okay so i recently gave advice to a guy.. and he gave me a 3! now my question is..
giving advice to someone usually means your giving them YOUR opinion on the matter that their having troubles with..correct? so when someone actually gives advice and by giving i mean actually tried, or applied themselves as best they could should deserve a fair rating.. for someone who just says "that sucks" well okay they dont deserve the best of a rating if even one because thats just there opinion that gives you nothing to concider or anything.
its my first three i've ever recieved on this site and i've done this for about 2 years now..
its just a three i know but i mean i really dont think i deserved that 3.
anyone else agree?
i mean please all opinions are welcome i just want to either be put in my place or something because i just dont understand.. and ill share my advice for anyone whos interested in what it is i said so they can see what they think..
thank you very much. (:
honestly who actually cares. Its a website for gods sake. seriously its NOT the end of the world
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i fantasize about doing things w/ guys but when it comes time to actually do something with one i dont get turned on at all. but i get horny when i see my friends undressing. does that mean ima lesbian?
well yes probably, if you want to test yourself when you are watching a porn video do you get more turned on by the guy or the girl. Its not a bad thing to be lesbian!
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ok soo summer is here and i thought i would be hanging out with my friends everyday..but none of my friends have called me..ive been hanging out with all new ppl because my old friends ahve not included n invited me to anything..i dont get it? i havent done nothing..what should i do? need your opinion
they are probably thinking the same thing about you! why havent you calld them to hang out or invited them to things. From what i learned, its better to call then be called. Then you rely less on other people to invite you to partys. Call them up and ask what there doing, if they say,"sorry im going to a prty 2nite.. hey wanna come?"
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is it weird that i get horny spying on my brother when he's masturbating or is it just curiosity?
i dont want to feel this way but i dont knwo what to do.
please help!!
you spy on your brother..?? ok thats..weird, but like seriously. You do not want to go down that road. Think about if he caught you or your parents caught both of you. You would both be screwed..... download videos of other guys masturbating - NOT your brother. Dont get caught with them either.
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what exactly is masterbating? i think i do it but i dont know if this is it. what i do is i lay stomach down something (usually a blanket or towel rolled up) then i just keep like humping it until i get a good feeling, then i stop. is this bad for you?
15/f
Instructiosns:
1. Put some soap or shampoo and your hand. Rub it into your palms.
2. Get an erection. Any methods that suits you.
3. hold your penis like you would hold a baseball or golf club. Normally people use one hand.
4. Rub your hand up and down. hold it pretty firmly but as firm as you like. also change your speed. somewhere from fast to very fast is good
Its not bad for you or good. I think it helps you grow because it did for me! Nothing bad can happen. When you have been doing it for long enough, say 10 minutes you should feel good. most people stop then
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okay so i want to give my bf hand and im like nervous. last time i was with him he even undid his belt and put my hand by there but i just couldnt do it. i want to... but ah idk. im afraid itll be gross. is it gross?? what should i expect?
well if his general hygiene is good then expect him to be clean. Make sure you know how to do it and make sure youre ready. always remember you can just wash your hands straight after, they're not going to be dirty forever.
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i have this really bad habit of picking my pimples. and then they scab and wen they scab i keep picking them. then my face is red wen im swimming aka not wearing makeup. how do i stop pickingg?
just think to urself how bad ur making urself look when you do this. also think of using a facial wash to get rid of them.
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is there any boarding schoools like the one in nicelodeon's Zoey 101 (www.pacificcoastacademy.com) somehting like that, not like a catholic school or anything.
hey welcome to the club! I go to a 7 day boarding school in a different country. lol. first up your going to have to relise that you wont get the privacy and be able to do "whatever" you want. your going to have prefects / teachers make you do stuff. also if your close to your parents it might be difficult for you. It wasnt for me, but for many guys in my year it was really hard on them. you are almost definately going to have long periods of time to study and do homework. you also have to look after yourself like eating properly / hygeine. After one year at a rugby boarding college the experience is pretty good. the food at mine is alright but yours maybe different.
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do you like it when girls have their hair a mess and are just wearing sweatpants instead of jeans?
and if a girls pretty, but doesnt talk much in the beginning is that a turn off or do u want to know more about her?
what would classify someone as a good kisseri n ur mind
well girls having their hair a mess can look good, if they know what theyre doing. untidy, unbrushed, not shiny hair is not not very sexy. well skirts are definately way better than jeans, not to sure about sweatpants though. I personally hate a girl that only answers your questions and doesnt say anything else. she has to ask some questions too and seem interested, but definately , definately NOT desperate. someone who is a good kisser, is someone who moves and does stuff during the kiss. its not all about the mouth, though the mouth is important. also someone who is shy is annoying, but if it far too too willing then its only slightly a turn off.... sometimes the girl wanting to kiss can be cute.
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I'm 5'4 and I weigh 109. I wouldn't consider myself fat but I don't have a flat stomach. When i sit down it is huge! I naturally have a really small frame i wear like anywhere from 00-0 in pant sizes. I just need to do some ab workouts. Hopefully it wont be too hard to achieve. Since it is summer I want to get a nice flat stomach so i look good in a bikini. Any ideas or pointers to how i should approach this and what to do?
This video is probably the best ever. I do loads of sport and not fat at all but this exercise still hurt loads! It used to hurt to stand up lol. heres the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edUFqkWSve8
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eww i have this gross, big red pimple on my chin & it REALLY hurts! and i put this stuff on it but it just realy really hurts like when i move my chin or if i poke it... my pimples don't usually 'hurt'
same i had one of those. it was like on the side of my nose. it was very small but still hurt! they hurt covered a wide area. the best cure is to just leave it and hope the best. honestly pinching and poking and stabbing it isnt going to do any good. try a facial wash or two and see if it worsens or not...
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I like this boy, he is my neighbor, i go to his house and we hang out but just as friends, and we can talk hours on end on our cells. He recently asked me out and i said no. but he has a girlfriend and they aren't that close because i think he just got a girlfriend to get back at me. i think he likes me when he is taken because everytime i look at him he is already at me, he sits at the frint of the room in class and i sit all the way at the back and he turned around and asked me for a pencil when his best friend sits by him, and he always texts me calling me dork is he covering up his feelings. dont be afraid to tell me if i am going about this all wrong. i actually want to truth. thx bunches!!
why'd you say no!? if u liked him then obviously... maybe talk to him and say im sorry for hurting your feelings your a real nice guy and maybe i will consider going out with you. if he says no and calls you a dork then theres some work to be done. wait until hes messed up with his present girlfriend and then move in. you should just be chatting to him all this time. i think maybe hes embarassed by asking you out and you said no, so now hes definately trying to cover his feelings and pretending he doesnt like you.
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i was wondering what you should do if you have "pink eye" or in other cases [conjunctivitis]. What would be some good techniques if i wanted to get rid of it soon & what should i put on my eye,etc. What activities should be avoided?
Any help would be appriciated.
Thanks :]
lol u staying up all night, drinking ? not enough sleep? that can cause it. If its bloodshot with visible veins then that is the most likely answer. also were you swimming in a highly chlorinated pool, or the sea and opened your eyes under water alot? any of these, and theres nothing to worry about because they will go away in a few days..
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how do i become happy? it seems like everything sucks,my friends dont care (well...i never tell them stuff..but only because i dont want to feel like im complaining) and my family sucks,this town is horrible,and to top it all off im supposed to be going on a feild trip to new york tomarrow,they assigned groups and NONE of my friends are in the group,they're all jerks and annoying =//. i know i sound like i'm complaining,sorry. but how can i over come all this and look on the bright side? how can i become,well..happy?
i was depressed... then i got an idea. i saved up a load of money like 1000$ took me like 2 months, and whatever i wanted / wanted to do, i was able to do. i bought some new cool clothes, new hair style, new shoes, ne phone, whatever i wanted. this made me feel happy. also pick up something that will make you feel good and you have to work on like a new sport, football or skateboarding. make some new friends. i find the easiet way to make friends is when ur just starting to know them, get their number. also date and makeout with guys/girls, and that will make u feel good to. also it might be what your eating is affecting you. high carb diet makes you depressed. high protein doesnt. also dont spill it all out in one big go, but when your hanging with your friends, bored, just say something like.... theres not much to do here, its quite boring. Also please do not become emo, theres enough of them already....
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This is kind of embarrassing and gross. Ok. So, I think I have lice. No, scratch that. I KNOW I have lice, because my head is itching, and the real clincher is finding stuff in my hair. So you're probably thinking, okay, so just get the shampoo, comb it out, and be done! Not so easy. First of all, I have suspected it for quite some time now. A lice outbreak occurred in my school at the end of April. I was checked and found clean then, but a couple weeks after started finding stuff in my hair. I was totally in denial and told my self it was dandruff, and I was itching because I kept thinking about it. I've decided not to be so naive about it now, and realize that I have it. So, the second issue I have is that I'm on vacation right now. That makes it even more inconvenient to have such a gross problem. I have another example of my naivete in the fact that I actually thought that the ocean water would clean the lice right out, but I've decided not to entertain that thought any longer. So, my question is how do I deal with all of this? I've probably spread it to so much now, like the airplane, the hotel room, all the people I've been around. I've been checking everywhere that I have been lately to see if I see any nits or anything that I left behind, and I haven't seen anything, but that doesn't mean it isn't there. Plus, it would be SO inconvenient and unfair to have to deal with lice on our vacation, especially since after Sunday we don't get to see my sister for 9 weeks. What do I do? I'm so confused, and so don't want to deal with it, but at the same time, I just want it to be gone, you know? So, if you have any ideas on what to do, like when to tell my mom, or how to tell her (I know she will freak; I would) that would be helpful. I'm really embarrassed, becuase I know my mom probably hasn't even thought about the lice outbreak lately, and was so sure that we were safe from it. I'm so sorry that this is so long; I just needed to make sure I got everything down. Thanks for any advice you can give.
lol if ur hairs short good, if not then this method is kind of difficult. dont wash your hair for about 2-3 days, i know its dirty but it works, this should get a sort of greasy coating. weat your hair and get a fine metal brush keep combing your hair and comb and comb until its straight and smooth. your hair has to be very wet. ok now find the finest brush you can and attempt to brush the lice out. it may take some time but it worked for me.
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How do I make my hair grow realllllllly fast?
Besides taking pills.
hair grows faster in hot weather than cold...so im guessing hot blow dry it alot, and go outside if its hot out. dont blame me if something bad happens lol
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ok so what do you do when you cant someone out of your head who shouldnt be there in the first place??
find out stuff about them that wont make u like them, or just generally ask other people do u like that person and if they say no, ask why. you will usually find something. the person shouldnt be there probably because he/shes popular? usually popular kids are acutally hated by most people just no one ever stood up to them.
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I'm 14 years old, going to be a freshman at my highschool next year. I've never made out. I've been going out with this guy for about a month. I've had previous relationships, 2 to be exact, that lasted a really long time and we never did anything because eh... basically the guys were pussys. I broke up with them. I'm the type of girl that likes outgoing guys that arent shy. Everytime I go out with someone they seem like that and they become shy and annoying and it just bothers me so much now. Well my current boyfriend, I dont know... He's only shy when we are with my friends and that's understandable I guess. But I seem to have lost interest in him because so far we have gotten together with other people and it's been awkward because he is acting shy. I'm basing the next time I see him [which we will be alone] to see how it is between us and if it's bad i plan to break up with him. However, the next time we're going to see eachother, he was talking about making out with me [trying it out] he knows that I havent done it before and he has done it alot. I'm nervous in a way. I want to do it but then I dont. I think that everytime the guy is making the move I just basically dont want to. I dont know why my previous boyfriends didnt make the move but when I knew I couldnt have it, I wanted to do it. Now that I know I could do it, I dont want to? I make no sense. I don't know what to do. I dont even know what Im asking... Well basically, what should I do?
im a guy, i think you should talk to him more about it and get used to the idea. Its no big deal and this is what in my area the call frigetness. people are scared to do normal stuff. whats so strange about making out with someone you like? when he makes the move take it if you are ready. find a right place and the right time. where-ever you are comfortable. maybe the beach or cinema. sometimes you can play games like spin-the-bottle were you have to make-out. seriously though...its no big deal.
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well what would help my face clear up by the end of the summer and can u tell me what would help my face clear up like stuff around the house and stuff?
trust me, go to a pharmacy and ask for something. they have good facial washes. when you are in the shower wash your face well with shower gel. also, whenever i leave sweat on my face without washing it off, i usually develop a small dose of spots....when i wash it off nothing develops. i think acne might be sweat-related but im no expert, its only my view.
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hey i realized you're a guy obviously & i really need a guy's opinion :]
okay so i like this guy [ yehh. what else is new ] & i am PRETTY sure he likes me too. well i always make eye contact with him as much as possible, but what do guys / you / your friends do to show you like a girl? the guy i like is a little shy. thanks!
try and look at him when he cant see you... this is the best way. see if he acts different to when you are around. if hes shy, not talking, looking somewhere else then he likes you but hes shy. try and talk to him about anything and see if he talks back or mumbles and looks at the floor. also if hes shy then theres something wrong....hes very un-confidence for some reason maybe you make him feel umcomfortable.. the most likely reason as you said is that he likes you. The easiest way to tell is just see if he acts different when you are around. hopes this helps. ask again if you find something out...
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