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my girlfriends anorexic. she weighs 75 pounds and shes seventeen. i try to get her to eat but she always tells me to fuck off. you can pretty much see every freaking bone in her body. she looks like shes gonna drop over dead any day. i wanna help her but i dont know what to do. she always accuses me of hinking shes fat also. which isnt true everytime i see her i tell her she looks too thin and to eat something. what can happen to her body if she doesnt eat and only weighs 75 pounds? and alos how can i help her? thanks.
the only way you can help her is to tell someone right away. if not, she is going to get extremely sick and it's very possible that she could die. people with anorexia tend to deny that they have it. the way she sees herself, is that she is "fat," and will most likely get angry at anyone who tries to get her to eat. she needs help and needs to see a doctor. why the other people she knows havn't done anything about it yet is beyond me, but you neeeed to tell her parents, a doctor, a school councelor, anyone. she might be mad at you for it at first but in the long run it'll save her life.
good luckkkk ♥
i feel horrible. its my 14th birthday today && i feel really bad cause i had a sundae at Friendlys. I ate a bowl of cereal in the morning (SPECIAL K) then ate hardly any of my lunch salad. I finished the whole birthday sundae. when i got home, i had two pieces of bread & olive oil. i didnt know what i wanted for desert & i kept opening things & then being grossed out by myself & throwing them out after taking a few bites. i made hot cocoa at first, but once i got past the marshmellows i dumped it down the drain. i diet all week & on the weekend i tend to splurge alot. it doesnt totally derail me-my stomachs flat again the next morning. but i think i have a problem with food. wheneve i indulge, i think i want to "make it worth the mistake" so i tend to eat alot of junk. my diet worries ruined my birthday & i need help! now
i think you're just worrying about what you eat too much. learn to eat healthier and exercisee, which are the two main things to (in a healthy way) maintain a good weight.
by the way, there's nothing wrong with eating a sundae! it's fine to eat junk sometimes, especially on your birthday!
:)
Hey, Are you from Canada?
Just wondering because you answered one of my questions..
oh haha nopeee, i just typed in the info you gave on google and it popped right up :) amazing, huh? lolll.
How do you shave? Can you list the steps? And also, does it hurt?
haha i had the sameee problem when i first started shaving. i'm guessing you're talking about your legs? well it's pretttty simple.
first it's a good idea to use warm water which will open up your pores. then use either shaving cream or soap to make your legs smoother to shave. take the razor and then start from the bottom and work your way up. (haha, you're probably thinking like, "yeah i know that but how exactly!?" but it pretty much comes naturally, you'll know what i mean when you do it) be careful especially around your knees and ankles, you're more likely to cut yourself there. if you do cut yourself it willl bleed a lot but that's what bandaids are for :) once you're done rinse off your legs and dry them. it's probably a good idea to put on a moisturizing lotion, and you're doneeee.
good luck hope i helpedd
I am 13 and i can't stand my body, my legs are to short. I am the shortest one in my grade, only 5 foot and i don't no what to do, my family doesn't exactly have the money to give me a shot that will help my growth and they say that i am normal height but i had my period over 2 years ago and i'm not supposed to grow anymore. Is there anything i can do that will make me a normal height?
there's nothing you can really do to make yourself grow, but it's not a big deal at alll, really! i'm one of the shortest girls in my grade too! and i loveeee it i make fun of myself for it everyday :) haha just don't let anyone put you down and laugh it off, being short is funnn. i actually know a few girls who are seniors and not even 5 foot. trust me, you'll grow eventually, you're only 13, don't worry about itttt!
♥ hope i helpeddd
I would like to loose 15 pounds before my graduation, if i only drink water and don't eat anything will it make me loose wait or just make me gain it?
not only is this an extremely unhealthy way to lose weight, but you will also eventually gain it all back. instead, eat healthy and exerciseeee.
:)
Can someone PLEASE tell fill in the blanks for me?!
"The good old ____ game is the best ____ you can ____."
Its the National hockey theme song in Canada. Thanks!
The good old hockey game is the best game you can name.
:)
Im 16/f. And I weigh 47 kg. (103 pounds if I've converted that right.) Is this normal for my age??
well if you're 103 pounds and are 16 you're most likely underweight. everyone i know that age is around 120-140. but, it's hard to tell without knowing your weight/body type. try looking on toneteen.com, they have a bmi (body mass index) calculator which will give you a more acurate answer.
hope i helpedd :)
I am labelled as a bitch. Only when im mad though. When people piss me off, i snap at them but thats all. Now im labelled at a bitch but im really not. I am always nice to everyone but people like to run their mouth and say shit to me so obviously im going to say shit back. I never get into fights just little arguements sometimes. I dont know how to solve this problem..how can i let people know im really not a bitch?
everyone can be a bitch sometimes. but you might be labelled as one because maybe you're being bitchy a lot and you don't realize it. just try to be nicer to people, and try not to get into so many of those "little arguments." people are gonna talk shit and you're gonna wanna say it back which is fine, but really if you think about it, what does it matter what they say anyway? try not to let it bother you as much, and ignore them.
hope i helpedd good luck♥
do i have a chance being a cheerleader if i cant do tumbles,pushups (i can do like 2), cartwheels or roundoffs, and i wanted to go for the 9th grade team? and i'm not light enough to be flipped in the air. should i still try out? but i dont want to waste my time or embarse myself... be brutely honest..thanxs
well it depends on your school, at my school they have a jv and varsity team. you tryout and if you don't make the varsity team, you get put on the jv team.
now this may be different at your school, and you said you were trying out for the 9th grade team. i'm not guaranteeing anything, but i think it's worth a shot trying out, cause you never know until you try :) if you're unsure you should ask your friends or any cheerleaders what they think, they'd probably know best.
good luck!
i weigh 130 and i'm 5'5 with a 26 inch waist. im not sure if it is or not. so, is that normal, or not?
i checked toneteen.com, your bmi is 22 which is healthy :) perfectly normal♥
ok so i like this guy and i kinda want him 2 notice me. but the thing is that i am NOT pretty. so what can i do 2 make him notice me? he's in a different grade so it'z kinda hard 2 talk 2 him and i don'T wanna talk 2 him yet , i just want him 2 notice me for now...
help??
CONFIDENCE! looks aren't everything hunny. sure, they might matter a little, but you need to talk to the guy! he'll never notice you if you don't say a word to him. talk to him and get to know eachotherr and just be confidentttt in yourself.
also, if you wanna make yourself look prettier put some good makeup on if you don't wear it already, it can work wonders♥
good luckkkkkk!
ok there is something that is reeaaalllyy getting on my nervs...
i have really long thick healthy black hair until my ass...yeah great huh?
soo every girl is telling me i should cut my hair short. it is REALLY buggíng me...this may sound kinda weird , but my hair looks great long!!! and it'z not like itz dry and ugly! all the guys love my hair and tell me i should neva cut it short , but all the girls keep getting on my nervs with it!! i even postet a question here about what kinda shampoo i should use for my hair and i said itz long and the first thing i get is: CUT YOUR HAIR SHORT!!
wtf is peoples problems and why does every1 hate long hair except for the guys??
hahaha my hair was the EXACT same way for the longest timeee. but alllll my friends bugged me to get it cut. so eventually i did, about a month ago. and i absolutely HATED it cause i used to love my long hairrr. so if you love it then do nottttt cut it cause you'll miss it :) haha and everyone says "yeah, it's just hair, it'll grow back" but it's just so different and i highly recomment NOT cutting it, at least not too short. an inch or two would be okay, cause it's healthy to get a trim every once in awhile, but don't cut it like, shoulder length. and, you said the guys love it, that's always a plus!
but, if you do decide to eventually get it cut short, donate it to locks of love. it's an organization for kids with cancer who lost their hair, and it's a great thing to do :)
what are some bands that sound like:
plain white t's
panic! at the disco
this providence
the classic crime
=]
i LOVE "fueled by ramen" bands. fueled by ramen is a record lable, and all their bands are great! this providence and panic! at the disco are fueled by ramen bands and one of my personal favorites, cute is what we aim for, is too :]
a great site to find bands is purevolume.com, i go on it all the time! there's TONS of indie/alternative bands which sounds like what you're looking for.
good luckk :]
i got a cell phone for my 15th bday (YAY!) and when i go on AIM whenever i type something 2 my friends, like when i try 2 type 1 letter, it shows up as a whole wrd! and its not the wrd i want it 2 be eother! so if i want 2 type something i cant because 4 each letter it shows up as a complete wrd! how do i make it so i can type 1 letter at a time?
(sry if its confusing!!!)
thnx in advance!
okay so your phone is on "t9" mode. basically it's like a dictionary, for example if you hit the number 4 twice, you would get "Hi." it uses the numbers you hit to take the most probable letters to make a word. haha it's kind of confusing to explain.
anyway, i don't know what exact phone you have. but, on mine all you have to do is press the bottom right button with the # sign on it, which changes the different ways of writing. (capital, lowercase, t9) just try pressing that button a few times and test it out, or depending on your phone it could be the bottom left button.
that should do the trick, if you need any more help just ask :]
Okay, so i have very hairy armpits. I want to get rid of the hair, but i dont want to tell my mom because i'd be totally embarassed. And also, i dnt want to shave or wax it. What can i do? Is there anything i can do to get rid of hair?
just tell your mom! it might seem embarassing but most girls get rid of their armpit hair, it's perfectly normal :] i shave mine, and yeah it's annoying but it gets rid of it, haha. i havn't tried waxing it and honestly i don't know anyone who has, everyone i know shaves theirs. just try shaving it, i'm sure it'll be fine :]
So theres this guy that I once went out with but he cheated on me with a girl not even a week later. We got into an argument and he said that he didn't regret it. This happened almost a year ago and he had had a girlfriend for 4 months and recently broke up. Now he claims that he was really sorry and only yelled at me because he didn't konw what else to do. I know it sounds stupid but he was talking to a friend of mine and she sent me the conversation and it seems as if he's being sincere and honest. He said that he regrets breaking up with me and cheating on me and its the biggest mistake of his life. At first I said serves him right, but now that we talk alot more, I'm starting to like him again.. I know its wrong and some people think I should give him another try but I'm kinda nervous and I kind of like him but I don't. It's hard to decide what to do and hoping someone could help me and maybe relate to my problem. Also, that girl he just broke up with after a rocky 4 months for them went out with him when I liked him. So do you think it's alright if I were to go back out with him? Would that be something really backstabbing to her? I'm also afraid that he heard that I would do stuff with him and maybe the only reason that he's talking to me alot more is because he just wants action. I'd rather be just a hookup then being used and pretended that he likes me. Sorry this was so long, haha, but I appreciate the help! Oh and I'm a 16/f :)
wow, i was in a similiar situation about a year ago. and trust me on this, do NOT give him another chance. once a cheater, always a cheater. this guy sounds like a complete idiot. i don't know if it would be really "backstabbing" his ex, but she'd probably be upset, it's not worth it.
there's plenty of other guys out there sweetie, just give it a little time and the right guy will come along :)
lately i havent been eating anything because the public pool opens in 2 weeks and i dont want to look fat in my swimsuit. please help me. i dont know what to do.
look hun, it's normal to wanna look good in your bathing suit, but not eating isn't the way to do it! not eating is unhealthy and could possibly lead into an eating disorder. instead, eat healthier foods and cut down on junk food. exerciseeee! doing crunches always helps me.
for more info, try toneteen.com it's fabulousss :)
and EAT !!!!
good luckkk
Okay, I really like this guy whos my friend. We've been friends for about ummm lets see a year now. Hes been looking at me when he thinks I'm not looking. Okay, and I'll do the same. I'm pretty sure he likes me since all my friends say so. If he does what do I do. He has a girlfriend. But it doesn't seem like he likes her. Sooo what do I do?
k so, from what you've said here, he likes youuu! but of course he has a girlfriend. maybe talk to him about it, but at the same time you don't wanna just go and break them up. give him time, i'm sure they won't last long. you've been friends for this long and he seems to be showing the signs of liking you, i'm sure it'll work out :)
good luckk!
Ok well heres my sittuation.
I have a bf and hes in anyones eyes great. He treats me very very well, is very nice, and i can tell him anything. The thing is, I don't really like him that much. We've only been going out for a week. And i really didn't want to go out with him in the first place but i just couldn't turn him down b.c hes super nice and he really likes me.
I know that sounds weird but this kid is seriously really really nice and sweet - i have no idea why i dont like him like him.
Well yeah so theres him which i barly even like, and then we have an ex that i like very very much. Its been over a year, and not too long ago we tried starting up things but he just stopped talking to me pretty much. But i relaly really like him, like A LOT. I really just want him back. But we never really talk and hes kinda a douch half the time. SO yeah your prob. wondering why i don't like the nice guy, and do like the dick? welll i ask myself the same question.
Urgh it just stresses me out and i have no idea what to do :/
well the first guy sounds super sweet! but you've only been going out for a week, so i think you just need to give it a little time. if you want to, you could also tell him that you want a break and just be friends for awhile, and see where it goes from there.
about the other guy. well you havn't been together for over a year, so think to yourself what went wrong the last time. in my experience, exboyfriends usually don't work. but i guess everyone's different, and you seem to like this guy more. so, maybe you should just be single for a bit to figure things out.
whatever you choose to do, make sure it's what YOU really want. hope i helpedddd! :]