I'm here to listen and give advice as best as I can. If I don't have the ability to answer your question, I will tell you straight up. I have been told that I give good advice by my friends and some people I just meet at random. I'm here to answer whatever I can. Thanks for your time.
Gender: Male
Location: East Texas
Occupation: College Student
Age: 19
Member Since: July 15, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: August 11, 2005
Visitors: 2438
|
| |
|
ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more??? (link)
| |
I know what you mean, I'm very shy too. One, don't get mad at yourself, you need to realize that you are on vacation so you will probably never see these people again. It is a normal thing to meet people on vacation, but usually you don't worry about ever seeing them again. You might try flirting a little or something, when the guy looks at you wink at him or smile or something that makes him think he has a chance at getting to talk to you. Most guys will catch onto this and they will initiate the conversation. If you have to start the conversation, just use small talk (what's your name, where you're from, etc.). Be sure in the end, if you feel you want to stay in contact, just ask for their e-mail or number, but the number thing might not be a good choice since you're on vacation and in order to call it will cost a lot due to long distance. Try getting their online name or their e-mail, it's just easier. Girls usually have control of what happens, so use that power to your advantage.
|
alright, i have a question. my parents decided not to go to curch for awhile...but we ARE going back. i HATE the people at that church. none of the kids in youth group are nice to me...or talk to me. and im a shy person so i dont want to go up to them and to top it all off the teachers are MEAN! and they have no clue wat theyre doing! how do i tell my parents i dont like it and i want to go to another church?
p.s. my mom and dad LOVE the church
p.s.s. i rate really high (link)
| |
You need to sit down with your parents, sometime when you are not distracted such as dinner or even ask them to come into the living room and you need to talk to them. Tell them that you need to explain your point of view about the church you are attending at the moment because you don't like the relationship there. Go on and explain to them that the kids in the youth program are mean to you and so are the teachers. Make sure you give support behind your reasons for not liking this youth group and/or the teachers. Then once you have explained your points, ask them what they think. You should be able to talk comfortably with them now and come up with some kind of answer to what you will do. I hope I have helped.
|
|
14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high (link)
| |
Yes, guys will like you. I knew plenty of girls who were athletic such as yourself, and they always had boyfriends. Everything is based on looks in our society thanks to the magazines like Cosmo and all of those other fashion oriented magazines. They have brain-washed our nation that the perfect girl is a toothpick with big boobs and a nice butt, but the fact is they're wrong. Don't change the way you look or who you are for fear of getting a man. You'll get one, trust me, I know tons of girls who are tomboys and they always had a guy. The guys will come around sooner or later, just don't change yourself, be yourself and get a guy that will like you for you, and when you find a guy like that, he won't care about your build. He'll be looking into your eyes instead of at your body. Hope I helped.
|
|
ok so me and my best friend both like a guy and it so happens these guys are best friends but were going into highschool and we dont know if we will end up likeing somebody new..and they want to ask us out but we keep saying we dont know if we want a boyfriend rite now..so should we tell them we want a boyfriend and go out with them or just leave it be and wait for highschool or what? (link)
| |
Most guys when they get a girl wanting to hook up, they tend to hold off until school starts in order to check out any of the "fresh meat" as some call it. it's great that they like you and all, but you might just continue as friends for now so you can see the prospects this coming school year. The best thing to tell them is you don't want a boyfriend right now. That will get them to back off a little and give you some time. Be sure to keep the friendship going so if you don't find a guy when school starts you can still have a chance with them.
|
|
You seem to be really good at this sort of a problem so I am going to ask you! lol haha ANYWAYS..there is this guy that I have liked for a couple of months now, but the thing is I really dont want to like him anymore, because its just taking away my life because all I think about is him..=( And when he went out with this one girl I got really jealous and it hurt me because I told him he should go out with her because like that one saying ( if you love someone set them free) and I did that..but it didnt help me at all and I just became kinda depressed. And the bad thing is he is in a different grade than me so next year we will be in different schools so that is going to make it even harder on me. I have tried to think of things on why i shouldnt like him but I cant think of anything! lol but yeah..what should I do.. I really hate how I am feeling now! THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! ♥♥ (link)
| |
My thoughts are that you need to move on. That road is long and hard, but you will eventually find someone else. The best bet is when you hang out with him and girls hit on him or he goes out with other girls, jeep reminding yourself in your head that it doesn't bother you. I think you might trying dating another guy, nothing big just one date and see if you can get your mind off of the other guy. If not, then you got a problem that only you can fix. If it is hurting you that badly, maybe a seperation from him would help some if this other stuff doesn't work. When you start thinking of him try and think of something else. I guess you could say just to drop it. You don't want to be with him, then you need to realize that and handle this with yourself, in the end it might take some alone time to figure this stuff out. Sorry if I confused you. Hope I helped.
|
|
okay...what do guys prefer? Girls who swallow cum when giving oral sex or girls who spit it out? (link)
| |
It all depends on the guy. Some guys like the "ahh skeet skeet" where they ejaculate on the girl's face, some like the girl to swallow so there is no mess to clean up, and some like it when they spit. If you're doing something like that do whatever you want. I really don't think the guy cares as long as he gets pleasured, that's how guys are. If you want you can ask them, but I don't think they really care as long as they are getting head.
|
|
well lets just say yea im 16 and have sex with my b/f but im not sure if one ball is bigger then the other of if it hasnt dropped yet. should i be afraid he wont be able to have kids if it hasnt dropped yet ? how could i tell which one it could be? or should i just ask him. o and he is 17 gunna be 18 this year. is it bad if on ehasnt dropped yet plz elp me figure it out? (link)
| |
Yes it is a problem if one of the testicles has not dropped, but if his testicle were not to have dropped he would have already had it surgically dropped. His testicles should have already dropped by now. The best way to go about doing this is to ask him. If you are already having sex at such a young age, then you should at least be able to talk about these things with him. I wouldn't really worry about kids with him so far, unless you know without a doubt in your mind you will be marrying. Just ask sometime when you are alone, so as not to embarrass him or yourself. Hope I helped some.
|
|
after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it (link)
| |
I'm a guy, but I actually know this one. The cycle occurs every 28 days. Remember it can fluctuate though. As you get older you'll be able to predict when it will start. Most girls I know are able to do that. Hope I helped.
|
|