hi every1! my name is katie, im 17 years old,i feel that any1 who can diss someone and say that there giving advice, are so totally retarded and messed up! but there are some WEIRD peeple out there.even though im only 17, i have been through alot, i have been raped, molested, beaten, my parents are divorced and i have ran away from home so theres not much that i havent been through. so u can imagine how much advice i have 4 all of u troubled peeple.im listening, u just talk! thanx!
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how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks. (link)
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hhhmm i have been through this predicament, maby twice in my life, and its a hard thing to deal with. and both times they were like 2 of my best freinds brothers, so i saw them like every day! and i couldnt get them out of my head no matter how hard i tried, i now know the secret to end this heart brake, concentrate on other things, i know it may be ealyy hard but you have to try, and get involved with some activities, like sports or clubs, or do SOMETHING other then sit around half assing it and daydreaming about him, it will tear you apart, beleive me it will unless u get control of it. mabye even try to get a new man in your life so u wont think about the other guy. c when i was obsessing over the first dude, i was killing myself without even knowing it, and it seemed as though every time i saw him, i would star the heartache all over again, then a few years later(*yes it took me about 2 years to get over him)i moved away and didnt see him as much then my obssession started fading away and other IMPORTANT things in my life that i neverused to pay attention to, started becoming my main focus, and you know what, I felt sooo much better and alive than i had benn previously. so just try to not be around him so much, get involved in things and get busy and distract your mind away from him. It will work, it always does.
i hope i helped,
your freind katie ;)
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so theres these two boys... i like them both.. but im confused abt both of them. lets call one of the boys Bob.. Bob goes to school with me, hes a 9th grader, im a tenth. He tells my friends he likes me and hes told me and we dont talk that much. and we absolutely never talk in school, i guess hes kinda shy. Boy 2.. lets call him Fred. I met fred when i went to taco bell. he works there. ive seen him like once and then he found me on myspace and we've been talkin ever since. hes talked to my bestfriend and wants to go out with me.. and i do like him too. and he lives closer to me. ok well anyways. i like both of them and i dont know what to do or how to sort this out cause im soo confused!! plz help!! ill rate 5s for anything (link)
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ok then, well first off, which do you know better, LOL, fred or bob(im laughing cause the names, not the question) and then try to figure out which 1 you get along more with, and which 1 of them do you click with and feel more comfortable around. and make sure their faithful and that they r both gonna b there 4 you no matter what. if you havent got trust then you havent got anything. thats what i always say. and remember, love is faithful, love is kind, love is patient and never jealous, love is comfortable, and when you find the right person, love is wonderful. and when your dating someone, its just being ur self with someone else.which guy is your heart telling you to go out with? and remember, dont try to make urself seem desperate at all, thats the last thing a guy wants to c in a girl. it makes them seem easy to get and vulnerable.i hope i helped. ;)
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up sooon and i dont know what to get him iased him what he wanted and his response was me all he wants is me, but i wont feel right if i dont get him anything does anyone have ideas on what i should get him? i cant think of anything creative please help
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give him a gift card to a store that he likes. mabye hot topic, spencers, hollister, aeropostale, american egale, it will let him decide what he wan's.
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whenever i get out of showers and baths (i take hot showers and baths not cold, more towards the warmer side) i always feel out of breath. i mean, i got out of my shower, grabbed my towels and walked to the computer about 3 minutes ago and i'm still breathing fast. am i getting over heated? i don't use hot-tub hot water, and at the end of my showers i put it on cold water for 30 seconds or so to cool off. same w/baths i'll run cold water. (link)
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hey hun, you are overheating your self! i do the exact same thing! sometimes i get sick and feel really dizzy and light headed and almost puke! dont make your showers so frippin hot! and if you do make them hot, then before you get out of the shower, rinse your body off with cold water for at least 2 minutes.
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i've been eith my girlfriend for about a year. alto of people might think we are to young for it, but her mom gave me the permission so it's cool.
ne ways, i need a way to propose to her. keep in mind, we are in high school. so i donno...any one have any nice idea's? (link)
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first of all HOW OLD ARE YOU!! remember that u r in high school!!! duh!
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My girlfriend of two years recently lost her father to cancer. That was about two months ago and it was a tough time for her but in the last week she has begun to bounce back and smile agian.
The problem is, we haven't had sex since her father passed. I don't want to sound like an ass or anything, but we used to have a really active sex life and now it feels like there is this wall between us I can't get past.
Anyone know how I could bring this up without offending her? Do you think it's too soon? I miss the sex of course, but I can live without if she's not ready. (link)
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first of all ask her and talk about if her fathers death has had any weird effects on her. like if she is eating okay, or making sure she isnt doing drugs or hurting herself. or she might be hiding something from you like she might have had sex with some one else and she is feeling too guilty that she is putting your sex life on hold. you need to find out if she is or had had sex with any 1 else cause that might be the prob.
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Does braces affect making out?? ive kissed my bf loads of times but he wants 2 make out n i really dunno how 2.. hes made out with tons of ppl i feel so stupid can someone give me some good advice?? I have braces btw.
I RATE EVERYONE 5'S! (link)
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hey, listen up hun. i have made out with sooooo many guys that have braces, and its no freakin big deal!! its no different than makin out with a dude that dosent have them!!
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KatIeS A lOsEr! hAhA hEy tOdAySz My BdAy 5/20 whAt Did YoU gEt ME!!! lOl. WeLL SeE yOu In 3rD fReeEk. LoL. bUhByESz ... lAtErSz oOx (link)
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u suck retard! i got u a charm bracelet, lilu perfume and some pink lip gloss. bye!
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Can someone tell me a site that has music codes and can be used for myspace? (link)
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Hey, try launch.com hun! if that dosent work than go to google, or yahoo.com and type in key words "music codes" they will probably have lots of websites to choose from. thanks for listening!
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i hate everyone!like all of a suddin all my friuedns arent my friends any more! well they are they say they are but they dont act like it ! i talked to them and comfronted them and all they said it was probably me like they meant that they thought they lost me instead of me losing them! but i really love these friends1 we dont hang out any more or any thing! these were my closest friends and now they are not even really my friends i hug them and stuff but they forget about me! (link)
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You should tell them of your intentions and whats bothering you about them and try hard to keep this freindship going. And if that dosent work, than find some new freinds that wont blow you off and disrespect you, after all, you dont deserve to be treated like crap, do you? Especially by your freinds. If your freinds dont want to respect you, than ditch them, remember, they are going to lose a good freind if they keep acting like that to you.Real true freinds dont treat you like that.thanks for listening and glad to be of assistance.write me any time!
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Well i used to dance when i was 4-7 but then i quit because of the teacher who used to pick on me. I REALLY wanna' dance, i might become a perfessional dancer if i will make it.. But i think its too late to start dancing? What is the best group to start if i start now and want to be a hip-hop dancer? Do i start hip-hop straight away or ballet or what? I'm so cunfussed plus mum thinks its a 5 minute thing for me.. she is like "No your go for 5 minutes and want to quit!" just because i done that will girl scouts, art club and other clubs but i know i want this.. I want it bad but she dont believe me! How can i make her believe me that i want it!!
Please answer my 2 or 3 questions i rate ***** 5 ***** (link)
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First of all, you dont just make someone beleive something that you want them to, you have to prove it to them, shown them that you can dance, make them want you to join.prove her wrong, and dance at home every single moment you can, and say that you wont stop dancing untill she lets you join a team.like for example, i wanted a horse badly when i ws 12, and my dad and mom wouldnt let me get one because it was to expensive and they thought it was gonna be one of those 2 hour things and then ill want to quit.but i really wanted this horse, so i kept on buying horse books, toys, magazines and every thing else that i could find that was horse related, and saved up enough money (i made the merchandise noticable to my parents to show how determined i was to get a horse, but I kept the money saving a secret)to be able to buy a horse and the eed and tack and every thing else needed t take care of a horse, and my parents finnally gave into the horse thing and bought me my own horse.by the way, i still have that same horse and i continue to take care and expand my love of horses.it worked for me, so it could work for you as well.thanks for listening.
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what are some good movies (playing right now) to watch on dates? i haven't seen much previews, someone tell about a movie?
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alot like love is a nice romantic comedy.try it out, it worked 4 me, and it might work 4 you!
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what are some good hair dye products that last long? i tried dyeing my hair a dark brown but it faded(to a light brown) in barely 3 weeks. Suggestions? (link)
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try the products, bed head, hillary duff uses them and i have some freinds that use them and it seems to be working really well 4 them!glad 2 be of help!
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I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!! (link)
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hun, you need to stay away from that dude! he sounds like trouble! get with another guy and move on, i know its hard, but eventually, you will! i promise!
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Ok, when I was 8 both my parents died in a car crash. I've been in and out of foster homes ever since. Most of them were assholes and abusive and then the last family I was with, before this one, just took off in the middle of the night and left me there. I took care of myself for about 3 months before someone found finally found me. when they finally found me I weighed 65lbs. and they said I was lucky to be a live. Now I wish I had just died then. That was when I was 10. I spent 2 years recovering and then I was put in another home. I ran away from there because they were assholes who enjoyed watching people get hurt. I'm now 15 and I'm not sure of anything anymore. I can't get close to people. I'm afraid to keep living. I really just want to give up. I've had thoughts of suicide before but never like this. I feel like there is nothing left. The people I'm with now are just like all the rest and I can't do it anymore. I don't want to keep living like this. I don't want to keep living at all. But I'm scared to go through with it I'm so confused and afraid and screwed up I don't know to do about anything.
My question is does anyone know how I can make things better? I've tried drugs, drinking, cutting, burning anything to take away all the confusion and nothing helps. If anyone has any ideas of how I can make things please let me know I really need help. I don't know what to do anymore. All I can think of is suicide and I know that's wrong but I'm just lost right now. Please if anyone has any ideas of how i can make things better help me. (link)
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oh mi god! i am freaking out while reading ur plea! iv cut myself before, but all it did for me was leave gross scars.dont drink, that will make yor pain worse.and definatly, please DONT do drugs. thats probably why your foster families were so abusive.my life was crap too. it is getting better for me, and it WILL get better for you to, only if let it, i promise. another huge tip is, dont give up your life, no matter how bad you feel.and you should get religious help, and get close to the lord, i know i am, and it has really helped me, so very much, and it can really help you, so please dont give up your life, please.and if you comitt suicide you will aoutimatically go to hell.i hope i was of assistance.please listen to my advice.
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Ok I have a friend whos in college and she has a bad background with her parents. They dont like that shes going to Duke and that she wants to be a lawyer. Ok so she teamed up with a boy in her class and he stopped helping so she told him she'll do all the work he can slack off. Well he didnt take that well and he started calling her names and bringing up her past with family and now she cries and thinks he's right about all this. I need advice and fast please... (link)
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well, she needs to talk to that stupid kid thats being rude to her, and YOU need to help and encourage her through this hard time.she needs to realize that just because some person says crap about her, and she thinks its true, that that person that is saying crap, dosent have a freaking life and is trying to make her look bad and make himself look bigger, when hes probably just some loser with a teenie weenie! i swear! that kid sounds like a real jerk! that kid probably sits at his parents house, eating ramen noodle cups, and watches porn all day long, and wishes that he had a life! tell ur freind to try to sort things out with her parents, or switch partners, or talk to dickless.one of those has to work.tell her that she will get over this rough time and encourage her that u will be there 4 her!thanx!
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