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HEY EVERYONE! MY NAMES CHANTAL. I'M HERE TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS THAT YOU ALL HAVE. I'M NOT AN EXPERT OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT AND DON'T CLAIM TO BE. I AM ON THE OTHER HAND WILLING TO GIVE YOU MY PERSONAL OPINION TO YOUR QUESTIONS. = ]
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okay so i have really dark, thick hair on my arms, compared to other girls. Is there any way to dye it so its less noticeabe?
You can't dye your arm hair, it will dye your arm along with your hair. Which will make it even a bigger problem. I have a friend though and she had a simlair problem like yours and she actually got nair. You know the stuff you rub on your legs and then whipe off and it takes all the hair off, instead of shaving. It worked for her, but that's just suggestion of mine.
good luck.
i have this perfume that i absolutly love but it doesn't have a name on it and i bought it two years ago! It comes in an old victorian dress shaped glass, tall with a long flowing skirt but not wide just straight down, and its pink. I can't define the smell, its like musky or flowery with that old victorian feel to it. Sounds odd i know but i got it at the Christmas tree shop and i think it was like a knockoff for some really expensive brand with a designer name. If anyone could like give me links that show a picture or anthing that would be soo great:)
Hmmm.I have no clue. Sounds like it's going to be hard to find out too. I would suggest going back to the store wear you bought it and show them the bottle and explain when you bought it there and everything and they might be able to help you out.
good luck.
15/f
boyfriend and i been together 2 years.
love him DONT JUDGE OUR AGE. K THANKS =]
first time i was unprotected;
like two weeks ago and he did NOT cum inside me
he didn't even cum; i made him get out.
[he lost his virginity to me; && has been tested like i many times]
since last week or so, when i pee
light colored blood comes out; its NOT my period.
i also have to pee alot more too.
sometimes it hurts to pee.
what is this?
i cant ask my mom about this either.
I'll be honest with you it could be a number of different things. I am not a doctor and have no medical degree. I HIGHLY urge you to go to your doctor or if you can't afford it or don't want to tell your mother to take you every state and city has a local free health clinic. Just call information and ask for the number or look online they will be more then happy to help and you can ask them to keep it confidential and they will. So don't be afraid to get checked out, there‘s no reason not to go. I think it's needed because obviously there is something wrong, blood just doesn't come out for no reason. So please go to the doctors.
Best of luck to you!
17/f
Mid September was my last period.
I am not pregnant, as i took a test.
what do you think may be causing this or wrong with me? I have regular periods so this is starting to worry me a bit.
I take Cymbalta and Trazodone but it hasn't affected it, so i dont think that's it. Is there suggestions you guys have as what to do or what may be wrong?
Thank You in advance!
I would a HIGHLY suggest that you go see a doctor. I have no opinion to say on this besides that because I am not a doctor and have no medical degree, but whenever a period does not start there is something that is causing it. So I would recommend that you go make an appointment with your doctor!
good luck, hope all is well.
im going to college next year
what shots am i supposed to have gotten? meningitis... is that all?
Honestly I don't have a clue. I would suggest if someoen does answer this and says they know not to take thier opinion for it because we're not doctors. Getting shots and medicine all depends on the person, not everyone is teh same. So i woudl highly suggest that you call your doctor and they will pull up you chart for you and let you know which ones you should get.
good luck and hope you enjoy your first year of college.
in the morning before school my makeup looks good. but by the end of the day even if i dont have PE my makeup is off and my eyeliner is all under my eyes and wont come off with just wiping it! i dont have time to keep redoing it so any tips on how to keep it looking good
My advice would be too apply foundation below the eyes it seems to help keep my make-up in place. That's just my personal opinion though and what works on me. Good luck= ]
i live in the UK, and always have a cold. like for months now, ive had a really bad cold. sometimes runny nose, sometimes blocked nose, cough's, etc. the doctor gives me medicine but after i finish it, it just starts again, and sometimes doesnt even go away with the medicine. the doctor says its an infection, bu it doesnt even go away with antibiotics. could it be my immune system? its not the flu because ive taken flu shots. if it is my immune system, should i take those pills for a weak immune system that you can get? thanks :)
I would suggest talking to you're doctor about it. Suggest to him that maybe you have allergies or even asthma. They can cause cold like symptoms like you explianed. I am not a doctor and don't claaim to be, so don't talk my word. I woudl for sure though go talk to your doctor about the possiblity of you havig either one of those and if so he'll be able to help you.
good luck!
k so i've always been weird about talking on the phone. like i get all nervous when i call people and i don't know why. i feel like when i call people they're just annoyed. like me and my boyfriend never really talk on the phone and sometimes i want to but i don't want to call him because i'll think he thinks i'm annoying, and he doesn't really call me. we text. it's not just caling him either it's everyone..what should i do?
I use to have that problem. With even my friends, I just felt like they were like man this girl is annoying me or she's boring and so on. What helped me is that you just have to realize that they are your freinds and boyfriend becuase they like you as you are and they like talking to you and you just have to be confident with yourself and know that they do enjoy talking to you or else they wouldn't even be your friends or boyrfriend. Just think if you were afraid to talk to people in person or text like you are to talk on the phone, how would you make freinds? You wouldn't. Just try and relax and be yoyrself because rememebr who you are is who they like.
Good luck!
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I wanna make my boyfriend a mixed cd. We are in a long distance relationship and I want to mail him a mixed CD that I plan on putting together with great thought. But he's in college and I'm in highschool. Would it seem too "highschool" of me to do that? Do college kids even make mixed CDs for each other? Or is this a cute idea? I want to suprise him with the CD in the mail. Tell me what you think!
I personally think it's a very cute and nice gift. It's very personal of you to take your time to pick out all the songs and make it for him. Shows that you care and you put thought into it, just didn't go out and buy a cd. I always wanted a guy to make me one.lol.I'd say go for it, I don't think your ever too old to get a mixed cd. Mostly everyone loves music, both young and old!
good luck= D
it seems long but it's really not, it's just becuase i had to break it up.
Alright, so me and "Billy" have had this thing? I guess you could call it a thing, but it's been about a month and a half now, and nothing has happened.
My friend told him i liked him, but that was a long time ago, and he said he needs to get to know me.
and at homecomming people were telling me to dance with him, but no one would tell me that he said anything, so i didn't.
i regret that i didn't take my chance when i could have.
and i don't know what to do.
i think he likes me because like he doesn't talk to me unless we are alone and wouldn't that mean that he's nervous he would mess up infront of others?
and, when we are with other people he like totaly ignores me, but like he's saying stuff to me, but he's like hey "sally" guess what, but then he like looks at me?
and when he's on myspace i want to just message hime and be like dude, i like you. and see what he says, but every time he's on i'm just getting on and then like he's signed off and it's that stupid time when you log off but myspace still has your online now icon up.
so he's not really on.
so i don't know.
it seemed like he liked me, but i'm afraid that he stopped because he thought i didn't like him after i didn't dance with him.
but whe recently when some where and we were driving home and i was like taht was lame and he said at least i got to spend time with you.
what does this mean?
blah.
should i wait it out?
if i do that, i feel like he might stop liking me, but i don't want to tell him because what if he seriously doesn't like.
i guess it would be better to find out now, wouldn't it?
well anywho, 15/f if it matters.
he's 15 too
In my opinion I would just say go for it tell him you like him. The worst thing that would probably happen is he could say only as friends. Now would that be so bad? I mean at least you're not stressing out what each thing he says and does mean. You know, at least you would know if there is a chance with him or not. Maybe he'll say he does like you.
good luck.
okay so im a freshman and just started high school. ill just start by saying i was pretty weird in like 4,5,6th grade and then made some friends in 7th and 8th grade was a great year. well now i want to make some new good friends, maybe even a new best friend. most people already have their groups established and i dont really know how to get into them. dont get me wrong ive become "friends" with new people but id like to be better friends soid know i would always have something to do on the weekends and you know stuff like that
I know what your saying. I switched schools when i was in 6th grade and I had to make new friends. I was scared of not fitting it or getting good tight friends. I just was myself, that is the most important thing. Just be who you are. Try and be more outgoing (if you'r not) and make small talk with people. Start by asking for a piece of paper or talk about the homework or the teacher. You might be surprised how that small talk can lead to hanging out and getting to know eachother.
Just my opinions, hope they help.
good luck.
I have been out of high school for 2 years and I think I FINALLY found out want I wanna do. I wanna be some office administration/accounting stuff. But I am so busy with my current job I want to take online classes. Where is the best place to look and how I could get some help deciding on things?
I would check out pennfoster.com They r great! I know from personal experience. I would reccomend them. They can be a lil pricey, but i belive you will get your money worth. They also offer payment arangments. Like $30 a month!
good luck with your career= ]
ok well im normally the one that trys to answer questions but now its me doin the asking im in need of great help.
im so scared.
basicly im on the pop..mini pill i can only take it 2 hours late..an if i take it late im not protected for 2 to 3 days i think.
i basicly went out an i didnt take my pill untill like 2 hours late an that night i had sex with my boyfriend. this was wednesday its now sunday and i have been gettin rele bad cramps for the last 2 days an been feeelin rele sick in the mornings
i jus started loosin blood. but its not my period im not due...i dunno cud i have Implanation bleeding or like cud i be pregnant im worried please any help wud be much appriciated.
x
I don't think this is anything to be sitting around on. It could be serious, I don't know.I would suggest you go to the doctors RIGHT away!
good luck with everything!
Hey, does anyone know any websites you can order clothes from online? I don't want it to be an actual stores website, because i'm tired of having the same clothes as everybody.
Thanks :)
try www.daisymaze.com
cute clothes
they're cheap too= ]
ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!!
Ok first off, if your boyfriends doesn't even talk to you then he's not acting like a boyfriend should. In a realtionship communtiction is a very important key to making it work. If you don't talk then you can't resolve problems, get to know eachother, the list goes on. If you find yourself liking this guy more then your boyfriend and he has qualties that you are looking for in a guy, he seems to be trying to treat you right. Then hey I say go for it. You only live once, no point in staying in a realtionship that you are unhappy in. Do what makes you happy, and if you think you might want to stay with your boyfriend. I would suggest talking to him and asking him why he doesn't really talk to you too much and getting his side of the story on everything.
Good luck. hope i helped some!
I usually eat chocolate when i get them but this time I bought some for a present.
The last time I bought soem and didn't have time to eat them, they melted.
Any tips to keep them unmelted for a week and good by 2nd period?
Would sticking them in the fridge be a good idea?
Sticking them in the fridge is actually a great idea! A lot of people actually do that not only for melting reasons, but they loe the taste of chocolate when it is cold taste more fresh.
Good luck!
hi my name is elizabeth. my question is about what am i doing wrong as to why can i get a boy friend? i have had some boy friends befor not many but some. all i can really remember was how happy i was when i had one. its been almost a year since my last boy friend and i HATE it i mean yeah my school has got a lot of good looking guys. i try to get there attintion but it seams like it never works. i mean im a nice girl,i get told alot im pretty,sweet,and caring so why cant i get a boy friend my longest relashonship has only been months and year sometimes boys message me on facebook or somthing saying thay think im cute and we should hang out. yeah some of them are my age but i dont like them like i dont think there cute. am i just being selfish and thinking about all myself or what? and all i am somtimes is sad when i hang out with my friends and thay have boy friends and im always all alone yeah it gets old and it starts to hurt =[and all i ever want is to just be happy again so PLEAS some one give me some advice.
I know how you feel. I use to want a boyfriend so badly besause I felt left out and weird and always wondered what was wrong with me, I mean my friends all had thier fair share of ones. Then I asked my friend what I could do to meet more guys like her. She said just be yourself, be more outgoing. So actually that very same day I went and was more outgoing and ended up talking to a complete stranger at the store that i thought was cute and after small talk with him everyday i went there (fyi-he worked there) he asked me for my phone number. We dated for about two months. so from all that i leanred you just have to go for it, you think a guy is hot and seems nice at your school go talk to him ask him what he's up to, hint around to hanging out. Just be confident in yourself and it will make guys be confident in you. Do not get so down on yourself becuse you don't have a guy, trust me one of these days you will meet the guy for you. It all just takes time, so let it.
Good luck. Hope I helped some!
EVERYTIME i eat chocolate, i get pimples. What causes this?
I do not know for sure why that is happening. I do know that i seen on the Tyra show that what you eat can not cause pimples. Say you eat chips though, or something really greasy and your not paying attention and you rub your hands on your face after having grease on them from the chips now that can cause zits. What it does is actually well makes your face greasy, which clugs your pores and makes zits.
Hope I helped some.
any one who wants to answer please do i need to find out what she thinks about me b4 its to late
It depends on the girl. All girls are different, just like all guys are differnt. In my case, I will flirt, laugh a lot, smile, joke around, make small talk. It all depends on the guy I like at the time though. With some I just freeze up, get all nervous, can't think of things to say, jsut plain out act goofy. My best advice would be heck just go for it, tell her how you feel. Maybe ask her to the movies?? See how that goes, and go from there.
Good luck!
ok i have celleaour 1 does it cost money to go on the internet
It depends on the plan that you have with your phone. I would suggest calling the place where you bought it and asking them that questions and more details on the plan that you have.
good luck!