Member Since: July 30, 2005
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Last Update: October 16, 2005
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okay..i was just wondering. what year was easier for some of you guys, freshman year or sophomore year. cuz like i mean. me and my friend we meet people at freshman and stuff..but we don't have lunch with them..and like its really hard kinda making friends and stuff..but..me and my friend are really outgoing and stuff..and..um..well..do things get better in sophomore year or what?! jeez please tell me!! lol i kno this is such a stupid question..but what i really wanna know is what year was easier for you guys between (freshman or sophomore) and if you guys met more people in sophomore year than freshman..IF YOU GUYS TELL ME I`LL RATE HIGH!! its such an easy question!! (link)
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Actually, I didn't have a problem with school, I have always been myself and I had friends in all grades. I am still to this day friends with most of them. I was not popular by any means, I just made sure that I respected them and they me. However, I know things have really changed from when I was in school. But I think that the sophomore was the most fun, but not easier with grades.
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lately, i've been really sensitive. i usually dont let my mom get to me but she yells at me and i feel like crying. why am i being so sensitive all of a sudden???? (link)
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I don't know how old you are, but this kind of thing happens with parents and children. Sometimes they think they are helping you and they're not. But, she is your mom and you have to respect her. Have you tried to write her a note? Sometimes writing it down on paper has more force. Tell her how you really feel when she does yell. Also, when just before your head hits the pillow at night, invision her words captured in bubbles and they can't break free and hurt you any more. The other thing, have you tried prayer for you and your mom's relationship. She does love you and I know you love her too! Have you thought maybe asking her if something is wrong, like she herself is having a bad day?
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ok.. so i have this friend... at one time she went through some really tough stuff.. and I didn't mind helping her and talking to her and stuff... but it was like she'd put me on a guilt trip and make me feel so sorry for her.. and like convince me I was all she had.. but then when we were at dance or something.. she was all happy and idk... not even the same person... so she finally got counselling after she started cutting and stuff.. they even wanted to put her in sight care or something.... but now i'm the one thats not so stable and she doesn't even care about me anymore.... she still sends me texts every once and awhile saying things like "i'm so lonely :'(.. I have no one!" ect....so i finally come out and tell her waht's bothering me and at first she cried with me and told me everything would be alright and we had this huge talk... but now she is being such a bitch to me... she doesnt have time to talk to me or hang out with me because she's always with other people.... and when we do talk its like "hey how are you?" "ok u?" "i'm ok" "well i g2g later" and thats it!! i just don't think its fair that i was always so loyal to her ... and now that i'm the one that needs help i dont have anybody...... its much more complecated then that but i guess that'll have to do...
5's to anyone who HELPS. (link)
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Don't worry sweety, there are a lot of people that care for you. Have you thought of the One who made you? He is your closest friend and He will help you. I know as I tried to commit suicide a couple of times and He pulled me through. If you need someone to talk to come to advicenators and go to favorite columnists and find me Crazy4him, I'll do what I can to give you support! You are very special and deserve happiness. As for your friend, she is the one who is loosing out on a good friend! Don't worry, you will find a better friend. Good luck and will keep you in my prayrs for happiness and finding yourself and new friends! Look you already have one................ME!
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I have to find a picture to draw for art class. Does anyone know any good sites where i can find some decent pictures? I've been trying google, and nothing good has come up. Any suggestions? (link)
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look up murals (paintings on wall) great sealife/ scenes and more.
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my grandma recently past away, & i love my grandpa i just don't know what to talk to him about can someone give me ideas? (link)
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ask him about his school days and watch the magic come alive. I lovrd my gradfathers so much and loved hearing about how they and my grandmas got together and stuff like that. I am writing a book based on these stories for my brothers and I.
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i know this sounds childesh, but my mom gave me a puppy for my birthday and theres just one problem. she wants to have him fixed. and i dont want to have him fixed. it will hurt him and think it's his choice to reoproduce or not. but my mom says he'll be less aggresive and then she had the nerve to tell me it's her house and what she says go's. i dont want to have him fixed but my mom's being a total bitch. how do i convince my mom that it's unfair to fix a dog, and he's mine not hers. (link)
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think about the little ones that nobody wants. I have seen where they are thrown into the dumpsters. I've seen where they are left in a box out on the highway! Go to a city dog pound where there are dogs and puppies that are put to sleep because they are over-crowded!
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ooooooooooookay. so i have a boyfriend that i totally love with all my heart. but the thing is...he lives in a diff state than i do. and im kinda crushing on sum1 that lives near me. i just got in a fite with my friend and she told my bf that i have been "cybering with other guys" thats totally not true. so he called me up and he kinda got mad at me. i started thinking about the whole other guy thing and now im so afraid to dump him for the other kid cause i really do love him.ahh idont know whut i should do about my bf and the other kid. Puhlez help i rate high! (link)
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If you love some one, why are you entertaining the thought of some one else? Maybe you really don't know what love is. Love means that you have feelings for one person and you want them to be happy no matter what and you would not be thinking of some one else! Think of what you really want before you get in a relationship! It will save on a lot of heartache!!!!! I know took me 49 years to figure that out!
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Okay, well my name is Beccah and i really like this boy named Alex and in the 6th grade he had a girfriend named Jen and he had liked her since the 2nd grade and she finally started liking him in the 6th grade and he asked her out and they went out for about 5 months and then he dumped her and a few months later is when i started liking him and he was such a jerk to me and then in the 7th grade we became really good friends and i was finally over him for a good 5 months or so and in that period of time he went on and off liking me and then towards the end of the year i started liking him again and he liked me too and we would kiss and hug but he never asked me out and he was never my "boyfriend" and the last day of school we made it clear that we didnt want to go out over summer and we would see what would happen between us when school starts again and over the summer its really easy for me to concentrate on other things.. seeing how i travel a lot and i do summer basketball and im always with my friends, but now that school is starting and we have 3 classes together, our lockers are close and we have a small school and we're pretty much in the same social circle so its going to be hard for me to get my mind off him. I already know that he doesnt like me anymore he made it clear and he says that i should get over him because there is better guys out there for me and hes not the one. I need advice.. should i continue liking him and see if everything i've done in the past was worth waiting for? or should i just try to stop thinking about him and try to find someone else for me? I don't even know if i want to be his friend anymore because being around him is just going to make me keep liking him and it's going to make it harder for me to get over him.I'm graduating this year and after this, there is a good chance i wont see him anyways. But i just really want to be with him. Everyone tells me that hes not over Jen yet and she never really got over him either and i see it too.. Urghh i just need help. (link)
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Don't rush into things, you have your whole life ahead of you. Get education and that to make sure that if you got married and divorced (doesn't always happen)that you are able to take care of yourself and not worry that you can't do anything! I am divorced and if I would have known the garbage that I have to go through to get my life back! I would have thought twice about getting involved with any one! I am now trying to get my health, finances and other things back to normal and it has taken me 8 years plus to get where I am at today and it is not a pretty site! Be friends first and see what happens!
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What are some of the symptons of low oxygen levels in a 1 year old (link)
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Check the fingernails if they are blue in color, more so than pink, that may be a sign. You should be asking a medical professional. Also blue lips may be a sign! Again, seek medical advice from a professional
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For along time now I have had scary thoughts. Thoughts that someone is going to kill me in my sleep. I always have thoughts of my sister or family member doing this. I also have thoughts of killing myself, I even go through the cabinets and pour some pills into ziploc bags and hide them in my room just in case I feel the need to overdose. Sometimes I get in crazy moods and can't control them and I am afraid I am going to do something I know I normally wouldn't do. I am like a different person when I am depressed and in a different mood. It's like I have a split personality or something. I don't know what is wrong with me, and I have this urge to always pull my eyebrows out. It feels so good to feel the hair slip from my skin. I get into a trance and can't stop pulling, afterwards I feel so guilty but while I am doing i its all I am focused on. Each hair I feel represents a problem in my life. And when they come out it feels for a moment I am free of worries. Is it strange to feel this way, to love to feel pain? (link)
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FLUSH THOSE PILLS DOWN THE TOILET! Don't entertain the thought of suicide. You need help understanding why you feel that way. Talk to a counsler and get help, you're to precious to lose! This is not the way you should live your life, you may have some issues that have drug you to this state! Get help quick!!!!!
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Okay. Me and this kid went out for 5 months. He broke up with me a month ago cuz it was summer and we never really got to see each other. We still talk on the phone a lot, talk on-line, go to the movies, hang out all the time. I still really like him, and he still likes me. We talk about going out all the time because school starts in a week. Should I be the one asking him back out? Or should I wait for him. I tried moving on, but Idk. There's something about him that just drags me back to him. He's the easiest person to talk to. But I really don't know what to do. Should I try moving on, or should I stay with him. I really like him, but I just don't know what to do! Please help! I rate high! K, thanks =] (link)
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Maybe asking him to a school dance or have a party and invite a few close friends for pizza. That way you can kinda feel him out and if he is ok with that then ask him to a movie or out for a bike ride in the park. Just don't rush into things, take your time
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Ok heres the story. The guy I am dating now *Matt* and I really do love him I have been in love with him since 6th grade I am in 11th now. And he asked me out in 6th grade but we were to good of friends so I said no and he stopped talkin to me until just recently in 10th grade. But after I told him no he was dating this girl named Stacey and they dated 3 years. He says he hates her and everything and that he loves me and I really do believe him its just that I am so scared that Stacey will want him back and try something and then he will go to her and break up with me. I mean Matt was my first love and everything and I really dont want to loose him. Do I have anything to worry about?
(Stacey cheated on him 4 times and he finally got tired of it)
He says I was his first love he just got scared when I told him no.
Thanks so much! (link)
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If the two of you are meant to be together, it will work out. Also, if he is no longer with her Don't worry about issues that you don't have to worry about, they only cause problems themselves. Go for it.
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hey...well within the last year i have become christian. but lately i have been having my doubts. i have depression, and have had it for about 2 years now. i pray so much but i dont seem to be making any progress to becoming happier. i dont understand why my prayers arent getting answered. (link)
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sweetie, maybe try praying, " Thank You God for all You have blessed me with including my happiness." Also, try visualizing when you go to bed. Visualize that you are handing God your unhappiness. Also, start prying for those that are having the same problems. Sometimes when I am down, I come here to help others and it works. Also whenever I have to build up my faith I reach for the Bible verse: Ezekiel 39:29. Will keep you in my prayers!
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I really am stumped on this one: Around 4 months ago, I met a really nice girl, *Maria*, through an out of school extracurricular activity. Then I met this really nice boy, *Alex* who I liked but I didn't talk to him much. Maria and Alex started going out and I was kinda disappointed but I didn't let it show because no one knew I had liked Alex. I started to become better friends with Maria and I started to become better friends with Alex. Now, they are broken up because Maria dumped Alex and I am in the same high school as them right now. I am still friends with Maria, but I really want to be friends with Alex (not like BF/GF). But all of my friends kinda make fun of him and they always always have because his teeth are kinda like a beaver's. And I don't want to make Maria mad. AND there is another problem: I am really really good friends with Alex's cousin *sarah* and she knows Maria too and I don't want to make anybody mad, but I want to be happy and flourish in high school. I am really sorry about the length but anybody's input would be great. Thanks. (link)
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If you want to be friends with this boy, do it! Don't worry what others say. And as for Maria, if she is a true friend, she'll understand. Have you thought of talking to her! Besides, she broke of her relationship to Alex. She has no hold on him. If you are all mature enough, you'll all stay friends!
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Ok WEll when ever im at my house and i do something god without being told my mom is always proud of me and if i ask her for something like a shirt of the internet she will say yes since ive done so much work well today i went online and found 2 things i really liked and i was going to do stuff like vacume and mow the lawn to get it but unfornalty my mom already hired someone to mow the lawn and she already cleaned the whole house. I know you guys dont know what my house looks like but do u think you could like give me some suggestions on somethings to clean up or somethings good that you know you can thnk of thx!ill rate on anyones good advice
Sarah (link)
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Have you ever thought of going to other houses and asking if you could do chores for them? Like any one that is elderly can't mow lawns, wash windows and stuff. How about taking dogs for walks.
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My boyfriend that I am now going out with (for about a two months)has just told me that he has schizophrenia. I know that if you are a schizophrenic that you are 50% more likely to commit suiside and I know he has thought about it in the past before I knew this condition. He is a really nice guy and I like him a lot. Although right now I'm worried. One because he didn't tell me before and two because I don't know much about schizophrenia or his condition of it. I did a report on it last year in health class so I know WHAT it is but I don't know if even medicine helps much. All I know about his condition with it is that he hears voices even when he takes medication and I also understand it isn't his fault he has it and I should be there for him no matter what. I don't know what to do, I know I really can't do much but what do I do with out relationship? Please help me figure what to do with us and how I can support him if he needs me although I am ALWAYS there for him. (link)
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BE VERY CAUTIOUS! I was married to aman who had schizophrenia and he was getting into trouble with the law, trying to commit suicide and threatened to kill me. I also had a friend who thought she could be there for her husband and he killed her by bashing her face in with a hammer and then killed their baby and killed himself. What no body knows is that they can take their medicine and have a pretty normal life. However, a word of caution, sometimes they don't think it's necessary to take their meds and this is where trouble starts. I was with my husband through his ordeal as his family, I felt. cared more for their money than him. We had over $57,000 and he spent every last dime on sex lines. I was left with less than $60 to live on for 3 months. So it was an experience I would not wish on any one, but at the same time it was an awarding experience as I helped others (he was approching young girls)to be safe!
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I have a friend who has a pretty hard life.She lives with her dad,grandma and older brother.Today we were all at her house and she said f*** and her grandma walked in and started hitting her in the face.My friend tried to block her but her grandma pulled her arm away and smacked her dead on in the face.My friend got so mad that she threw her cd player and then she said "Im out of her" so of course we followed her and when she opened the door her grandma pull her by the arm and starting hitting her again.My friend pounched the wall and walked out and there was a hole in the wall.She was afraid that her dad was going to beat her when he found out and she was sooo scared.What should I do to help her out??Ill rate high for any answer!! (link)
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Get your parents involved and get your friend to a shelter. She is unsafe there and needs help. At the shelter, they can get an advocate to help her. They will call and put a restraining order on the grandmother. NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT MUCH PAIN, LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH. kEEP YOU BOTH IN MY PRAYERS!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help. (link)
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I think the best thing to do is tell your parents about the suiside thoughts. (IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!)If you feel uncomfortable go to another adult, teacher, principle or guidance counsler. You need to find away to get your self-esteem built up. Have you ever thought of going to church? I know, you're wondering why. Because sweetie we are never alone, God loves us and will help us through these things. I use to feel the same way and realized, maybe I was overexagerating what was going on! Good luck, I don't know you, but I do care for you as one of God's children. I'll keep you in my prayers. Oh, there is something you can do for yourself. Try to take some time away (before bed) sit there in the quiet and relax and visualize that you are happy and that what ever hurtful things were said you place each word or phrase into a bubble and pop it, it is gone and can't hurt you no more!
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so there is some one im guessing from my school that made up a screen name and she goes on it and doesnt tell people who she is but she has like everyone's screen name from my grade and she just AIM's us telling us like you whore slut bitch ...blah blah blah, i dont pay attention to it cause i know its just some low life hater messing arround, but yesterday she made up a screen-name pretending to be another girl and her profile was like i like guys w/ big dicks if you wanna have sex call ..... and she aimed me and was like you slut blah blah so it got me really mad & i told the real girl about it and she got super upset.... so anyway how we can find out who this person is? thanks lotz (link)
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go to the authorities! They are the ones who need to get involved. This chick is sick and needs help!
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i was wondering where i could but a cd burner? does it have to come with your computer when you buy it? how much would one cost if i could get it and where do you think i could find one?
thanx so much
anything with help!
i rate high
always *KMR* (link)
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Radioshack, Walmart and any other stores that sell computers.
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