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help finding a guy
okay so im in 10th grade mi a size 3 and b bra
and all the older guys tell me im just so sexy and stuff like that but i just don't understand why they wont try and getting w/ me its like
if im so hot then why not try getting w/ me
and how can i get hot and sexy for them but w/o not being slutty??
or more of what am i trying to saying is how can i get a good boyfriend??
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These guys are probably shy. Some of them are sure to like you. If if you like someone flirt, but it is important you don't change who you are. Hang in there. Good things come to those who wait and when you least expect it, ~mr. right for you~ will come along. You don't want to go through every ~mr. right now~ if you know what im saying. Don't just try to get with any random guy to be able to say you have a boyfriend. That won't make you feel better about yourself and if one tends to rush into any relationship, it won't work. Wait until you really care about someone beacuse relationships take a lot of hard work and sacrifice. I know you feel like you can't find it rite now and its not going to happen unless you change, but don't worry. Love will find you.
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I asked my guy friend and he said; Guys won't just walk up to you and try to get with you, you have to talk to them. Be flirty, but not too much. Don't make it obvious. Playing hard to get works sometimes too, only with certain guys though.
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Well, when I was in high school years ago. I learned that rejection was hard to deal with. Understandable so. Why? Well, we are used to living with our parents at that age who except us no matter what and rejection is unheard of. I think the guys telling you this really would like to go out but are too scared that you'd reject them. If one of them happens to say this and you like them, tell them you like them too and offer a compliment in return. That may just give them enough courage to ask you out. Far as rumors go, people who start them don't have lives. Don't be bothered by rumors. If you know it isn't true, you've got nothing to worry about. Most folks like that wind up living lonely miserable lives.
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