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help puhlez. i hate high
ooooooooooookay. so i have a boyfriend that i totally love with all my heart. but the thing is...he lives in a diff state than i do. and im kinda crushing on sum1 that lives near me. i just got in a fite with my friend and she told my bf that i have been "cybering with other guys" thats totally not true. so he called me up and he kinda got mad at me. i started thinking about the whole other guy thing and now im so afraid to dump him for the other kid cause i really do love him.ahh idont know whut i should do about my bf and the other kid. Puhlez help i rate high!
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If you love some one, why are you entertaining the thought of some one else? Maybe you really don't know what love is. Love means that you have feelings for one person and you want them to be happy no matter what and you would not be thinking of some one else! Think of what you really want before you get in a relationship! It will save on a lot of heartache!!!!! I know took me 49 years to figure that out!
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i would personally go out with the guy closer to me because long distance relationships can get iffy. people could tell him that you're cheating on him or stuff like that and if he's gullable like that he's bound to believe them and bad things may come of that. if you really love him but you like the other guy too, i would say go with the one that's closer to you so you are able to keep an eye on him and be with him. i mean, what's the point of having a bf if you cant even see him that often? this is my advice, but the decision is up to you. good luck & hope i helped!
XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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Of course there isn't one answer to this question so here are two options and you can let your heart decide:
one - If you really love your boyfriend you can work it out, because crushes do come and go. And if you are in love with your boyfriend then he probably loves you as well and eventually it will be worth it. If problems still persist youll find yourself falling out of love (which is okay!) and moving on. As long as you tried to work it out, you'll probably feel better about the situation. However you may feel like it wasnt a cause worth your time in which case...
two- I dont know how old you are but if you are fairly young, it's not like this relationship is going to last very long and if you can get in a big enough fight that makes you consider ending it, then maybe it is best for both of you that you break up. Its not like the relationship will last the rest of your life anyway. Now is the time to have fun and not stress out over little things, and being committed to a long distance relationship completely contradicts this. Just because you break up now, doesnt mean you can t be friends and if he does care about you he will understand. Also, just because you break up now doesnt mean that you can't give it another try later.
Hope I helped! and feel free to ask me a question anytime!
- Althea, the sexy beast.
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well if your boyfriend lives in another state then maybe you should rethink about both of you being together
long distance relationships hardly ever work out and if they do you have to try 10 times harder on making it work
since you like another guy and he lives near you i would go for it! it would be easier going out with some one who lives near you
if you really love your boyfriend then you should stick with him and try to make the relationship work
hope that helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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well crushes and love come and go. If you really do love this guy he will understand you dating other ppl cuz he cant come over and chill everyday and he cant come over and kiss you and have a physical realtionship which is prolly why you want the other boy.
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