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Sorry i re-wrote this because i left some details out
Okay, well my name is Beccah and i really like this boy named Alex and in the 6th grade he had a girfriend named Jen and he had liked her since the 2nd grade and she finally started liking him in the 6th grade and he asked her out and they went out for about 5 months and then he dumped her and a few months later is when i started liking him and he was such a jerk to me and then in the 7th grade we became really good friends and i was finally over him for a good 5 months or so and in that period of time he went on and off liking me and then towards the end of the year i started liking him again and he liked me too and we would kiss and hug but he never asked me out and he was never my "boyfriend" and the last day of school we made it clear that we didnt want to go out over summer and we would see what would happen between us when school starts again and over the summer its really easy for me to concentrate on other things.. seeing how i travel a lot and i do summer basketball and im always with my friends, but now that school is starting and we have 3 classes together, our lockers are close and we have a small school and we're pretty much in the same social circle so its going to be hard for me to get my mind off him. I already know that he doesnt like me anymore he made it clear and he says that i should get over him because there is better guys out there for me and hes not the one. I need advice.. should i continue liking him and see if everything i've done in the past was worth waiting for? or should i just try to stop thinking about him and try to find someone else for me? I don't even know if i want to be his friend anymore because being around him is just going to make me keep liking him and it's going to make it harder for me to get over him.I'm graduating this year and after this, there is a good chance i wont see him anyways. But i just really want to be with him. Everyone tells me that hes not over Jen yet and she never really got over him either and i see it too.. Urghh i just need help.
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Don't rush into things, you have your whole life ahead of you. Get education and that to make sure that if you got married and divorced (doesn't always happen)that you are able to take care of yourself and not worry that you can't do anything! I am divorced and if I would have known the garbage that I have to go through to get my life back! I would have thought twice about getting involved with any one! I am now trying to get my health, finances and other things back to normal and it has taken me 8 years plus to get where I am at today and it is not a pretty site! Be friends first and see what happens!
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