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unapreciative shy boyfriend
okay so i am 15/f and i have been dating this kid for 10 months. He is wicked sweet to me when we are alone but in front of his frends and in school he always is yelling at me for no reason. i dont know if he is nice with me when we are alone just to get stuff and is being a jerk or he is just shy in front of people. but he does call me late at night because he is talkin to his other girl friends online and he gets mad when i say he doesnt love me. is he a jerk and should i move on or is he just shy in front of people??
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He is probably afraid that other boys will laugh at him if he shows affection towards you in public, because that would make him less of a "man" in their eyes, but that's not the only problem here. Ask yourself, do you really, but REALLY love this boy? If there is the slightest doubt, it means that there is something wrong in your relationship. The only valid reason to end it are your feelings!
But if you're 100% sure that you love him, then you should do your best to save what you have. Talk to him and tell him that his behaviour hurts you, and that you have every right to expect from your boyfriend not to hurt you! If he loves you like he says, he will do something about it. If he doesn't - move on!
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I used to have the same problem. My ex boyfriend was the same exact way. He acted like I wasn't there or he just tried to argue with me in front of his friends, but he had a totally different identity on the phone alone with me. More than likely he is a jerk, and you should move on, because he sounds like a guy who is influenced by his friends. My ex was influenced by his friends and he broke up with me, because of them. You should really move on because it sounds like this guy is a real jerk.
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i would definatley tell him about it and if he loved you he'd loosen up a bit and understand what you are trying to say. but ie he did really like you he wouldnt be rubbing it in about his other gfs. in this case i would break up with him and take him by suprise.
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(15/f)Other girl friends? If your not the only one, especially after 10 months, then you need to find someone else. Some onewho will respect you in public and treat you nice ALL the time.
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