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I love to help people and a lot of my friends at school like my advice! If you ask me a question I hope you'll like it too! I am a middle school student and my interests are volleyball, tennis, cheerleading, and hanging out with my friends! Ask me anything, and I'll be glad to help!
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what is the best color/ style of shirt to wear for picture day?
im a 16 year old girl and i have medium/light skin, kind of tan. i have hazel eyes. the background for the photo is a blueish color. what will make me look good? lol please help.

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Real Light periwinkle looks really good on beige skin! Your hair would look the best either down or in a side ponytail if it's long enough. Keep your makeup subtle but pretty, only focusing on one feature like your eyes.


I love glitter on my eyes but i use body glitter and i ran out, i would really like soemthing to put on my eyes that is glitter. NOT SHIMMER and and not eye shadow, so does anybody know any products that are just glitter for your eyes that are easy to put on?

Thanks!! (link)
At walmart the mary kate and ashley brand there has LOTS of glitter! I got some pink, blue, silver and gold from my friend and they're very easy to put on and look really good! Hope I helped!


Well every school year I always have a bunch of books I have to take everyday. Does anyone know away I can take all my books without having to carry a huge book bag? Any tips on looking more fashionable in a school with uniform? But the main problem is how to carry around all those books. And please dfont say to get a locker because I still have to carry alot of books home with me. (link)
Get a really cute messenger bag that complements your uniform. It helps you carry your books and adds a nice touch to your uniform. For more orginization- get an accordian for your loose papers and homework so they don't get lost in the bag with the books. You could wear matching jewelry or makeup that looks nice with your uniform, and try to wear your hair differently too. Hope I helped!!


I've been researching jobs that I would like to pursue, and secret shopping is one of them. While researching, I found an article of a woman who makes about $6 thousand a month by secret shopping and gets free groceries, food, and travel! Being a secret shopper full-time would be great if her story is realistic.

I am willing to put in the time for this job, no doubt. I live in Atlanta and haven't applied yet. Do you think that it is possible to make a living the way that that woman has? If so, how possible?

*I am currently unemployed* (link)
I think that would be a great job, but only if you want to do it. I'd go for it and you could make it to where that woman is if you worked to you full potential. But that woman has probably been working for her employer for quite a while. You wouldn't start out with as many free groceries and travel, or as much money, but I think it's a great job. It does require your full attention though, so don't get distracted!


Alright, I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm from Canada. I like this boy alot but I'm afraid to ask him if he likes me. He knows I like him but I don't want to ask him and get rejected. I'm with him all the time and he makes me laugh and everything but I don't know. I also heard my bisexual friend likes him but I don't know. (link)
If he knows you like him and he liked you back the same way, I think he would ask you out. You can still ask of course, though. He just might be shy and feel the same way you do about being rejected. I'd go ahead and ask him if I were you.

yesterday is gone, and tomarrow is not promised. so do it today and feel better with yourself.


So i just put on a temporary tatoo, and i love it but i hate how they come off like right away.
Is there anything i can put on it or anything i can do to make it stay longer?
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If you coat it with a nail polish top coat after you dried off from a shower it will help stay on alot.


My Mom and my Dad havent been on talking terms since i was 5, and my mom somehow blames it on me. She acts like i have owe my entire life to her, where as she doesnt even treat me right, being only 19 now, i really dont know how to deal with her. She is unhappy because of my Father who doesnt care about her, cos she hasnt been the best wife to him, since she keeps bitching about my father to every second person she meets, she says shes unhappy cos of him and blames everyone else for all her mistakes and refuses to accept the truth. She makes the silliest things into the biggest issues ever and makes my life living hell. She blames her missery on everyone around her, and she doesnt realise that shes making herself miserable. She needs help and refuses to go see a shrink. I really dont know what to do.. It's driving me insane. I've tried talking to her and telling her how i feel but she doesnt seem to be botherd.
According to her she never does anything wrong, and the way i feel means nothing to her. I cant think of anything else. Sometimes i wish i could just die.. (link)
Go talk to a shrink, not for you for your mother, and as her/him how you should get you mother to come out and see her/him. Also you can see if the shrink can meet you somewhere public instead of an office, like a restaurant. Then you can "take you mother to dinner" and happen to run into a shrink that you know. He'll talk to her and then she'll maybe see that she could use her/his help. And don't die.


I'm going to my best friends bat mitzpa. I'm wearing a black dress with a black purse, black open toed shoes, and possibly a little black makeup. Should I wear black stockings? I'm African-American and 5'5. If this helps at all, I have a scar pale scar on my foot, nice toenails, and im not dark at all- im a little darker than chocolate milk but lighter than milk chocolate. (link)
No, I really think you shouldn't. The black look sounds really nice and sophisticated but the black stockings might overdo it.


im m 17 and im going out with a girl who is 15 we have been going out 5 months 18 days now and we use to spend every minute we could together and we both say we love eachother alot (which i am sure i do) but recently shes been wanting more time with her friends but thats not wat bothers me, wat bothers me is that now even when i make plans with her, l8r on if her friends make plans with her shell jsut skip mine and her plans and jsut go off with her friends, ive talked to her about it last night and i believed everything was alright again she said she wanted to c me i said i wanted to c her so i told her not to make plans for sunday cause wed do something she said ok then she had to go so she said shed call me today(saturday), but it seems she didnt call me and she has gone off with her friends again, and she has plans with her friends tomorrow aswell totally making me feel insignificant compared to her friends like she has mostly this week. earlier on in the week i was talking to her and she could come up with anything to say all she said was "then y dont u just dump me, i dont want break up but if its really that bad then....?, i need to know is she leading me on?, is this a test?, she says she loves me still but how do i know shes telling the truth?, wat do i do? i love her so much but i dont know how much of this i can take, wat should i do? (link)
If she actually wanted to break up with you, she'd do it. Maybe something important is going on with her and her friends, but if it's not you really need to tell her that you don't like just being there when it's "convenient for her". If she doesn't seem to care, then you don't need her. you should dump her.


my boyfriend is extremely stiff.. like i don't really think he knows how to be a boyfriend ;] lol it's really cute because it's hard for him to even talk to me.. and he's 16 .. so i'm planning on trying to loosen him up a little bit.. i mean it's really sad. yesterday he gave my mom a handshake and i was like "mom, you got more action from him then i did!" like he doesn't know what to do when he's around me.. so my question is.. is do you have any ideas on what i can do to make him loosen up a little bit ;] 5 for a thought =] (link)
Just kind of give him a... "push", maybe like you hold his hand or give him a hug. Then see his reaction. If he seems offended, simply ask him why you can't show your affection.


ok here's the deal.......me and my boyfriend have bin going out for 5 months now and it would have bin 6 if we hadn't we hadnt bin waiting to make sure thats what we wanted and going out with the same guy for that long is a recorde for me lol anyways i know i'm totally and completly in love.....my question is......am i stupid to think this guy is the one......some people say i am because i'm only seventeen but my mom described to me when she met my dad she just knew and thats how i feel like i just know he's the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with......what do you think?

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I'm not sure, you could be in love but don't go off and run away together or have sex or anything. You should tell him you love him but don't say you want to spend the rest of you life with this guy, a lot could go wrong. Sorry to be so negative, but keep me updated with this whole thing!
x0x Elle x0x


i wear a padded bra..so my boobs look bigger than they actually are.is there any way to make my boobs look bigger in a bathing suit so it doesnt look like i stuff my bra or something? (link)
A lot of bikinis are padded, they are at Aeropostale and Pacsun.


ok well i wanna get my bellybutton percied .. my parents are leaniant on it .. and i bet if i keep asking ill be allowed. They told me i could because

1. im too young [ im 13 - turning 14 ]
2. cause i can get it infected [ well you can get your ears infected too and i have 4 ear percings ]
3. they dont know where to go so it will be accaully clean and secure
4. it hurts

can you tell me if its hurts alot and where to go to get it done and how much it will cost? thank youu! (link)
It hurts. you can't go in a pool for like a long time. Belly button infections are said to hurt more than ear infections, too.


I think my freind is telling this girl (whom I don't really care for) stuff about me and this guy I like. I can I find out if she is spilling the beans? (link)
you should have another friend go up to the girl and ask if she's heard anything about you and the guy. Then have your friend say something like, "oh that sounds true where did you hear that?" and she might tell. If your other friend DID tell then confront her.


I seem kinda shy around him i mean yeah we've kissed and stuff but how can i be less shy? i always seem like the shy one.

Thanks for the help!!!! (link)
When your around your boyfriend, pretend like he's your BFF not your BF. Act like you do around your friends, or at least try your hardest to act like that. You probably will not seem like the shy one after that.


Hey, I'm getting my haircut tomorrow and I know I want something a little different, but I have no idea what! I was thinking of maybe short layers in the front and long layers in the back, but I'm not sure. Right now, my hair is about 3 inches below my shoulder, and I want just 1 inch off. I also want it to be straight. If it helps, here's a picture of me: http://www.myspace.com/go_weasel

Thanks, I'll take any suggestions! I'm really bad with hair, so please help! (link)
I think the short layers in front and long in back would be cute, and try sweep bangs from right to left across your forehead.


i am going to ask out a girl tommorrow and i need adice on what to do and to keep her not bored. answer me right away cuz i need help quick. this is my first time so im really not a pro at this. i might treat her to friendlys so i need some advice quick. thx (link)
I'm so sorry I didnt get to see this sooner! But if you haven't asked her out yet: Girls LOVE getting presents, if you DO but her something, make it simple. You haven't gotten serious yet. A red rose would be really nice, and she would LOVE it! Then take her out somewhere, like the movies or to the mall. She should be REALLY happy then! (sorry this took so long :(! )


ok- my room is completely a mess and i have all this random stuff laying around. are there any cute ways to make storgae units or something? i'm thinking about painting a few yard sticks and then hot glue-ing close-pins on them and hanging stuff on there but anyting else? thanks (link)
Organized Living stores are really good! They have basic storage units, but also REALLY cute ones too! They're pretty cheap, as well.


how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance (link)
Don't put it under the lashes, put it on top of your lashes. (Kind of on the inside of your lid) The kind of liner that I use (its so good) is Laura Mercier in Black Violet. Lancome also works, but don't use Estee' Lauder... those break very easily.


is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
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I used to think it was really weird and wrong, but now I don't think it is. If you really like him then it shouldn't be a problem.




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