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I'm honest, out-spoken, open-minded; whatever you would like to call it. Some people say its being a bitch; save it, I dont want to hear it. I will answer your questions with truthfully. If I hurt your feelings; I'm sorry. But please try to understand I am just being honest. I don't like when people aren't themselves only because they're trying to "fit in". This world starves for some originality. I've been through things; so I can try to relate to whatever. I can see things through other peoples eyes; so I will try to help any way I can. =]


ABOUT ME: Hi! The name's Emily; I have a lot of nicknames though, lol. I'm 14, and a freshman. I'm just having fun in life; it's kinda my thing. You only live once, right? So I'm intend to live it to its fullest! I love to meet new people; it's like finding money! Friends, brothers + music are my life; they pick me up when I'm down. I'm short and quorky; I love it. I make wierd faces; I sing and dance anywhere. So what? I don't get embarressed anymore; natrually because I've too many embarressing things and its a waste of time. I don't care what anyone says about me; I find it funny. I'm clumsy; I'm always falling for something. I'm always cold too; it's annoying and wierd. I wear a bow in my hair almost everyday; I'm sorta known for it, lol. The little things mean the most. I'm way far from perfect; and I wouldn't want it any other way. I make mistakes; everyday. I learn from my mistakes, so I think of them as a good thing. I'm incredebly ticklish; but I secretly love it =]. I want to make sometimes of myself; and I will. I'm going to open up my own cafe; its my dream job and I'll do it some how.


LOVER OF: coffee, green stride gum, vitamin water, candy necklaces, gobstoppers, snickers, zebras, acoustics, hello kitty, cinnamin, semi-colons, Disney movies, old movies, music, sweet-tea, crush sodas, rain, polaroids, pictures, will ferrel, dane cook, tyra banks, bows, tattoos, big beds, pillows, blankies, balloons, bright colors, chapstick, vicks vapor shit, roller coasters, inside jokes, hugs + kisses, snuggling, dancing around + singing into anything, anything comfy, bunny slippers, the little things, knee-high socks.

advice

how much does it cost to live in hillside villas

i just googled it. and it didnt say anything. Stuff only came up about The Hills. You can try some sites where you rent apartments. Maybe you'll have better luck.

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what do i do to get eye makeup like this:

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y47/himynameismarcie/12-10-07_1705.jpg

It looks like black eyeliner. You can use liquid or pencil. I personally prefer pencil, but make sure its sharpened so you can get it more even. She has it on thick. But do it thin, then make it thicker. Put a little on right under your lower lashes in the outer corners. That will make a point on the outer corners as she has. Its also called "cat-eyes" or something like that lol. And use a good mascara, one that makes your eyelashes thick. Put it on the top and bottom lashes. Thats how it looks to me, I hope that helped!

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I get a lot of Deja Vu. In places I've never been before. Like the other day I was spending a day at the school I was going to, you know to see how one day works, etc., and I turned around in my chair, then I just got the wack of deja vu. And then I got it a couple other times. Am I going crazy? I don't believe in reincarnation or anything. What could this be?

I honestly have no idea what it is or what causes it. I get it almost everyday. It's so wierd, I just completely stop and I know what I'm going to do next. I can't even remember when I seen it or anything like that. You can try googling it, or finding some kind of website about it. Thats all I can tell you. lol. I know, that wasnt much help at all.

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okay so im in 10th grade mi a size 3 and b bra
and all the older guys tell me im just so sexy and stuff like that but i just don't understand why they wont try and getting w/ me its like
if im so hot then why not try getting w/ me
and how can i get hot and sexy for them but w/o not being slutty??
or more of what am i trying to saying is how can i get a good boyfriend??

I asked my guy friend and he said; Guys won't just walk up to you and try to get with you, you have to talk to them. Be flirty, but not too much. Don't make it obvious. Playing hard to get works sometimes too, only with certain guys though.

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okay, well i have pretty dark brown hair. not black but dark brown. for some reason i reallllly want to dye it blonde, like not bleach but light yellowy blonde. but i also don't want to spend 45 $ to get it professionally done. i've dyed my hair myself before, but it was just like brown and stuff. for this, should i buy two boxes of the same color and then dye it once one night, and then the next night use the other one and dye it again? or should i just get like a reaalllllly light blonde and hope that it cancells out and comes out not as light? hellllp

You can buy bleach and bleach it out, then dye it blonde. Since your hair is dark brown, the bleach will turn it orangish. I've never actually done it, but my friend did to her own hair. If you're scared how it will turn out; just get it professionally done. you can find some cheaper places.

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15/f

alright so cameron is pretty funny and cool and i want to be friends with him because he seems like such a cool person to hang out with.

but the problem is he can be really "friendly-mean" to people including his friends. so usually when he says something mean to me i ask him about it and he says "thats just the way i am im sorry" or "i was just joking im sorry" and he sounds genuinely sorry.

but the tone in which he says it makes me feel as if i just..fail at something which is kind of sad and irritating at the same time. like usually i dont mind taking that kind of abuse unless i know in my heart that the person was kidding and i have no doubts about it, but in this situation im not so sure since ive only known cameron since school started!

so now i want to stand up for myself cause he said something yesterday that i really did not feel comfortable with but i dont want to start a fight or anything. and if i stand up to him again he might think im just a bitch, which i think he already thinks i am b/c of past circumstances. idc what people think of me, unless the person is really cool, which cameron is.

so what do i do? i just want to be respected but i want to make friends at the same time..

Oh, yeah.. I have guy friends like that. It is annoying but you don't really have to stand up for yourself. Just make a joke right back at him. You won't come off as a bitch and he'll know that you know hes kidding. And he'll know you're kidding too. If he says something offensive to you, then you can stand up for yourself and say something, and hopefully he wont say anything like that again.

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are there any lookalikes where you could put in someones picture and they find someone that looks like them. i've found two but i don't think the person looks like the other person. Only one result I found to be similar. Do you know of any webistes like these?

Thank you!!

I don't really know what you're talking about, but try googling it.

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13/f
my parents won't let me have a boyfriend only because they didnt date people until they were in college. i know they want to protect me but this is really bothering me because everyone else is going off and having fun with there boyfriends when i can't have one.

so does anybody know any things i could persuade them with? i dont want to bring it up like I WANT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. i just want it to kind of..come into the conversation. if you know what i mean, but any help is fine. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

When I was that age, my parents were the same way. I got a boyfriend that my parents liked, and they met him and his family. That changed their mind. You have to prove to them that you're not stupid and you're not going to let guys walk all over you. Another way is to go on group dates with one of your friends, it makes parents feel more comfortable with it.

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ok well when my bf and i like watch a movie or sumthing we get really close and cuddle and he rubs my side and stuff and we kiss some but i get reeeally wet. i dont like this and it bothers me cause i dont like being that wet. anything i can do?? thanx so much :]

wear a pad/pantyliner. But your hormones are racing, so you're just getting turned on

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Oh, here it goes(sryy this is kinda long)... My friend, Lexi, is well liked by everyone. She's really cool, and we are pretty much best friends. No prob, right? Well, a couple years ago, in sixth grade, this girl (lets call her Polly) was my best friend, and in the first part of seventh grade, but now Lexi hates her. so im just sitting there, like what? So theres this other girl(Nikki) who i LOATHE entirely, and my Polly is now best friends with her, and i feel us drifting away, and now Polly is terrible. She took on a totally different personality. Like she is absolutely annoying and loud and obnoxious, and I want to kill this other girl, Nikki. Partly because she copies every little thing people do (my pet peeve) and now Polly is doing that. So I hate her a little, but I still remember when Polly and I were best friends. I want to be friends with her again but i cant be with her when she's with Nikki, so I need to split them up. Although I really want to be friends with both Polly and Lexi, because they both are really cool and nice. But I can't if Nikki is around. Here are my question for you, okay?
1. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2. How should I go about doing this?

Thanks a bunch! 14/f

Oh wow, I know exactly what you're going through, I'm going through almost the same thing. You should confront Polly. She might feel the same way. Just completely ignore Nikki. Sometimes people change an d drift away. Exspecially around this age. And you can be friends with Polly and Lexi. You just can chill with them together.

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I go to a very small high school (100 people)and I'm know as a very quiet, shy person. Usually I'm reading or doing my classwork and not really talking to anyone. I'm probably crazy but I think a very popular, sort of punk rock boy likes me. He always sits very close to me on the bus and in class (not right next to me) and I catch him looking at me from the other side of the room quite a bit. I like him a lot but I'm not really sure what to do. I'm very shy and it would be very awkward for me to just go up and start talking to him. How do I find out if he really likes me? And how do I very subtly let him know that I like him?

If hes looking at you, he probably has an attraction for you, so you're pritty much in to talk to him. Sit next to him on the bus and talk to him about stuff going on in class, just to strike up a conversation. Maybe even ask him for help on it. Then that will lead to talking more, and being friends, and probably more! But it wouldn't be awkward, just go up and say "hi, whats up?" or something like that. Like I said, you're basically "in". Good luck!

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okay.. so im a varsity basketball cheerleader and theres this guy whos a varsity basketball player. well the first time i saw him i thought he was hot.. i didnt really know it at the time but i couldnt stop staring at him and when i had to take my players there stuff on the bus i got nervous around him. well ive never even talked to him--ever!! the only way weve interacted is i asked where one of my players was and he kindof blurted "hes over there" and i said thanks of course and thats it. well usually im shy unless i get to know someone and until i say something to them its so hard to talk to someoone. its like its a barrier. well only one of my friend knows. you see- im a freshmen and hes a junior. he has an older bro whos a senior and hes also on the basketball team. well the one friend who knows doesnt like his older bro. but i know this sounds weird or stalkerish but i had this dream about him. and for some reason 2 of 3 of my captains were in it and one used to talk to him (in real life) (but nothing ever happened)and she doesnt anymore but (in the dream) they were like ugh i cant believe shes with him and all this stuff. well another one of my friends used to talk to his older bro. well to get to the advice part -- idk what to do.. i really want to talk to him but i get really nervous and i dont know what to say. i kindof want to see what my friend who used to talk to his bro says about it but im afraid that it will get back to him.. so what should i do about this?? i really need your advice!!! please answer ASAP!!!!

Just ask your friend, if she is your friend, she won't tell, and it won't get back to him. If you're nervous around all guys, start talking to ones that don't matter so you can get comfortable. just be yourself around him, just a little flirty. Good Luck!

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I have a local GNC near my school and i was wondering what one would recomend for a highschool football player in the sense of protien shakes. I was thinking cell-tech but after some research and seeing the price i decided to forget that idea. I don't want any creatine or drugs, i want something with protien, vitamins, and that works. any ideas?

My brother drinks those all the time. I just checked and he has.. "Sci-Fit. Econo Whey Shakes" Its in Vanilla Ice Cream flavor, which sounds kinda of good. lol. You can probably find that at GNC. I hope that helped.

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For my 14th birthday party i have no idea what to do. its on january 19th.. that will be the day of the party as well since its a saturday. i cant invite too many people either cause im sure my parents would say no and all the food costs and keeping everyone entertained will be hard. ok so i wanna invite like 6-7 girls.

what are really cute ways to make invitations cheaply and creatively awesome? give me sites with ideas or your ideas. and.. for the party idk what will keep guests entertained.. my parents dont like sleepovers so it probably wont happen especially with like 7 other girls.. yea and what time should the party/gettogether start and end..

im thinking of maybe 2-9pm? is that a bit much? cause i like the daytime-ish better than night.

im planning on us watching a movie.. Meet the Spartans i wanted to see but it comes out next week.. so which seems more entertaining? 27 dresses or Juno? and my parents arent contributing much to the party so is it like ok that we go to a movie theater after they come to my house all together in my mom's car and the guests pay for their ticket and snacks?

and the when we come home..i dont know what we'll do. we barely have any games. like we have sims 2 but its hard since everyone wants to control but that can be fun for a bit.. and what else can we do? bake cookies? um.. limbo? dance? what are some great dancey songs for me to use? i'll start making a mix CD. and other cool, fun ideas that will make my party bangin and not make the guests leave!

btw what foods should be there too? i like little cute healthy but tasty things.. chocolate ofcourse, though. maybe like.. icecream bars, pizza, chocolate covered strawberries, etc. and drinks.. juice, water and like sprite or pepsi? and should there be a theme? what? like its right in the middle of winter (my bday) and the closest holiday is like martin luther king jr day lol. give me your best party advice and ideas and.. also where are other cheapish but lots of fun places i can have my party with a couple people?

and on the 18th we have a school field trip and after school theres a school dance. would it be obnoxious or like.. not cool if i wore a happy bday princess crown? i thought it sounded cute.. haha i dont know.. or what else could i wear to show its my bday.. cause my friend's gunna tell the DJ to make a shoutout to me too.. but then its also like.. my bday is tomorrow. but yeah, ha.

thanks a bunch.. you dont even know guys. *tears*

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY! hahah. Don't worry about entertaining, you will pritty much entertain yourselves. But you have to have music. If you're making a cd, put songs that you all know the words to that are fun to sing and dance to! If you have Twister, thats a fun game.
Go see Juno. But don't make everyone pay, like the other girl said. So if you don't want to pay, just have everyone stay at your house, or go to the mall. When you get back to yur house, just order a pizza.. or make your own! You can buy a bag of bagels and make pizza on those. So good. And you can keep melted chocolate on the stove. It has to be on a double-boiler or a big bowl on top of boiling water. I'm sure your parents know about that. But have strawberrys, oreos, etc. that everyone can dip in the chocolate. I wouldn't have a theme. No one really pays attention. For the invitations; put white glitter/sparkles on it to make the "Winter Wonderland" kinda theme. For the dance, I would wear the crown, that so cute. I did the same for my birthday, I wore a bright pink crown everywhere. So I would wear it to the dance, and where ever you go! Plus you get "happy birthdays" and/or compliments! hahah.
Have fun!

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this guy just moved to my skool from oklahoma adn he is way hott, i meet him today and i was talkin to my friend and was like damn hes sexi, and he overheard, and was like ¡wat! but he was happy bout it cuz i could tell he was interested. later on the bus my other friend said she saw me talkin to him at skool and said that hes a man-hoe. i know its bad but like that made him so much hotter to me cuz i love sex, not only was he a man-hoe but hes also goth adn thats even better its like hes my perfect man. cept he dont want a girlfriend he'll only screw you. i really like him, even though i only meet him for like a minute, wat should i do?

If he's in one of your classes or something, start talking to him more. Get his number, chill with him after school. Its fun to go to the movies, but if you want to get to know him, go other places where you have to talk. He may say that he doesnt want a girlfriend, but you can always be the one to change his mind!

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I'm a lesbian, and as a big prank for my first college bout I cut my hair to look like a boy and I plan on going to campus monday as a male. I searched the web to find some good sites on advice to look more like a man but came up with nothing but stuff for men to look like women.
Can you guys offer any tips? Like what to do about these things on my chest? Or how to walk, sound, and dress like a man?

If you never seen the movie "She's The Man", I highly suggest you watch it. They wrapped an ace bandage or whatever around her chest. And just get a button up collered shirt from like American Eagle or something. Almost all guys wear those. And just watch how other guys watch, and clench your teeth, it makes a more masculine jaw. But they really have a lot of good tips on that movie, lol.

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ok my bf and i arent sexually active and havent gone past making out and right now we dont want to go past making out but i want to know how to turn him on and get him excited just by touching him and stuff but not anywhere near his pants lol. and nothing having to do with nibbling anything please haha we havent been dating long and i dont want to move fast. just what i can do thats sexy and stuff and please i know every guy is different i just need suggestions. and also i know i can always ask him :] thanx

What the other girl said was very good! But I read somewhere (maybe Seventeen), that when you touch them, always touch the left side. Because it goes to something in the brain that controls emotions. Even if you're just putting your hand on his shoulder or something. So just touch him lightly on his left arm while making out. You know what I mean? Sorry, that wasnt the best explaination.

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I saw this hilarious commercial the other day. It was for Monticello insurance. It said "priority #43: having a place to store perishable foods" and it shows these kids in a college dorm and the one guy (he's blond) looks in the fridge and starts screaming like a little girl. Then, it says "having a place to store anatomy class stuff: priority #1"

OMG it's so funny! I NEED TO FIND IT ONLINE! I've searched all over youtube but I can't find it! Does anyone know what I'm talking about?

hahahaha. I saw that one! I was cracking up, and my mom thought I was crazy, lol. But other that youtube; I have no idea how to find it. Just try googling it. But hit "videos". I hope that helped a little..

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i just got a new boyfriend (my first)..and we've been together for two days (lol) and i really really really like him. we were holding and caressing each other's hands today, and he told me "kiss meee"...and i was kinda shy...so i turned away and didnt kiss him....now im afraid he doesnt like me anymore :( even though i know he does..lol...since i'm new to having a boyfriend..these little things get to me easily :/ what can I do?

well, if you turned away cause you don't feel ready to kiss him, thats completely fine.. and normal. You've only been together for two days. But if you want to then next time you're with him, kiss him; out of no where! It will surprise him in a very good way. haha.

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I've been searching for about an hour and a half, and no luck. i'm looking for the "one missed call" ringtone. (american movie version, not the japanese)

does anyone know of a website that has the ringtone for free? (i've already tried the link on the movie's facebook, and my phone won't display the final download step. ):

i have a sprint sanyo phoen if it helps any.
thanks so much in advance. =D

try www.phonezoo.com. I didn't check, but they normally have a lot of ringtones.

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