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ive heard there is a website that you can upload a pic of yourself and try different hairstlyes out so you can see what you look like before you get it cut. im scared i wont like the style i want. does anyone know the name of this website and the address or anything similar?

thankyou

I know there are others but this is the only one I can remember:

http://www.stellure.com/

Theese sites can be pretty helpful but are sometimes alot of trouble. You have to upload the pic, crop your hair out of it and try to find the hairstyles you want to try on. Sometimes, especially if you head is at an angle in the pic,(try to get it straight), the hair sits on your head funny but you can still tell how it would look. Have Fun and Good Luck!!

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Well, I usually don't ask for anything expensive during the holidays but this year since I'm 17, there's a lot that I feel like I would need. My mom is planning on getting me a car soon (not for christmas but within the next couple of months). So that's kind of a christmas present from her I guess. My parents are divorced and I was planning on asking my dad for a Sidekick 3 phone (along with some CDs), but I don't know if that's asking for too much since I'm getting a car soon. I don't want to be a little spoiled brat. What do you think? Just wait for the phone or ask for both...car from mom and phone from my dad? I know my birthday is an option but that's not until september.

If your Dad isn't heling with the car at all, then Im sure he's WANT to get you something, so I think its o.k. to ask him for the phone and CDs. If you don't he might go out and spend just as much money on you but get you something you really don't want.

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my friend plays tennis and she loves yellow. she also likes necklaces. i was thinking the perfect gift would be a necklace with a little yellow tennis ball on it. i no nobody knows exactly where to find that, but anyone have any ideas where to look? i live in colorado if it helps for any stores or something. thanks so much!

Hey I was looking online at jewlry at target.com and found exactly what you were talking about and remembered this question! Here's the link:
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_14/602-7543849-2991029?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0006JCWP6

P.S. Its pretty cheap, $20

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Ok. This is a long story but i hope i can get some advice. i really like this guy, and i've liked him bout 3 months now. well, this whole day today, we have been flirting and stuff. and we talk alot, he is in all of my classes and we have alot of fun together. well, today in my science class, our teacher aranged our desks around. my friend sat down, then i sat next to her. and the guy that i really like said "i'm going to sit by you today" in a funny voice cause we always do this funny voice w/ each other. then, when he sat down my friend was like "aww thats cute". (he doesn't know i like him). and then his best friend walked by and said "do you two got somethin going on??" and you could tell we were both emmberresed cause we just looked at each other really quick and playing around, kicked his friend. i know this is confusing, but does all of this mean he likes me???? i really need some advice guys!!! thanks!! luv ya much!!

Yep! He likes you and I wouldnt sit around waiting on him to make the first move, though maybe he already did by sittin beside you. Start up convos about stuff he's intrested in, and if you're bold enough to do it this early, just ask him out. Im sure he'll say yes!

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14/f.

ok so there's this boy. and i really really started liking him in the beginning of the year because he was mad cute. well, haha, i never really talked to him, i was always to shy. it's werid too, because im am a very outgoing person and everyone knows me to be friendly, fun, and loud. i have never been with a guy before, and i think he's never been with a girl, im not sure. he is popular, but only hangs out with a few people in his "group" and there mostly all guys. You can tell he's very shy unless he's around his friends. Well, I hang out with some of his friends too, but im like more preppy than them & he does pot so we don't have too many of the same friends.

Ok, well at the beginning of the year, he liked me too, but we were always to shy to talk to each other! So we kinda drifted apart and never started up a convo. Now, being december; i notice i still really like him. And he trys to talk to me! but i get sooooo shy and like freeze up and ignore him : ( and this is the complete opposite of who i really am, because im never shy!

Well anyway, i think he knows i like him, because my friend told his bff haha, but that was like in october. but lately he's still trying to talk to me, or get my attention, but he is too shy to say something straight up front to me.

but now, in the past few weeks. i notice he isn't that great of a person. he always curses, and always wants to drink, get high, and smoke out of his bong. he is REALLY strong and has like the perfect body ever, and omg he has the cutest voice too.

BUT ANYWAY, so i think im starting to liek this kid again. and i feel like sucha loser because i think he knows, and we don't even talk to each other. but i know he wants to start talking to me because he always trys to get my attention by laughing at my jokes, or smiling at me when im laughing (but when he sees im looking he turns his head). I don't know i really wanna start talkgin to him but im MEGA shy for the billionth time! ahh please i need your help! how can i get over my fear : (

Just chill and try to be yourself! If you can think of anything he's be intrested in talking about (other than weed), just bring it up. Watch out though, you don't want to end up with a guy who loves his drugs more than he loves you, trust me.

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so, this guy likes me. and i don't like him, not like that. but... he sorta won't give up. he calls me a lot, and he just keeps asking if i like him, but in different ways every time. (like, one day he'll say "do have any feelings for me?", then the next day he'll say "do you ever think about me?" and that sorta thing). Its really stressful. I keep saying no and feeling like a total jerk for a while afterwards. it's a sucky situation for both of us, but he won't give up. I dunno what to do!

Firmly, don't yell it or nothing, tell him how far you think this relationship can go, if it's no more than friends, tell him that.

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alright i really like this guy. and it seems like he likes me to. but he has a gf. he cheated on her with me but i didnt know cause he told me he broke up with her but i found out he didnt. we talk on the phone and he flirts alot but he'll tell me he will call me back and then he doesnt. it happens alot. like sometimes before he hangs up he'll be like "ill call you in like 20 minutes..love you bye." soo i dont know what to do. hes two years older but his gf is my age and were in the same grade and school. i dont have any classes with her and i never talk to her so i dont know what is goin on with her and him. he told me we wanted to hang out today and for me to call him around 1230.. but i called him around 1.. and he didnt answer. then i called again around 230 and he still didnt answer. i dont know if hes avoiding me or if he was busy. and i dont want to call him again cause i'd feel like a stalker. so what should i do?

Back off, he's taken. Not to be mean but geting involved with another girl's man just aint right. Even if he was single and the two of you got together, he'd end up cheatin on you and be talking to other girls. You need to find another guy, a single one, and just forget about this one.

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I've decided that I want to go to a community college before going to a 4 year college, but my mom said no when I suggested it. I know it's my decision, but if I decide to take that route, my mom might make me pay rent, or she may not help out with tuition. What to do?

There's nothing wrong with going to a community college for 2 years, then transfering to a university for the other 2 years and getting your Bachelors, its way cheaper too, because the tuition is much cheaper at a community college for 2 years and a transfer than going to a university for four years. Your mom might think that you may not continue on to a university after 2 years of community college, which happens to alot of people. But anyways, it's your choice, not her's and you shouldnt let her pressure you into doing something you dont want to do.

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okay so i've liked this guy named derek for a long time.and so do alot of other girls. i was his first friend an we are still friends as well i mean i have been his bud since 1st grade and all the other girls liked him since 5th grade when he got taller and junk but anyway its weird to have to like him because he is a major flirt to every girl and if you like him everyone that doesnt have a crush on him or anything will think your weird even my best friend sorta knows that i like him but im shy to tell her because well you know
so should i keep quiet and never ever tell derek i like him so know one will judge me or should i just go for it
if i do go for it how???
-kimberly

Just go for it! Write him a note so it wont be as akward.

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Hey,
Well theres this girl who wears like a little tiny bit of like guys body spray as purfume. you know like axe and stuff. I think it smells good, but thats probably because it reminds me of a guy...and guys that smell good are hot. Anyway, my question is, would guys think that is hot or sexy or whatever or would they think its weird?(guys oppinions, or girls who have heard from guys)

I love the smell of axe and told my boyfriend i was going to start wearing it (just Kidding with him of course) and he was like PLEASE DONT.

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ok well me and my gf just broke up and well i really really liked her. well she dumped me because she said that all she saw herself getting out of this relationship was a friendship. and that wasent an excuse because the last couple days she has actually been trying to be a good friend. so im really sad and all being my pathetic self. but then the next day she was telling her best friend that she was having second thoughts bout doing it and that she dosent know if she made the right decision(i got the forwarded message from aim)

ok well my question is

is there anything i can do to influence her to come back to me
i really really like her and i dont want to loose her as a gf

Just tell her that you still have strong feelings for her and that you miss her.

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I don't feel safe at my school.
Like, yesterday, I left my binder in a class in a basket under the seat. I come back today and it is totally ALL written on, every single page [which is like 100 pages]. It says "Dum ho", "slut", "sell out", "I HATE YOU B@#!@! :D" all this unprintable stuff.

and, today in 5th period, i get a pass to go to the bathroom and when I walk outside, the guys that love to torment me start making fun of me.

HIM:"HEY IT'S UGLY GIRL!!! GODDMMT! Why are you so ugly!!?!?"
ME:"I'm not ugly. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
HIM: *he gets 4 inches close to my face* "Why should we?"
ME: "Well, if you think I'm so ugly, why don't you just leave so you don't have to look at me?"

and the night before, i bit my lip really hard and it swelled up on the bottom lip.

HIM: "HEY WHATS ON YOUR LIP?"
ME: "Its-"
HIM: "-EWWW IS THAT HERPES!!?!? OH MY GOD IT'S HERPES!!!"

now they wait for me at the doors they know i'm going through so they can torment me.
i don't feel safe.
i don't want to go to the bathroom or go outside of class, or even switch classes!

i'm constantly looking out for people that hate me.

what do i do? :\
please help soon.

Find someone to walk to class with you, and if you have to, tell your teacher about him. He probably likes you and is too immature to tell you and finds other ways to get your attention, guys can be retarded like that. As for the stuff written in your binder, Im sure it wasnt targeted at you, anyone's binder would have been written all over.

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im 13/f
say i have a guy friend in my class and we are just friends. if my friend starts to like him.. i start to like him too. i dont know if its because im jealous and i want him to like me over her or if i just really do like him. does this ever happen to you? and why do you think this happens?

Yeah this happened to me too. I was talking to this one guy, kinda liked him but we were just friends. When one of my friends started liking him I REALLY started liking him. I think part of this is jealousy, because I got kind of mad that she was out to get attention from this guy who had been giving me attention, even if it was just as friends.

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I just- dont know how to make friends.i feel pathetic saying that,but really,its the truth. i have no idea how to start convos,act normal and just have fun and join in. no idea. and everyone seems to be so uncomfortable(sp) around me. i dont think im ugly..and i doubt that even matters. but i was kinda in this group and now im just there,i dont mean anything to them,only 2 i really talk to. its like if i left it wouldnt matter. i dont know how to open up,and i really need help, what can i do so nothing is akward?i really want friends who care. it seems so easy to everyone but me. i just feel like dont belong anywhere. i dont even know how to take the first step,if you've been through this,can you please help? i really appreciat it. i also need advice on being friendly and not makeing things to akward/makeing people feel uncomfortable,i love it when i make people smile,but it barely happens.please help & thanks.

When your with that group you were talkin about, you should just kinda follow their conversations first. Like if some girl says that a guy is hot or whatever you could be like, yeah he's hot but really shallow or something. You talk about guys, you'll have thier attention. As you get more comfortable with them, you can just start your own conversations, speak up and talk about something the other people seem to care about.

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14/m right i am the biggest health freak i no and i meen huge just to put it into view how big of a health freak i am i watch what i eat i do exercise for atleast an hour a day i record what i eat and i take my bmi weigh my self every day i even know what my resting metabolic rate is its 1583 calories right iv been letting my self goa little bit because its near christmas thing is i feel fatter and im noticing these fat stores which wernt there before please some one help me i know this may be parranoya but still any advice??

Quit stressin and just chill out! if you keep worryin your just gonna gain more wieght. Stress really does make you gain weight. Last year i gained 5 pounds in like a week right before final exams, no one else noticed but i dropped those 5 pounds right after exams by running about a mil eor two each day. If you want to lose weight maybe you should push yourself just a little more when your exercising, just don't overload.

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i just started running this year, and it's become something that i really enjoy. i ran cross country and i didn't do so well because, i`m built to be a sprinter. but anyways, during the cross country season, i had some problems with shin splints. they only came every once and a while, and they weren't a major issue, so i just worked through it.. now i`m doing indoor track. we practice on our outdoor track because we don't have an indoor track. our outdoor track is illegal. we can't even hold meets at our school because of it. its uneven and one of my friends broke her foot on it. we've been having sprinting practice out there, and my shin splints have gotten worse because of it. i have them the second i stop running, and they don't go away anymore. i ice them every night, and i stretch properly, but nothings working. my coach also has us running in the hallways at school. i never thought sprinting on tile was such a good idea either. thats the only way we can practice though. i don't know how else to get my shin splints to go away. i`m doing great in track, and quitting is definitly out of the question. if you have any ideas on minimizing shin splints please help!

I run track and cross country too and I got shin splints really bad last year durring track, IT SUCKS! As for pain killers, Ibuprofen works best for swelling. My doctor told me to stop running for a while, but that wasnt an option for me either. You're doing every thing else your supposed to, but you should really take easier, at least durring practices, if they keep getting worse.If your shins get unbearably painful, you need to go to a doctor. My friend's shin splints ended up turning into a minor fracture that kept her from finishing the track season last year, but that's because she just kept running harder on pavement, which is way worse than on grass. I see where an indoor track and tile would really be hard on you. Give it your all at meets, but you should really take it easier durring practices!

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okay so i am 15/f and i have been dating this kid for 10 months. He is wicked sweet to me when we are alone but in front of his frends and in school he always is yelling at me for no reason. i dont know if he is nice with me when we are alone just to get stuff and is being a jerk or he is just shy in front of people. but he does call me late at night because he is talkin to his other girl friends online and he gets mad when i say he doesnt love me. is he a jerk and should i move on or is he just shy in front of people??

(15/f)Other girl friends? If your not the only one, especially after 10 months, then you need to find someone else. Some onewho will respect you in public and treat you nice ALL the time.

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i am said to have a big butt. i am really skinny and petite and athletic body, and maybe i DO have a big booty, but in my eyes its just too saggy and kinda hanging there taking away everything from my hips. what can i do to make my hips appear curvier and my butt less saggy?

You should take up running/ jogging

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i don't feel like i am pretty enough to get a b/f.....i mean i wish guys would go for personality instead of looks......i would have a b/f but every guy that attends my school are into the same girl.....do you think anybody will ever like me....because i want somebody real and somebody that will treat me special....and just love me.....do you think there is such thing as him out there....??

Yeah but you can't be all about looks either (not sayin you are). Im guessin that if your in Middle or High School, your going to run into a lot of superficial guys who see one pretty girl who has it all, or models on tv and think that every girl should look like that. Most guys grow out of that by the tenth/eleventh grade at the latest, nut there are good guys out there, there's somebody for every body, no matter what you look like.

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OK, how long after you have sex should you be feeling the effects of morning sickness? I had sex 8 days ago with my boyfriend. 2 days later I woke up feeling sick as a dog, and it continued into the next day, I was ok after the initial day but I haven't really been eating anything until today when I finally got my appetite back. Is that too soon to experience morning sickness or will it be a couple or weeks before i do?
thank you

Hey, was curious and looked it up my self at
http://www.babyguideuk.com/experts/question.asp
and found a similar quesion. HCG is Human Chorionic Gonadotropin and its a hormone that may cause a woman to feel nauseous jsut a few days after conception. Its the hormone that first signals preganancy, it shows up in blood and urine tests and is probably making you feel sick.


Q:Is it possible to feel nauseous only a few days after conception? I miscarried in my 7th week several months ago, but the nausea didn't start until well into the 3rd week. My husband and I have been trying very hard to conceive and I've felt definite bouts of nausea the last couple of day - and I'm only a few days after any possible conception. Am I just imagining things? Or is this possible?
A:We assume you actually know the answer to your question by now, but briefly, the link between nausea and pregnancy is still not very well understood. Its probably a reaction to HCG, so its theoretically possible at implantation, but usually the levels aren't high enough to cause sickness.

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