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I liked this guy and his sister is one of my friends. Anyways, she told him on Tuesday that i liked him. I don't know how to react. He said that he didn't care and just went on as normal, but i found out this today. Yesterday, I talked to him, but know how to continue to talk to him. We were talking in a conversation and i thought that it was fine, but i wonder if the only reason he was talking to me was because he knew that i liked him. it is really weird. plus on top of that i'm not sure on how i feel about him. i didn't want him to know about it until we became good friends. What should i do? I could barely talk to him when i thought that he didn't know, but know he does i feel.... I don't know how i feel. I need help. I do rate high for appropriate answers.
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~Linda
i knjow how you feel. someone did that to me. i would say talk to him much more often. get a good relationship going. if he originally had just talked to you because he knew you liked him, he will eventually see how awsome you are and he could start liking you more and more if he doesn't already. he could have also talked to you originally because he likes you. so talk to him more often and maybe when you feel your both ready, ask him out.
There's this one girl in my group of friends who moved into town after we all became friends and we sort of accepted her into the group. The thing is, she's always the subject of our joking and teasing, because sometimes she is really bossy and gives empty threats randomly every three seconds (like I borrow her pencil and she says, "Give me back my pencil or I'll punch you soo hard!" even though we all know she never will) sometimes I feel sorry for her, but she gets on my nerves a lot. What do I do?
confront her. it is the onl way for her to know you don't like the way she is treating all of you. but no matter what you do, never play the "we accepted you into our group" card. that makes people feel useless am uncomforable. also, stand up to her. edge her on saying "go ahead" and make her fall into her place, besides, if she ever followed through, she would get in a ton of trouble, so stand up 4 your self.
HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx!
i know where you are coming from. i was in the same position. whatever you do, DO NOT BECOME A SLUT!!!! it will make you loose all respect as a human being. just put yourself out-there. if there is a group is in the halls talking and you want to join, walk up and join the circle and the convorsation, unless it makes you uncomfortable. people like a girl with spunk!!
ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help!
i don't think getting involved is the best idea. let them stay freinds. if kelly is brought to a decision like that, then hopefully she too will see how she should stay away from amy. if you get too involved, she may get uncomfortable and break-up w/ u. if u truly are worried about her and you are unsure if she will make the right decision, kindly confront her. if she does not accept it after you tell her, back-off of the subject. let her think about it.
~givinadvice
this is a really long story. to start out, were all 14, in 8th grade and catholic. well there its this couple (Anne&Bob). theres a girl(cat) whose a friend of ours...ive never really been able to stand her but i do to be nice. well Bob and i think thats Cat is hitting on Anne in a lesbian kind of way. shes always hugging on Anne (well on a lot of girls but now mostly her) and sitting on her lap and playing with her hair.shes kissed her on the cheek before but she never kissed her bf.. she dumped him last b/f for no appereant reason, shes constantly telling Anne that she loves her (anne thinks its just "sisterly" love) but basically, Bob and i have decided that she is bi but isnt going to come out anytime soon b/c her family is full of strict catholics...how should we/i approach Anne about this? Anne and Bobs relatioship is changing b/c anne feels like she needs space after being crowded by Cat all day long. they are good friends and Anne is one of those very emotional type people that is very concerned about being fair and looking at peoples feelings....i just dont want her to get into a situation like that and i doubt her bf would want her to either. btw, anne would never be gay...ive known her about twice as long as Cat. if you have any experience with this please help!
I think you need to confront Cat. if you can't get through to her, or she won't talk to you, or if she is just too anoying while you try to talk to her, talk to anne. tell her this is a=waht you have noticed. if anne thinks it is just sisterly-love and she won't listen to u, just sit back for a few days and let anne adjust to the thought. it may be shocking at first. also, don't bring it up again if she does not aprove of the idea. that could cause a fight. one last thing is that maybe anne likes the attention. or she could be very uncomfortable and be rying to cover it up.
Theres this guy that i like. I see him usually twice a week. Well the think is his mom, she looked find last week but then when i saw her today she looked kinda pale and yellow. Maybe even a little tierd. I dont think shes worn out or anything but i have a feeling she might be sick... does anyone know any sicknesses that have the symtoms of pale/yellow skin?
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I don't know any diseases with those symptoms, but i would advise telling someone like your parents. they can help by calling the docor, talking to the mother, and they can help take the stress from you.
my period is coming up real soon, and every single one of my friends have told me that tampons work wonders. (by the way i have only had my period once before and im 13) but my mom thinks im not ready, and i feel ready, i have tried one of my mom's tampons, there regular, and i got it in like half way, and i asked her for the beginners teen easy slide ones, and she claims that i am to young to start it, and 2 of my best friends already started putting tampons in by there 3rd period. can someone one give me advice on if i am to young? or jus keep practicing with my moms? ill rate
i would advise you to not use your mom's. if you truly feel your mom is wrong, get some of the teen ones with your own money. she can't stop you and you can practice with them so you can have an easier time with it.
My ex-boyfriend and I have remained friends for the past 2 1/2 years after we broke up. We haven't seen each other in 2 years. He lives many states away from me. A year ago, he started living with this girl and had a relationship with her. He broke up with her a couple of months ago. We made plans for me to visit him at the end of May. They got back together a week ago.
I mean, he still wants me to come too. He's still excited to see me. He said she's cool with it too. It's so painful to know he's back with her. But I want to see him, I need to see him.
I don't understand, when all he talked about was breaking up with her for months before he actually did it. He always told me he didn't want to be with her. And so now...? I mean, he told me he stayed with her for as long as he did because of her kid (from a previous relationship). He adores the kid. I think that's a big part of the reason he got back with her.
Is it hopeless for me to even want to be with him? I love him and I want this friendship more than anything. He really cares about his friendships and friends...and I'm a good friend to him...like a best friend...and I know he wants that. But how and why? Why not more? Does more ever come out of it?
Tell him how YOU feel. if he really loves you and not this other girl, he will understand where you ar coming from. you need to be open and make sure he knows that you want to be with him. if he already knows that and he is still with this other girl, he may be very confused right now and may be unsure of what to do. as a freind, you need to support him with whichever decision he makes. Set more trips to visit and be sure he sees how awsome you are. he needs to know you like him, and if he doesn't understand, no matter how hard, you have to move on.
how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??
Being a girl myself, i can truthfully say there are not many ways to tell. see how they react. if they look around at first, as if looking for a freinds advice, they most likely feel bad for you. if they jump to a yes or if they seem in shock and very excited, they obviously really like you!! look for some body langauge before you ask, too. if they seem to stare at you without you saying anything or if they seem to try to get close to you by moving their group, or if they giggle when you walk by, they probably like you, so it wouldn't be out of sorrow.