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Me and my friend both have questions:
My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.
My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?
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okay with your question, I would just ask him about his day. Ask what he did or if you guys have a both are friends with the same person ask if he's seen or talked to him/her. Tell him about some things that you have been doing. Or talk to him about wanting to hang out with him and plan a date or something. And for your friends question, I've had this same problem. My dad is somewhat racist also. And its hard for us girls with our dad's in the first place because they're so overprotective not to mention the boy you are interested in being someone your dad just can't accept. Just tell your dad that nothing is going on between you two and that you're just friends. Or just talk to your dad about it, tell him he's a nice guy and maybe have the guy come over and meet your dad.
-Hope I helped and good luck.
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i'll rate 5s!!!
ok i love this guy. no seriously i do. i dream about being with him practically every night & he's like perfect for me. he's funny, smart, and cute. he's hilarious and cracks me up all the time. but we're not really friends. and right now he has a girlfriend. everyone suspected i liked him but i wouldn't admit it...but no offense but it was soooo obvious i did, i bet even he knew about it. but he asked out this girl anyway. there was a time i thought he might've liked me too because he flirted a lot & all with me. but i flirted back...did i mess up somehow??? i'm crazy for him and i don't know how i'm going to go back to school & see him with that girl. i love him so much i just don't know what to do anymore. i can't move on, i've tried so many times. nobody can be as funny as him...i love guys that can make me laugh. omg please help, i just don't know what to do anymore./ (link)
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Okay, I know it hurts to see a guy that you practically love with another girl. I've been there. But normally when you're younger, relationships don't last long. And you said that he flirted with you? If he flirted with you then oviouisly their relationship isn't that strong so they're probably going to break up sometime. And after they break up, tell him how you feel about him. But until they break up, try to admire him from afar. Yeah, I know that might be hard if you really like him.
I tried, hope i helped and good luck.
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I know people who have been playing the "choking game." Not by themselves though, I know you can die easily that way. What they do is kneel down, and put their head on the ground and take deep breaths. They get up, take a deep breath and hold it, then a friend puts their arm around their neck and chokes until they pass out. Is this really all that dangerous? I've read that people have been doing this since the 1980's, and the only reason its a big deal now is because kids are doing it by themselves and arent letting go of the choke before they pass out. If a friend is doing it and knows when to let go, is it dangerous? (link)
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Oh my gosh yes! I actually was just reading about that the other day. There were stories about this one 13 year old girl that was found my her brother hanging in her closet by a belt and a shoe lace and they knew it wasn't suicidal because they found a note to a friend and it said that she loved "the pass out thing" and another story about a boy. Him and his twin brother did it all the time and his mom found out about it and all they had to say was "it's not like we're doing drugs" but when his twin brother and his mom were in the other room he decided to do the choking game and died. That is VERY dangerous. Even when they know when to let go, there is a chance that they might and it's addictive. If you or a friend is doing it please talk to them and/or get them to stop. I would hate to hear more stories about people dying because of a stupid game. And who ever plays that game really doesn't know what they're risking.
- Hope I helped.
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How old is it normal to be in luv or at least think you r? and what things might make you thnk your in luv, like what things would you do differently if anythin if you r? (link)
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Okay, there is no certain age that you have to be to be in love. But some people think that you need to be a certain age but that's bull. Some things that would make you think youre in love is if you can talk to them for hours and not get sick of them, if you can be yourself around them, but most of all if they make you feel good. But I believe that you can fall in love at any age.
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my daughter(19) has a abusive boyfriend (16).
He is at this point only verbally abusive, but i fear it could turn physical . Tonight they went out with her brother (who is twice the boyfriends size) and her cousin and friends. My son came home very angry telling me how this boy was rude, mean , and hateful to his sister. My daughter begged her brother not to say or do anything. His comment(my sons) to me and my husband was "If the boy behaved this way in front or her 6' 5" 230 lb brother, how did he treat her when they were alone? " This is a great point and scarey thought. My husband is ready to step in . What should we do? I discussed this with her and she admitted he is verbally abusive. I am afraid it will turn into physical abuse. Remember she is 19. She is of age to do what she wants, but has never exercised (or even spoke) of that right. She has always been a good easy child. How can we get her away from this boy? Should we demand she not see him. I have a parental gut feeling he could hurt her. We are also friends of his parents . They are very nice people who would never think their son did any wrong.
My husband wants to talk to them and
end it. What should we do? HELP!!!!!
the relationship is 9 months old and I am positive they are not sexually active. If it turns into a sexual relationship, it could REALLY get bad, and since they are both virgins he will never want to let her go. We Must Act Now! (link)
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You should deffinetly talk go your daughter about her abusive boyfriend. Tell her that she could find someone better than that who doesn't abuse her. Ask her why she wants to stay with someone who hurts her mentaly and maybe physically in the first place. And if her boyfriend is 16 and is that abusive already, think of how abusive he will be when he gets older. But don't demand her not to see him, that does not work trust me. She will just sneak out and do it behind your back and if she does that, and something happens where he hurts her she won't come to you about it because she will think that you'll get mad because she went and saw him in the first place. But if things get bad to where this 16 year old gets physical with your daughter, talk to his parents. They might not believe you but theres no harm in trying.
- Hope I helped.
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your boyfriend goes away for 2 1/2 months and cheats on you with 3 other people ... what would you do if you where 5 hours away from each other that long and you found out? (link)
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Wow, okay your boyfriend was away from you for 2 and a 1/2 months and he already cheated on you with 3 other people! What ever you do, I would not stay with him. He is deffinetly not very loyal to you and doesn't realize what he's giving up. But before you break up with him, find out for sure if it's true because a lot of people like to start drama or think they saw or heard something but really didn't. So as soon as you find out if he truly did, I would say lose the guy. You can find guys that are much more loyal than that.
- Hope I helped and good luck.
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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?
plz help
-anonymous
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I think that you should not wait around for this girl. NO offence, but she probably wants to wait until the first 2 weeks into school to see if she can find someone better. I know you like her but, try not to think that much about her (and yeah sometimes I know that that's inposssible) I think that she will come back if she does like you, but also if she doesn't find anyone who she thinks is better. If you keep waiting around for her your going to be wrapped around her finger and she will know that no matter what she can always go running back to you.
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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone? (link)
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You don't need to tell your dad that you love him if it makes you uncofortable. I havn't told my dad that I loved him sence i was 5 but we still have a really great relationship. The point is, your dad shouldn't have to tell you that he loves you if he shows that he loves you.
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oh of my best guy friends likes me, and he has for a while. at first i didnt like him but now im starting to. but im afraid if we go out, then break up,that i'll lose one of my best friends. but im also afraid if i dont tell him i'll regret it. so my question is shold i tell him i like him or not?
plus i dont know if i really like him, or if im just really flattered that he likes me (link)
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You should deffinetly tell him that you like him. I think that if you start off being best friends with a guy before you date that it turns out to be a really great relationship because you know eachother better. That's what happened with me and my boyfriend.. we were best friends for a year and I told him that I liked him because we would flirt and everything and then he ended up asking me out and this so far is the best relationship that I've been in. And yeah.. sometimes you don't end up being friends with a person after you break up but there always is a chance that you will. So if you decide that you really like him, I say.. tell him.
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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do? (link)
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That's crazy that your friend would make your cry! You should talk to her about it. Tell her you don't want to be treated like that. If she's a true friend she'll understand and try to be nicer. But if she just laughs or continues to make fun of you then she was never your true friend in the first place.
- Hope I helped.
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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help (link)
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I think that you should tell your friend about everything that is going on between you and her boyfriend. My boyfriend is friends with my best friend and if my boyfriend was doing that stuff to my friend I would want her to tell me about it. So think about it from your friends point of view. And think about it this way, if she finds out that her boyfriend has been talking to you so much then she might get mad at you for not talking to her about it. But if you really don't want to tell your friend about it, tell your friends boyfriend to stop talking to you so much. Tell him that you want to be friends with him but you don't think that you should talk or hang out that much considering that your friends with his girlfriend.
-Hope I helped.
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