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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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My mom made me a doctors appotment in August with a regualar pediatricion. (i'm 13)
I'm gonna get a physical or a check-up, I can't remember which one. Thing is, I havn't been to the doctor since I was 7 or 8. So, of course, I've gotten my period since then.
Will my doctor want to take a look "down there"?
(Sorry my spellings kinda messed up, I'm in a hurry)
no- not unless theres sumthn serious he should be concerned about- they have no business looking down there anyways-only a gynecologist. youve got nothing to worry about hon.
hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.
I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?
thank you
same thing hapened to me- but in a more serious manner. i regret it every day- but it was of a diffrent nature. it was sumthn that was forced on me, and it happened a few years ago by much older men. my boyfriend hates it- and used to say mean things to me, but i got straight forward with him one day and told hhim that i cant control what happened- but i also cant control the fact tht i love him to death and that i cant handle him saying these things. i told him he either needs to love me regardless of what happened- or keep holding this against me and sooner or later im gonna get tired of it and leave. hope i helped!
srry, dont know what happened with my link. Anyway, here is the picture. =]
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/meee.jpg
ooh- i like that pic too!- it looks like sumthn youd see in a abercrombie ad or sumthn. very cute. tht one and the one with the red dress are my favs.
I currently work in retail in a mall, I am 19 yrs old, my manager that is 26. There are a lot of things I am troubled about, I don't know how he feels about me.
I am the top sales associate at the store. One day, he told me if I sell $3000 worth of sales (which is IMPOSSIBLE in our store) in one day, he'll take me out for dinner. Later on, he changed the budget to $1500, which is EXTREMELY difficult still. He said he would take me to a very prestigeous/expensive restaurant, the 360 restaurant on top of the CN tower (I am from Toronto Canada by the way). In MY opinion, this is a place where all my friends in relationships go to on special occasions.
Well, an hour before the day ended, I was FAR from the $1500 budget, so he said he cant take me to dinner if i dont make the sales, he'll only take me to Diary Queen, and I made a very disapproving/disappointed *awwww* jokingly, then he said fine.... i'll take you to DQ and a good walk on the beach.
I ended up making $1500 that night!!!!! when he was checking my sales, he had his hand covering his mouth and kinda laughing. He looked nervous, scared, excited, (according to everyone else that was there).
we are going this weekend, first he tells me to dress glamourous!... later on, he said glamourous usually means romantic, flowers and all that, so he told me to dress *fun*.... then i asked *are you gonna get me flowers?!?!?!* jokingly of course. Then he said... *c'monnn christine*... so i told him im only joking..... but he ends up asking me what my fav flower is...
I am extremely confused about this situation. He is extremely good looking, and has a lot of *girl* friends.... but I dont THINK he takes them out to nice dinner like this.
Also at work, he offered to buy me a drink... but he said he *forgot*, but later on, he bought me a drink when we decided to go hang out with his friend and this other girl at work.... i didnt ask for the dirnk... he came outta the convenience store for me...
but just yesterday he said he REALYL wanna see the movie the LakeHouse with sandra bullock and keanu reeves, and he was gonna see it with his friend (a girl)... but she didnt end up calling him... but it SEEMED like... when we saw the advertismeent for the movie he emphasized that he wants to see it again... =/ ... im not sure if he's hinting me taht he wants to see it with me?... or he jsut wants to see it... since he was gonna see it with a *girl* friend anyways....
also... when we were with his friends hanging out.... they were talking about sum girls... and he commented and said they were pretty... >.
he sounds to me like the type of person that just likes seeing different girls- theres realy nothing wrong with that unless hes doing it just to get in their pants or sumthn. id take things very slowly- and do what your gut tells you to do. if it tells you to get away- then be sure to do it. and vice versa. but have fun- it seems like hes just the type that wants to have fun!- so give in a little bit- but dont do anything unless you know its what YOU want- and not what HE wants.
good luck!
I am 5 months pregnant and I was wondering if it is ok for me to have sex ? is there and consequences to having sex while pregnant or any advantages to having sex .
sex is okay when you are pregnant up until your ninth month. but if yo start to feel pain, or an uneasy feeling - stop, and get in a more comfortable position. just be careful, and enjoy yourself.
i am 15 and i am thinking about getting a job, for most jobs i need a work permit from my school but since school is over do i still need to get one? & does anyone know anygood jobs for a 15 year old?
yes, you still need to get a work permit to show that you are capable of working until you are 16. you can probably go to your town village hall, or city hall, etc. to obtain one. but you need to get hired by someone first- then get the work permit. most kids want to go get ther permit first- but they wont let you unless you are already hired. also, if oyu switch jobs, and are still 15, you will need to obtain a new work permit- wth the new businesses adress and information on it. i worked in a pizza place by my old house when i was 14, but had to get a work permit when i was 15. it was LOADS of fun.hope i helped!
Ok well there is this guy I like.Im pretty sure I love him. Were pretty close I think. He is perfect. Well we have gotten alot closer then were supposed to he actually was the person I lost my virginity to.Since then we have done it 9 times but nothing has changed he is still my friend and stepbrother.My question is,is it insest for us to have a sexual relationship?
ohhh, yes yes yes yes yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!- how in the world would it NOT be incest. HES YOUR STEPBROTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! different houses, or the amount of sex youve had doesnt mean a thing. that is dirty, and nasty- he may as well be your full brother!- he may not be related by blood- but he is by marriage. and having sex with him is jsut wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
how can i get motivated to excercise on rainy days? I do not have any excersize equiptment in my house, and on sunny days i like to go for a jog, a walk, or bike ride. On rainy days however, I am either too lazy, or don't know how to excersize indoors. Any suggestions?
id just be cool with the fact that you can get cut a break on rainy days. ive never heard that youre supposed to excersise every day- so i doubt that a rainy day or two will really kill you- your progress wont be behind at all from missing just one day.
ok this is for anyone who lives in rosemount or works at the Burnsville Mall. Do you know of any jobs that 15 year olds can work at??? maybe the grocery stores or shops at the mall??
i dont live out there- i live in chicago- but i felt bad for ya cuz no one's helped you yet- i can give a tid bit of inforamtion- however. i would go into every store that you are interested in working at- and ask if they accept work permits, after all- the only way you can legally work when you are 15 is if you have a work permit. and just a little bit more of advice- clothing stores dont hire unless you are 18 or over, as well as shoe stores- unless you have major connections, and i mean, major. hope i helped! good luck!
Hey everyone. I've never had any type of bangs, and it makes me kind of proud that I haven't followed that trend of the side band thing. But lately I've been thinking a lot about getting them, the thing is, I'm afraid I might regret it. (as in, not like how it looks on me) I know I can click them back if I don't like them, but I'm still unsure. In some magazines, it reccomends the side bangs for my face shape. But I realllyy don't know. What are the ups & downs of side bangs? Here are some pictures, if you could just help me decide please..
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f334/yaaah222/hairr1.jpg
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f334/yaaah222/hairr2.jpg
Thannnnk you.
i would definetely suggest getting them. i jsut got my hair cut yesterday- and i wanted shorter bangs- but she ended up cutting them longer, and brushing them to the side to show how it would look that way, and i love it. then she angled my hair down, on eavh side- make sure you ask for that, or youll look like youre ten. i havent had bangs since i was like, 8- so i was real scared. plus, my hair was longere than halfway down my back, and i cut it right by my shoulders. the cut looks real good with the bangs- but the length is up to you. it takes a little bit of getting used to but i love it!!!!! good luck!
OKay so I was with my boyfriend and his friend the other day and they were talking about something and they said "I don't want no C B". I didn't want to sound dumb so I just ignored it. But now its bugging me and I want to know what it means! I know its something that has to do with something sexual. Please tell me if you know! Thanks soooooo much!
the only thing i can think of is 'cock blocking'- like, if you were with your boyfriend, and he felt that his friend was getting in the way of somethnig happeneing between you two- then he'd say his friend was 'cock-blocking'. hope i helped!
So, I have a few LEGO peices I Sharpied back when I was dumb, and I wanna get rid of the marks now. Can anyone please tell me how to get rid of the marks? Like, what to use, how much of it, where to get it, etc.
Thanks,
-Fyce
PS: Here's the link to the type of sharpie.
http://www.sharpie.com/sanford/consumer/sharpie/productcatalog/tipfamilydetail.jhtml?attributeId=SNATT_SUP_9200006¤tType=SNTYPE004
not sure if it would work- but nail polish remover might work. thats what my family used to use when pen marks got on our dolls and stuff- so it might work on legos. you can get it at any dollar store for real cheap. hope it works!
When I was 10 years old, I had a incident where a grown man stopped me next to the road and he wanted me to touch his penis. Since the age of 16 I have had a problem with giving a guy any form of foreplay. Some times I could masturbate them, but that was guys I did not really care for.
I am in a 5 month relationship now and love my boyfriend very much. I have told him what happened to me and he understands, but I want to be able to take part in foreplay with him, I just get to scared. I can also not be naked infront of him when it is not dark. I think this is all connected to my childhood. Other than that our sex life is good. Can anybody please help me? I am a 21 year old female
well, yes, it very well may be becuse of your childhood- but i dont think it is. you asked for my opinion, and im gonna give it to you stragiht up. i think honestly- youre not ready for sex. granted, you are old enough to make your own decisions and such- but if you can be naked in front of your boyrfriend in the light- then thers something teling me that youre not officially ready- yes, it may seem like you love life in that department is okay- but it seems quite the opposite. i can understand the foreplay part becuase of the incident- but from what you told me you werent naked when the man asked you to perform the deed- therefore i think the naked thing, and the foreplay thing dont have anything to do with each other. sorry if i confused ya at all- jsut tryin to help.
This is the picture I am asking about:
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/meee.jpg
and here are some other other pictures of me that you can compare the first one to so you can sort of see how I look in diferent outfits/times.
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0646.jpg
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0407.jpg
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0551.jpg
This is actually a REALLY important question. Well, for me anyway. I know that this doesn't match up to scuicide and stuff, but i rate 5's for nearly any answer.
I don't mind if you say that this picture is not a good one. As long as your honest, you get a 5. I would love to have answers that explain how that picture may or may not be good.
well, it wouldnt let me see the first pic. it sed it was no longer on there. but i really like the pic. with you in the red dress. looks very classy, and kinda like a glamour shot. the othr two are alright. the last one is kinds of blurry though- and in the first one- theres a hose in the pool behind you. not tryin to be picky- but it sounds like you need a serious opinion on the pictures overall. but becuase i couldnt see the first one- i do like the one in the red dress the best. cute!
Ok, so, i gave my mom the description of a certain way i wanted my hair to look, and she didnt care for the idea?
here is the discription i found: "EMO hair for boys: Hair - Rarely washed, if ever. Dyed black if not black naturally. Is normally cut very short with bangs cut straight across the front. If you prefer longer hair grow it to the length of about your eyes and never comb it."
How can I get my mom to allow me to style it that way?
Also, any crud I get about the hairstyle i want will get 1's
well, i dont think its he cut that bothers her too much- i think its the idea of you not washing your hair that often that gets to her/ every momma wants their son to look sharp. hope i helped.
I'm almost 15, and I want to get a summer job this summer. Any companies that hire at 15?
there are alot- but you have to ask BEFORE you fill out the application. BUT the only catch is that you have to get a work permit. i got mine through my high school- but i also lied about my age and had my first job when i was fourteen. i definetely would NOT recommend doing that. just ask around if 'they accept work permits'- and im sure youll find one in no time. good luck.
if you could change/improve anyhing about your school, what would it be? im doing this for a research class so responses are appreciated =]
the fact that guys arent allowed to wear earrings. i think thats the dumbest thing in the world. both my high schools did that- and im guessing they think its 'gang related' or sum stupid stuff like that.
In March, I got my period on the 18th
In April, I got it on the 22nd
In May I got it n the 20th
Now in June i got it on the 22nd
Am i considered regular yet?? If so, how long is my cycle??
well, its tough to say exactly how long your cycle is- all girls are different. but yes- you are definetely regular. when they come within a day or two around each other- then thats considered regular.
I have brown hair, about mid back with layers starting at my chin. Well, my hair on the bottom is alot darker than my top layers (because of the sun I guess?). So I was wondering if I should dye all my hair a lighter brown or just get light brown hi-lights to even out the color. Which should I get?
it all deoends on if you want a single color of hair- or if you want two colors with the highlights. to find a happy medium thoguh- there ARE hair dyes out there that dye your hair the selected color, WITH luminescent highlights- all in one. not really sure what brand makes it- but look around and im sure youll find it! good luck
there's this party tonight. i went shopping yesterday and got an outfit to wear but im concerned its too wintery. its inside and its not like HOT out, so idk... some of my friends said it was cute, and a couple said it might be too wintery. it's a cute tank top under a sweater w/ a skirt. the sweaters kind of wintery but its at a country club so i have to get dressed up and i can always take it off. what do you think? thank you!!
well, if you need to get dressed up- i wouldnt recommend gettin something that you take off to reveal a tank top underneath- i would get a shrug or something to wear. i have a gold sequined one that i love- and i can dress any shirt up with it.