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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.
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how do you guys get over crushes? my friend says to focus on his negative qualities.. but what if you dont really know the dirt on him? lol
go out with friends...go see a movie, go bowling...shopping helps!
going to a teen club or the mall and meeting new guys helps! new guys ALWAYS help! you need excitement and new things to distract you. focusing on his negative qualities will only make you think of him, and you want to ignore him and not think of him...that's the point of getting over him! lol
hope i helped!
whats that?
it's what people in their fifth year of high school or college are called. like if they fail their senior year in high school and have to come back for another year or need an extra year (the fifth), then they are called a super senior.
hope i helped!
okay i have a boyfriend and i like him and he REALLY likes me, but my problem is that I like this other boy. And I really dont want to break up with my boyfriend for the guy i like. so what could i do ? and this boy likes me to . but could me and this boy be friends with benifits or what? I have tryed to stop likeing the boy so i can concentrate on my boyfriend. so please i really need help . and thank you all who help me!!
if you're friends with benefits with the other boy, that's cheating. not a good idea. you're boyfriend will probably be SUPER pissed. and also, from personal experience, someone will get emotionally attached, which is the main problem with friends with benefits.
you should spend more time with your boyfriend, and even though you may not want to, you should probably stop talking to the other boy. if you keep talking to the other boy, your feelings will only grow and it will create an even bigger problem.
hope i helped & good luck!
my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend, I really like someone and he asked me out but my parents think i'm too young (high school sophomore). Talking about it doesnt solve it too. Shoulld i Go behind their backs?
either way, they're going to have to get used to it sooner or later, so if you really like this guy, then go for it! if they find out and don't like it, then that just sucks for them because they can't stop you from loving.
hope i helped!
This question is mainly for guys.. but girls can answer too =)
Well lately Ive been frenching these really hot guys in nightclubs... although I had my first kiss not a long time ago. I know that its not just experience that counts towards being a good kisser... but how can I tell if Im good by the guy's expression? Is there some trick to tell by how he reacts? I mean, most of them smile and lean in again after a little while but maybe they just want some... idk =/. So anyway is there a good way to tell from a guy if you're a good kisser.. without asking?
Thankyouu
from what i've seen, if they keep kissing you, or pull away and smile and then kiss you again, it's a yes. if they pull away and are like "i'm gonna go dance" then it's a no.
hope i helped!
i have school tomorrow and i need to wash my bookbag. is it okay to put in in the washing machine. if not how do i hand wash it?
you can put in in the washer if you wish...use cold water and cold rinse...and when you want to dry it, put your dryer on the cool setting, so that your backpack doesnt shrink!
if there's a tag on it, there should be washing instructions on there also.
hope i helped!
15/f
ok. this is what i'm gonna wear tomorrow..
its from macys, and its really cute. its this like purple, that seems to be somewhat in. that darker purple. and then like it dips down low kinda. kinda like a scoop shirt or whateveR? and then its a baby doll top, and it has silver trim, and the sleeves like kinda puff. and then it has threee little silver heart buttons, going down. its really cute. and then i'm just wearing dark jean capris. & then i have these cute little silver bracelets, 3 of them. that im gonna wear.
is that a good first day outfit?
I understand people don't dress up or anything. but i don't wanna look like a slob. i wanna look cute.
it sounds classy and cute! perfect for the first day of school!
does anyone know any good army/soldier songs?
traveling soldier-dixie chicks
i like it, but i'm not sure if it's what you're looking for.
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don't know if this is the right category, but I want to go to a tennis camp this summer and I need to raise $130.00 by July 14th. How do I do it?
definitely babysit! that's what i'm doing and i'm making $150 a week
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I am 14 turning 15 soon. I am about a 32 B. I got my period about 2 years ago. When do my boobs stop growing? Should they be getting bigger soon?
they will probably keep growing for a few more years until you're about 17, but they don't grow overnight, it takes time.
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how do you explain what's so appealing about chick-flicks to a guy who really doesn't get it? I would particurarly like to explain why people like the typical best sellers like THE NOTEBOOK, GREASE, DIRT DANICNG, PRETTY WOMAN, TITANIC.. and so on.. cause whenever he asks "why do you like that stupid movie" i say "because i do, its awesome, i enjoy watching it" and he says "thats not good enough, you have to give me a good motivation for hy you like every single one of those movies."
So pretty much - how do you convince a chick-flick-hater by using like one sentence? what can be a good reason for liking chic-flicks?
personally, i think it's because girls are more attracted to love stories, and that's what chick flicks are.
and only real men watch chick flicks with their girls =)
hope i helped!
i wear slip on shoes, and theyr low in the front, so if i wear socks, you can see them. but i have stinky feet, so my shoes smell when i dont wear socks. what can i do to stop this?
if you put baby powder on your feet and in your shoes before you put them on, it'll definitely help. (that's what i do and it totally works)
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will swimming with new peirced ears (like within 5 days of piercing) cause an infection?
thanks in advance!
no, that won't cause an infection. just make sure that when you're done swimming, you rinse off your ears with fresh water from your sink and then apply the cleaning solution the piercing place gave you.
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Do you believe that people are "made" for each other. (so to speak) That there is a fish in the sea for everyone...and you're just waiting to meet them. Or do you believe that love takes work, and that there cannot possible be love at first sight and fait plays no hand in it?
thanks =]
i do believe that people are made for eachother. it's a combination...once you find the right person (and it can be by love at first sight), you will know, and it will take work, but you'll be willing to work at the relationship. it is your fate.
hope i helped!
my room mate has really bad breath she has for awhile (a mutual friend and i have noticed) but recently all of our friends are starting to say things and noticing it . She is sensitive about most things so i don't want to say something that will hurt her feelings or make her mad but i think she needs to know rather than hearing it from someone randomly. what should i do? and how should i do it?
ok well i would get a tongue cleaner and be using it and then tell her how much you love it. tell her how clean your mouth feels and how you love clean teeth and clean mouths. (bad breath usually comes from the gunk on the back of your tongue).
then tell her that she should get one too because they're so "awesome"...or you could even buy her one. you can also switch the toothpaste to one thats a bacteria killer and that has the mini pocketstrips in it (they act as mouthwash). and you can also offer her minty gum on a constant basis for a while...and it might possibly get her semi addicted to it which could definitely help.
hope i helped!
what's the best way to gain weight, besides eating alot? thanks
well muscle weighs more than fat, so therefore if you gain muscle, you will gain weight and weigh more. so i would suggest working out and eating foods filled with protien, because protien helps build muscle.
hope i helped!
ok im 14/f me && my boyfriend had sex 2-3 days before my period. well my period normally lasts 5-7 days. I started my period saturday and it like stopped today (tuesday). It was a heavier period though. i kno it may b too early ad stuff but if i miss my next period or get some symptoms could i be??
im like so scared any help PLEASE!!
THANX!!! :-)
if you were pregnant, you wouldn't have gotten your period. so the only time you need to worry is when you don't get your period or when you don't use protection.
always use protection!
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on valentines day i lost my virginity to my bf who i love very much . one thing led to another and we ended up having sex he tryed to put on a condom but was to overwelmed and couldn't get it on so we ended up haveing sex with out a condom . now i itch in that general area bi the way im a girl 15 i itch burn there are bumpes that have gotten bigger this started yestoday he was a virgin so was i and im scared its red bumpy sweeling burning itching . what do i do . why is it doing this.i need help im really scared please help me Please
there's a possibility that it could be jock itch or some sort of skin fungus (skin fungus isn't permanent and they will most likely give you a cream or medicine to make it go away). you could've gotten jock itch from your boyfriend or developed it on your own because it depelops in hot moist places on the body. that's common and a definite possibility.
but either way, i suggest that you get it checked out by a doctor. just going to your regular pediatrician will do.
hope i helped!
Lately i think one of my wisdom teeth is growing in. The gum around it is killing me for about a week and it feels kind o like they'res a rift or the gum is splitting open or something.
idk it just really hurts!
oooooooh I know the feeling, and I hate it. My first suggestion is to go to the dentist. My second suggestion is to buy orajel and apply it to the part of your gum that hurts. It will numb it and you should feel better.
Hope I helped!
i just got a new computer and i wanna transfer the songs on my ipod to my computer. i would put the songs on cd's and put them on the new computer, but there are over 1000 songs.
thanks in advanced
when you connect your USB cord into the computer to charge your iPod, it puts all of the songs into your library automatically from your iPod so that you have them on the new computer. I did that when I moved from my dads to my moms and it worked.
Hope I helped & if you need anything else, just message me!