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Member Since: January 19, 2006
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Last Update: August 1, 2006
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please help i had a dream last night about a man i know and he is realy old and he felt me up and i was shouting my gran but she could hear me but she heard me in the end and she got him off me then i looked and he started abusing her and she just let him like if she did not let him then he will hurt her then i went to walk out of the room and he thretened to hit me and i said i am not scared of you go on hit me my dad is in the next room and he said thats why yours saying that but i said i dont care then i told my grandad then my dad came sat me on his knee and said tell me all about it i know somthing has happened then i was just crying and he was cuddling me and kissing me and said it will be ok but i have know ideal what it means i keep having dreams like this can anyone tell me what it means they are getting me down please help me i will rate. (link)
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I don't know much about dreams, but sometimes dreams have no meanings. Also, maybe it could be like a premonition. If it is, I hope it doesn't happen to you. Maybe it could also be something that happened to someone already. I hope it is just a fake dream. I don't know if anything i've said helps, but I'm sure you will figure it out soon.
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please help me i was sexualy abused when i was younger by my grandad and i hate him for it but i cant stay mad at him i still talk to him and everthing and then all the memories all come back to me i know i am not to blame but i just want to know why he done this to me but i am scared to ask him because he will not admit it and i want to be mad at him but i am the kind of person who forgives people no matter what they have done what can i do please help me. (link)
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I want to start out by saying, I'm really sorry this has happened to you, no one should ever experience this bad abuse. Some people say they can't help feeling like this, but you never know. If you have told your parents, tell them to come with you and ask him why he would do such a thing to you. If he denies it, just ask him why he thinks people like that would do such a thing. That may be the reason closest to his true answer. I hope everything works out for you. And I know it will be very very difficult, but don't let his abuse control your life.
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Does anyone else find this strange? I had gotten hired 3 months ago at a new store. Well I just found out today that my boss wants a criminal record check of everyone in my department. I also found out that it was only my department that needed the criminal record check. There are 7 of us that work in the clothing department. None of us handle cash, we just let people into the change rooms and put out new stock. Wouldnt they have asked us to get a criminal record check before they hired us? It's a little insulting to be honest.
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I know it would be insulting, but do as your boss says. He could want it for other reasons. Maybe one of the other people he found out had a bad record and wanted to see just how bad. I would just do as your boss says eventhough it will be insulting. Are you going to let being insulted ruin your job?
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I really like this boy,
And my best friend dose too.
I know I shouldent beacuse she's my best friend but I cant stop thinking about him. I told her but she doesent seem to care. But then I asked her how to get his attention b/c they are friends. she told me to wear boy cloths like she was. So I did i dont know if he really has noticed me.But my Best friend can get a little jealous and stubern somtimes, so I dont know if my friend is lying not to get his attention or if she is telling the truth. b/c u know she likes him and a rumer is going around that he likes gymnast's and prepy girls. but my friend barly ever lie's to me.
who should I belive? What should I do????
-Lanie Day underhill
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Be yourself. Stop dressing like a boy. He isn't dating her, so therefore, it doesn't mean he likes her just b/c she is wearing boy clothes. If your not yourself, he won't know the real you. I'm not saying she is lying, just maybe she doesn't know how to get his attention. Boys are really hard to figure out.
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i just got my period i take a bath soon i know that you have to take your pad off but how does the blood stop coming out if u take a bath or a shower. explain them both to me fast and i will right all 5s if u hurry (link)
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Im sry i didn't answer quickly, but it never stops coming out. When blood does come out, wash it off. The blood never really stops. I know that wasnt much help, but i hope it somewhat helped. Good luck!
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im izzy im 15 and relly confused i like just met this dude like um this year. hes pretty cool and i kinda like him... no i LOVE him! lol i guess u could say im obsessed! i got really brave nd I asked him out and ya he said NO butt his homies tell me that he likes me which is weird and i think he tries to hit to me HE likes me.. so well if he really duz likes me and I LOVE him shouldn't we go out?? i think so He's really shy& afraid to have a girlfriend. But I love him to death and I need him badly. &The sad thing is, is that I know he loves me back. How can I get him to get over his stage? What can I do to make him show his feelings? I know he likes me.. But how do I get him to show it and go out with me? (link)
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Just ask him why he won't go out with you. And maybe tell him he was giving you mixed signals and you don't want them if he won't go out with him, but try not to sound mean.
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I haven't yet had sex with my boyfriend. He has told me that he hasn't had unprotected sex for 2 years, and so I shouldn't worry about STDs. However, he has been sexually active for 5 years - before 2 years ago he had unprotected sex with several partners. 2 questions: how worried should I be about him having something, that maybe hasn't shown itself yet? And how can I suggest to him nicely that he get tested? (link)
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I think you should definatly be worried because things are starting to get worse with STDs and things like that. There really is no easy way to tell him to get tested, but it is really important that he does that. If he loves you like he says he does, he will not deny that he will get tested. You should tell him, but don't pressure him to do it. Also, don't say that you can't love him unless he gets tested. You will be OK.
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im going to have a party/sleepover but i can only invite 5 people, but i know 6 that i want to invite, so theres that problem. also, none of the six are friends with each other, what should i do???????
please help soon! i need to send out invites! (link)
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If they are your friends, they will respect that and get along with eachother, otherwise, they aren't very loyal friends. So, they should most likely get along at the party. What I would do is see who I feel closest to. I hate it when parents do that. Just choose and tell the one that gets left out why she is left out. Don't keep it a secret because if she finds out, she will be even more angry. I hope she understands if you tell her. I wish you the best of luck choosing!
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i have a bump under my nose ring (or nose stud, i should say.)
i heard salt water would take care of it, but it hasn't done a thing for me
what can i do?
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I don't know if this can help a nose ring infection, but it can help an ear infection. I suggest getting a ear cleaner thing or cotton and put hydrogen peroxide on it and put it on the infection. It might sting, but it is supposed to clean and patch up infections and cuts. I hope things clear up!
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Hey! I'm a 14/f. I got my period(or so I think it was) about 1 and 1/2 months ago. But it hasn't come back since then. Is this irregular? Isn't it supposed 2 happen the same time every month! I don't know cause I'm kinda new at this whole thing. Plus when I had my period it was brown....like the blood and everything was brown not red. I'm pretty sure it was my period but I could be wrong I guess. Can any one please help me! I'm worried its not gunna come back. Much luv xoxoxo (link)
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Like everyone has said, it is just irregular.. It will happen about every 28 days. I don't know what to say to help out b/c it's all already been said. Don't worry though. Things will work out. Good luck!
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i have a question about people and racism.. why do black people try to take advantage of it? like my school has way more white people than black and if you say someting bad about 1 of the black kids or dont like them just because you dont like them NOT because they are black they just go on saying you are racist. like this boy at my didnt make varsity basketball team because quit frankly he was really bad and his parents sued the school saying they were racist and then they had to take him on the team.i am from the north so normally its not an issue but i think black people try to take advantage of racism.. why? (link)
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They aren't really racist, but they are outnumbered. They just want to be accepted, and even if they are accepted, they want to be good at things and rather than blame it on themselves, want to blame it on racism. Many people are like that now a days. Excuses are excuses. Just try to be friends with them and they don't want to accept you in the way you are accepting them, then at least you tried. It's their own fault and the way they want to live their life.
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well i really do not like my job. i don't talk to any of the people there except for one of them because i go to school with him and i like him. also my job interferes with a lot of things like my friends and how i have been doing in school. it just stresses me out a lot where i had a melt down the other night. so should i keep it and see how things go or quit so i can finish high school and not have so many problems. (link)
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If you haven't been working on this job for a long time, keep at it. Eventually you could work your school schedule around your work schedule. It will work out if you just work hard to work it all out. Also, if you don't know many people there, that could actually be more helpful because then you won't get distracted and temptated to talk and not work to your ability. If everything doesn't work out after a little while, drop the job and do better in high school. You have much time for a job and have high school to worry about at the moment. It will all work out. Good luck!
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um..i am having trouble trying to get this one guy to like me..he is kinda mean to me...but i dk if thats a sign telling me he likes me or not..we are pretty good freinds i guess u kould say...but i dont know wat to do..seems like im trying to hard or not enough...help plz
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Who is it? Be yourself! As corney as it sounds, it's true. If he said he likes you and he doesn't already have a b/f, then he probably does like you. Be flirty, but be yourself. If you like him, there is nothing to be scared of. If he doesn't really like you, then he isn't the RIGHT guy for you. There are many ppl in this world. You will eventually find the right boy. Good luck!
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Im a christian.
But i feel like, i need to do something to make my prayers heard. Or something its really hard to explain, i almost feel like i have no connect with god.
How do i become a "better" christian?
i suppose thats what im asking.
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If you pray to God everynight, you are a GREAT christian. You might feel like nothing is happening, but God is always there. He is constantly helping you in many more ways than you think. Keep praying and thanking God as much as possibe. Also, pray to him everynight before going to bed. Dream good dreams about him and things can't go wrong. You are constatly being helped and saved. Most Christians don't even pray unless they are asked to in church, so you have the upperhand. Plus, God has so many people to care for, you are important, it just might take a while for the responce you are looking for.
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Hey, we had our algebra mid-term today & there was this question with an input/output table and it said to describe the domain and range! i do'nt ever remember learning this, does any body know? i get to finish my test tomorrow.
thanks for any help you give
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well, domain refers to X and range refers to Y.
When given the points (2,3) (3,7) and (5,1) the domain is 2, 3, and 5. The range is 3, 7, and 1. It's really simple when you get the hang of it.I hope that was what you were looking for...
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Me and my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up. Well she broke up with me, claiming she needed a time out to decide what to do with her life. I love this girl so much, and as you guys can imagine im debastated and heart broken. My question is, what should i do, ive been getting all emotional, and i dont wanna be anymore, the way i see it she got rid of me for no real reason. Should i start dating/fooling around with other women, or should i wait a litle bit? i always find that its easier to forget if you get somebody else. (link)
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I wouldn't get any other girl for a little while b/c people might think that you just date girls just for the image. I'm sorry she just broke up with you, but things will work out. You've got time to find the RIGHT person for you. If she dumped you, she really isn't the right one. You will indeed fine the right girl. The girl of your dreams might have seemed like it was her, but she's only one girl. This might sound corney, but there are other fish in the sea.
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i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong? (link)
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I know everyone has already said it was irregular, and they are each right. As easy as it would be to say, " I know what you're talking about," I don't actually know how that feels. But, however, I do have a friend with a similar case. She gets her period and then she won't have it for another 3 months and then all of a sudden, she has it again. It makes no sense. Doctors are very knowledgeable and really can help. For the meantime, it probably is irregualar. Don't worry, you are still young and you will be fine.
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