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should i or not?
okay.. so im a varsity basketball cheerleader and theres this guy whos a varsity basketball player. well the first time i saw him i thought he was hot.. i didnt really know it at the time but i couldnt stop staring at him and when i had to take my players there stuff on the bus i got nervous around him. well ive never even talked to him--ever!! the only way weve interacted is i asked where one of my players was and he kindof blurted "hes over there" and i said thanks of course and thats it. well usually im shy unless i get to know someone and until i say something to them its so hard to talk to someoone. its like its a barrier. well only one of my friend knows. you see- im a freshmen and hes a junior. he has an older bro whos a senior and hes also on the basketball team. well the one friend who knows doesnt like his older bro. but i know this sounds weird or stalkerish but i had this dream about him. and for some reason 2 of 3 of my captains were in it and one used to talk to him (in real life) (but nothing ever happened)and she doesnt anymore but (in the dream) they were like ugh i cant believe shes with him and all this stuff. well another one of my friends used to talk to his older bro. well to get to the advice part -- idk what to do.. i really want to talk to him but i get really nervous and i dont know what to say. i kindof want to see what my friend who used to talk to his bro says about it but im afraid that it will get back to him.. so what should i do about this?? i really need your advice!!! please answer ASAP!!!!
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It does not matter about the friend...whatever! This is about you going for what you want and having the confidence you need to approach anyone. Pretend you are not ga-ga over him for a second and remember he is just a stinky gross guy...like all the stinky gross guys out there...a human being, right? Staring from afar is only cute and mysterious for so long...you need to start talking to him directly. What is wrong with a quick, "Hi there, nice game. Liked your moves." Start with what you two have in common! Then build up and ask other stuff from there...like is there life outside of B-ball? What other interests does he have? Tell him about your interests, too. Find something else in common or try something new together...suggest he give you a lesson in B-ball and you can help him with english...or whatever. Get your game face on, and go for it.
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Just ask your friend, if she is your friend, she won't tell, and it won't get back to him. If you're nervous around all guys, start talking to ones that don't matter so you can get comfortable. just be yourself around him, just a little flirty. Good Luck!
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