It won't feel better.. it's not necessarily stupid, but things will get a little messy i have to warn you

In California you do not need parent permission to get an abortion.. heres info about abortions..

http://www.coolnurse.com/abortion_laws.htm

For how much it costs, it all depends on where you go to get one done, if you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic, it should be cheaper and definitely confidential...

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You're usually just laying there, maybe sitting.. most times you'll be making out during it so it makes it less weird.. and he just sticks 1 finger in, after it happens alot then he'll probably use 2.. He just kind of moves them around to pleasure you.. you dont have to worry about doing anything, its something he does himself that you wont have to know "what to do" It encourages guys if you moan a little.. you might just automatically moan because it will feel good anyway .. have fun

Alright, well you could just sit her down and say something like mom, me and ____ are becoming really close, and it would really mean alot to me if you would try to like him and trust him for me, because I want you guys to get along because i love him mom, or like thatt.. or you could be like watching a movie, and see a couple that love each other or a certain scene in a movie, and be like aw that reminds me of me and _____. Just let her know that her approval and trust for him are important to you. Hmm, and to hint about being sexually active... i don't know how you would hint to her that you guys are sexually active without her actually picking it up that you guys are having sex. You could just be like mom, now me and ___ are not having sex yet i promise you that, but we are becoming closer everyday, and i was wondering if you would help me get on birth control just for when the right time does come down the road. or something like that, that is it you want to be on birth control. Or if you see something on tv and people are messing around just bring something up about you and ____. Hmm i can't really think of anything else to hint your mom that. If i think of more, i will of course edit my answer. But in the meantime feel free to drop me anymore questions:-)


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I know you dont want to hear this hun, but your mom needs to know for different reasons. 1- she knows his name, and that is essential info you NEED to know.. 2- she needs to help you with this pregnancy whether she wants to get you an abortion or w/e. and 3- if you dont tell her you will stay pregnant and she will find out when you can see symptoms. just explain to her what happened hun, i know you're scared, its perfectly normal, just do the responsible thing and tell your mom, good luck:-)

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No, guys can't tell whether its a girls first time kissing or not. Well they could think that its her first if she isnt a good kisser and doesn'tknow what shes doing. But that would just be an assumption, theres no way to know for sure.

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Pre-cum is a factor, but chances are its not very likely you are pregnant, i mean its harder than most people think it is to get pregnant.. bur I just answered like a series of questoisn about this to another girl. The questions and answers for her are all in my advice column, so take a look there.. to sum it up

Theres a place called Planned Parenthood where you can get an ECP to make sure you aren't pregnant. Read my answers in my advice column for more details hun:-)

Feel free to put anything in my inbox if you have more questions:-)

No. there is no way to tell for sure whether a girl is a virgin or not. Alot of people think you can tell if they are whether their 'cherries' are popped, which is not true, because they pop from things including tampons, and sports. But ecspeiclaly because a guy couldnt see that anyway, he wont know whether you are or not.. I mean he could think that you are because you 1- dont know what you're doing, or 2- you are really tight... but even if you arent a virgin you still might not know what your doing too well, and if you havent had sex in a long time you would tighten back up. so there is absolutely no way to tell for sure if a girl is a virgin or not, besides the pregnancy factor, you could of course tell shes not hahah.

Feel free to ask me any other questions whenever:-)


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Alright, well actually i was just there today because i decided to be smart and set up and appointment to get on birth control as well. It's free and confidential if you ask it to be. It's called Planned Parenthood. I know they have a site thats www.ppsv.net but i'm not sure if the locations on there are just listed for PA or if they are listed for more states, you'll have to look into it. They told me today that they give you a full exam to determine what kind of birth control you should take, patch, pill, etc.. If you have any other questions about this or anything else just give me a drop in my inbox:-) good luck!

Yes,its completely normal. sex alters your period, it can make it worse, or it can make it better. After i became sexually active my cramps and bleeding became much worse. I'm so happy for you though!!! I bet you feel like a huge weight have been lifted off of you! I love that feeling!

Yeah thats what its called, i couldnt remember the exact name. The day after pill doesnt cost anything as long as you are under 18 because it didn't cost me anything at all, because i got one. Do you hvae any friends that can drive? just ask soemone you can trust, how olds your boyfriend? he could take you if he can drive, thats who took me. If you can't get one, try not to worry about it, i mean im sure you would feel safer with taking the pill, but the chances of you being pregnant are slim unless he came inside of you. Try not to worry hun, it will be alright.

Okay, so you had it sunday.. that means you can take the pill up until tommorrow night at the latest. The pill would just kill the chances of you becoming pregnant. And around where i live theres like this womens health and pregnancy center, where you can go to a staff of all female. its a little place where i live byt he hospital. I'm sure you have one somewhere around where you live, just call your local hospital, or get your boyfriend or friend to. and ask them if there is a place near you that is a womens pregnancy and health center that gives exams, pregnancy tests, and birth control. And if there is, you can go there confidentially. I went and i filled in some papers, and i just didnt write anything concerning my parents down, dont say you have health insurance even if you do, beause that directs to your parents, and you won't need it anyway because you're under 18, and it is free, at least where i live. I just gave them my cell phone number, and for a contact i wrote down my friend and her cell phone number. I understand you don't want your mother to know, i still dont either, and i'm a year older than you. But don't worry it will be confidential your parents will NOT find out unless you give them their names or numbers. If you don't have one, you could always get the ecp's at like a regular hospital, although they will cost and your parents will more likely find out. but im pretty sure they have these places around in alot of cities. Just try not to stress out about it, it seriously is more unlikely to be pregnant then you think, people have to try so hard to become pregnant, and ecspeically if he didn't cum inside of you, i still dont know if he did or not.. that makes it more unlikely... even though there is pre-cum and thats why there would be a chance, but try not to worry about it. call your hospital asap, you'll probbaly have to go tommororw to get it during the day because usually these places are open from like 10-4 or something.. feel free to put anymore questions in my inbox about this or any other things you need help with hun:-) I'm always happy to help

Alright, well I'm guessing he didn't cum inside of you if it was only a minute.. if he did though, because it is possible for guys to cum that fast, then its more of a possibility, if not then its not as much, although there is still a semi big risk. which is why protection should be used next time..

those are just facts not critisizing you because i too didn't use a condom the first time.. actually the first 3 times i hadn't because we never had one on hand, and i never got pregnant, i know it is a dumb thing to do but it happens.. i wouldn't worry about it too much.. and if its within 72 hours of it happening, you can go get a ECP (emergency contraceptive pill) aka morning after pill.. u can take it up to 72 hours after sexual intercourse, i got one the 3rd time i did it, and it stops any chances of getting pregannt, theres womens preganncy centers that give out free birth control to girls under 18, you should look into that, i know i am... i have one close to my house, maybe theres one by yours. call your hospital anonymously, they wont know who you are and just ask them, they'll be able to tell you


good luck hun.. i hope this helped.. try not to worry about it too much, its actually a lot harder to get pregnant then everyone believes.just think about all the women in marriages who get upset because it takes so long to get pregnant, its harder than you think it would be. good luck let me know how it goes

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Hmm, well i know that the four chemical elements in Amino acids are Hydrogen, Oxygen, Carbon, Nitrogen

I know that Protein molecules have Hyrdrogen, Oxygen and Carbon elements..but the relationship between them I'm not sure..

i think that In both amino acids and proteins one end of each molecule is a carboxyl end which is COOH, and the other end is just an -OH ending..

To combine Protein molecules to other protein molecules, and to combine amino acids to other amino acids, you have to take a Hydrogen element off one end and a Oxygen and Hyrdrogen off the other end to put them together, and thats called Dehydration synthesis

I'm learning about this now, i'm tyring to think of what all i can remember about it, if i remember more i'll edit my answer for you good luck!

Aww hun, it's alright, I know exactly what you're going through, don't let the people get to you that are critisizing you for not using a condom, yeah everyone knows that the smart thing would be to use one, but hey everyone also knows that moments just come up and there isnt one on hand. anyway.. I know how worried you are, I've had this happen to me a few different times, everytiem i say i won't do it again, but i know how it just happens... but i stressed out about it alot, and stress is one of the things that puts your period off the most, and hey did you know that sex also alters your period alot? Anyways, it's probably late because of one of those things, i mean i'm not saying there isn't a chance of pregnancy, but its not really likely to happen, although pre-cum would've been present, try not to worry about it, becuase the more you worry about it the later andlater it will come.

I know exactly how you feel about telling your parents, and them thinking you are a good little girl, trust me i know.. i'm sure everything will be fine!

good luck! let me know how everything goes by leaving me a comment in my inbox or something if you get the time!

It actually depends on what state you live in.. some states you dont need parental consent,and others you need it up until you're 18.. and i remember i read about it on a site thats >> www.coolnurse.com you'll have to search through the website to find it, but i'm 100% sure its on there, if i have time later, i'll search for it and get you the exact site and edit my answer to give it to you


okay heres the exact site that tells you the law for every state..

http://www.coolnurse.com/abortion_laws.htm

Hey, you asked me to edit my answer for you and give you a clearer answer then the site did, i read that too and it confused me, but i think that it isn't being enforced legally, but they are trying to pass it, but my guess is that some clinics force it, and others don't..so my best guess would be that each clinic is different, so you would have to call around to see which ones enforce it. good luck if you have to get one

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There's really no set age for thinking about having sex, or actually starting to have sex. Everyone matures at different times in their lives. Some people start thinking about it, or actually doing as young as 13, and some wait until they are in their 20's or older. It's just a matter of your own body. I'm sure everyone starts to think about havig sex once they reach puberty, of course its just a natural instinct that everyone goes through, some people experiment, and some people don't. that's really up to you. There are many factors you should think about before getting involved in sexual activities. 1- are you ready for it, and ready to handle the responsibilities that comes along with it? 2-do you feel comfortable with your partner, because if not, it would be a lot better experience if it was with someone you really were comfortable with.

In my thought, an age would be like 15, I mean theres a few cases 13 or 14 year olds are ready, but usually at only 13 and 14, the minds of children aren't mature enough to actuall cope with what's happening, and if they really want to do it. I would say anywhere from 15-17 is the normal, at least around where i live.


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