend cares about me and his son is really nice. He has couseling for what he did so he's better now with the molesation thing. And I keep thinking I'd be better off with my mom. Here at my dads we don't have money to just spend. A bunch of our bills are behind. Everything almost gets cut off or does before my dad pays it. And he gets good money so I don't know where it's all going to. And this weekend I didn't want to come home from my friends house at all. I'm not happy here that much. But the thing is, My dad says he'd have nothing if I left him. But at my moms they have money for things, the bills are payed, the house is clean and stuff. So my delimma is: Should I move in with my Mom, or stay with my dad? What do you think?

Well you could ask if you could take turns living with your parents!


Hope this was helpful!

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I never really wear make-up, because I don't think it looks good on me at all. Does anyone know of any colors I should be using or colors that would look good on me? I have black hair and brown eyes, and I have very white skin.

i think a light pink or baige. I have the same problem but I really like shimery colors!

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My best friend always copies my looks! Like if i tell her ive found a certain store that i like to go to, she'll just one day start shopping there and tell all our other friends she found it first! And its not just like materials..she said that she liked matt -our crush- way before i did. But when i told her i liked him last year she said oh i think hes kind of ugly. I mean is she really my friend?? shes so annoying ..what do i do? plz help!!

Well, she like s your style, that;s not a bad thing! But if it bugs you, you need to talk to her about it! She's not going to know how you feel unless you do!

Hope this helps!

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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him?

Just be yourself and try to hang out with him alot. Try not to flirt cuz that really buggs a guy. If he likes you then he does. If he doesn't like you, you can;t make him like you! Just be yourself and try to have fun!

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now im not blowin my own trumpet or anything, but im a pretty good singer. recently i entered this singing competition, but im getting really neervous about the first heat. i hardly ever sing in front of people (except at my singing lessons) and im getting really nervous - its on the 24th of jan and i dont even know what song im going to sing! can anybody help with calming down about this, coz im really scared im going to do REALLY badly on the day!

Try praticin gin front of your family and friends. The more you pratice the easier it will be to proform in front of an audince. Trust me i got that way before I had to do a clarinet solo!

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