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i have four best friends and all five of us hang out in a group all the time. two of them are guys and two of them are girls. anyway when one of the guys isn't with us my other friends talk about how they think the guy who is gone is gay. (i know for a fact that he isn't because i've done stuff with him and no one knows...) but it really doesn't matter if he is or not i just don't think it's right that they do this. should i tell my guy friend what everyone else is saying about him...or would that just cause trouble? (link)
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i think if i were in your shoes i would tell him
he needs to know and if you dont tell him then it may end up bad, you know the kind that turn around and slap you in the face.
so tell him or don't but just think which would you rather have done to you?
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how do u know if u have a phobia of something?
Are there like symthoms. And any ways to get rid of it? (link)
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well all i can say is you'll know when you have one
mostly likely youll freak out, scream, cry, maybe get angry, but all that kinda stuff..you know?
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Is it bad to feel good when guys look at you or try to talk to you when you have a boyfriend.Not to want to want a relationship, But just look at you and think you some what attractive.I sometimes you know, look at guys.Just think their cute or whatever.Not to where I forget I'm taken and want to hook up with them, But just to look.And want them to look at you.I kind of feel guilty though for even looking or somewhat liking when cute guys look.Is this wrong or what.Also, is it bad to still have feelings for you ex and your boyfriend not know.That your ex wants you back , But your with someone.Not that you want to be with your ex... basically because you KNOW he did you wrong and you just don't picture yourself with him EVER.I still think about him and love him and stuff.Just I know nothing will never be.Obviously I know that because I'm with someone , trying to move on.I still keep in touch with my ex.. But it seems like he can't accept that I'm with someone and happy.He's getting desperate because his girlfriend dumped him.I don't know what to do anymore.I need some help...anyone know what I can do and tell me if what I first said was wrong.. and what I can do about the ex? (link)
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1st dont feel quilty for talking to another guy
2nd its fine to look you just can't buy anything
3rd its okay for you to have feelings for an ex your boyfriend doesnt need to know all about your past relationships
but if you feel the need tell him, it might help, but youll know whether you should or not
4th try and forget about him you have someone else and if you cant get over him maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break and then you can see which one is best for you
hopefully i helped
abby
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my dad abuses me. mentally and emotionally, sometimes even beats me. i have asked this question before. i have gone to all the hotlines on the internet, but i am scared to tell anyone.
if it helps, my dad was beat and touched by his parents. it has been going on for....4 years maybe. well hes done it all my life, but not this bad. he makes fun of me all the time, so does my stepmom. i live with my dad, but im going to try to go to court to live with my mom. please help me. (link)
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personally i would tell my really really close friend's parents
no one deserves this and if he makes you think that you made him do it forget about him
you need to get help and you can't just live your life like this.. im guessing your young and you should be happy not sad,
get out of the house
forget about your stupid dad and stepmom
im sure your mom will get you
abby
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okay sorry in advance for this being so long..
but i really need help with something.
i'm a 13 year old girl and i feel very..worthless right now.i've never had a boyfriend..never kissed anyone.or anything.
the most i've done was hug one.one.
i'm in love with this boy that doesn't really know what i'm like..but he doesn't like me much because as far as he knows,i hate him.and i strongly believe he hates me too.
although maybe he doesn't,i'm not sure.
i keep getting these signs that we're going to date soon.
i keep taking quizes and such that say "his name will start with an a" or "you'll have a boyfriend soon" or something stupid like that you know?
and my friend keeps telling me that it'll happen too.
but me,being unexpeirienced,am kind of nervous about the whole situation.
but i can really really see myself with him and i really want to be with him.
i just realized today how much i like him..
can someone please help me cope with this?
any advice is MUCH appriciated..
:/ (link)
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kid your young
don't worry
you'll find someone
and he'll make you
forget about this
itll just be another memory
in your music box(hehe, sorry i like my phrases)
i didnt have my first kiss until i was 15
so dont rush it,
wait until you find someone that means alot to you!
don't be nervous, be yourself
ive be there done that and i know you'll get your chance!
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when most people raise their eyebrows they get the wrinkly look. but when i raise mine, i get a "u" shaped thing. its been like this my whole life. heres a picture i drew on paint
http://img410.imageshack.us/my.php?image=uglybitchgx3.png
(haha sorry its so creepy looking) its basically what i look like when i raise my eyebrows.
is there a way to get rid of it? or does anyone know the cause? thanks! (link)
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well all i can say is if
its been there your whole
life then you can't get rid,
but im sure it looks fine!
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this might be long but i need help please help. ok so i had a boyfriend who i really loved. and i know he loved me too. there were jsut moments when you know you can feel it. we were fine and all but then i broke up with him because he was acting different liek he wasnt the same we lasted 10 months. so i asked for a break. during that break i missed him so much and he always said he missed me too. we would always talk and such. but then i decided that i wnated him back. so i tried to talk to him and he told me that i dont deserve him and i said why? and he said if i knew all of the bad things that he did to me then i would neevr want to hear from him again. so i told him tell me. and he said tht he doesnt want to hurt me but that he needs to tell me to get it off his back. he said that he cheated on me. those 8 months out of 10. i thought i was going to die when he said that to me. he also told me that he had sex with 2 girls and that while we were at themall and i went to the abthroom he saw one of his exs and hang out with them. he told me he loves me, and i was the only girl that he loved but that he couldnt take me back becuase after what he did things would never be the same. he says hes really sorry and that he does love me. he sid i showed him what real love is and that he messed up things badly and i shouldnt be with him. he said i too good for him. but after everything he said to me i still miss him. why? how can i get hurt and still miss him? what should i do now? any comments advice? thanks! for the help i really do appreciate it! (link)
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honestly i haven't been threw this but if you were my friend
i would tell you that you should forget about him
that may sound really mean and hard
but hun if he did that to you, he may love you but he needs your trust for you two to be together and im sure you don't trust him still
just try your hardest to forget about him and then you can find you a real man and you wouldnt have to worry about him cheating on you
keep your head up
sorry if it doesnt really help you
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Okay, it's 2 in one I guess.
Basically, I have this major crush. Which means it's gonna last for 3 years or more or until I give up and accept that he and I are gonna be only friends. Well, anyways. He's ex gf...let's call her Cindy. His ex gf is Cindy and I'm somewhat friends with Cindy. Cindy and my crush went out few times last year and they're off now. I think my crush still sometimes like her but yeah. Well, I don't know how I'm suppose to deal with that. I mean I know that Cindy gets pretty jealous. I don't know. How do I deal with that?
And also my crush and I are kind of growning apart I guess? I don't know. I'm pretty much struggling with depression right now and I go through periods where I just withdraw from everyone completely and I have low self esteem. So when my crush compliments me, all I can do is give him the sarcastic "right" or the "what are you smoking?" look. But yeah. How can I be more open to people's compliments and take them as they are? I feel like I'm pushing everyone away by doing what I'm doing. Oh, and when a guy says "you look cute when you get angry" what the heck are you suppose to say back? I mean, he meant it in a nice, flirting way. And what are you suppose to do when you crush has that dreamy expression on his face when he's looking at you? Like at this one school event, we were sitting across from each other after I attempted to arm wrestle him. well, he had that goofy dreamy look on his face and was staring at me and I didn't know what to do. Yeah. I'm a loser that sucks at dealing with situations. (link)
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Okay, Cindy just needs to put on her big girl panties and get over him.
If you've never dated him, go after him!
Even if you have try and get closer to him
He seems really nice, try not to get to far apart from each other.
Keep conversations going, oh ya about the compliments...
Confidence is good, try and be positive
It may be Hard sometimes, but just try
Don't withdraw, I understand but ask one of your close friends to help you with it..ooh like
your crush just talk to him about some of it, it will show you trust him.
Be sweet and ladylike, but still be yourself. It seems like you two are very cute together and would be good together!
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what can you do about unavoidable, unwanted odors, such as in the genitals or serious foot odors?? thnx in advance for the help. (link)
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i heard talc powder helps
but vagisil works but
you could try scented powder for your feet
Goldbond powder
but hopefully it will work
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so i've been getting into this mood where i get depressed, and i start thinking so low about myself, this last for only a few minutes, then i'll tell myself, "i'm going to go on a diet" and i will right down everything i eat, exercise, etc. and ill loose like 5 pounds, and then i'll stop and gain it back. and this has been going on/off since like may. my question is, i need help getting to stay commited to something, and to stop being so lazy...i've tried anything i could think of, so, help? (link)
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hunny!
woah
okay so Tyra Banks had this one show were she created the "So What" program
and hunny just because your not a size 0 doesn't mean your not beautiful!
don't worry about diets, you need to live
b/c this only happens once!
have fun, laugh, and learn!
p.s. don't worry what other people think
just be happy, okay?
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So I'm gonna be a junior in high school next year, and that means that I'm gonna go to prom. usually, most girls are looking forward to prom, right? Well not me, I'm already really worried that I won't have a date. I know it's silly, but since I'm really shy and have never had a boyfriend, I'll be going to prom alone and feel like a total loser while all my other friends have dates. I have guy friends, but none that I could really ask because THEY TOO will probably have dates/girlfriends to go with. Ahhhh I'm freaking out about this, prom is supposed to be the best night ever and I'm worried I'm gonna have a terrible time. So what I'm asking is, what can I do if I don't have a date while all my friends do? I wouldn't feel as weird if I were going with my friends, but because they're all flirty and confident, they'll probably have a lot of people asking them to prom. But I don't want to feel lonely and desperate and get turned down by a bunch of guys that already have dates.
And how can I stop obsessing over this problem, because I'm not even a junior yet?! Thanks for anyone who attempts to answer this ridiculous question, but the way, haha. Peace out. (link)
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woah
okay so dont worry about finding a date
i know im worried about prom and im only 15
but it may not be the best day of your life
you'll grow up and get married
and have a family and you might forget about prom
personally i would try and have soo much fun with my friends even if they have dates
try and include yourself in conversations if they happen..hehe
but have fun and dont worry about it
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