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You know how if you type something on like the search bar on google and say you put "L" then a whole bunch of words that you were looking up with the letter "L" drop down?
How can you get rid of every saved thing you typed and how can you make it stop saving that?
And is there away to delete the websites on the drop down list on the adress bar? (link)
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Clearing your history, cookies, and temporary files will get rid of it, but it takes awhile and website will load slower after that. So, when you type something in google and the huge list comes down, move the curser over the one you want to delete so its highlited. Then press the "delete" key and it will go away. There is a preference page in google too where you can turn off "auto complete."
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I'm going to a high school graduation next month; I'm not graduating, but my boyfriend is. We go to the same school. I'm going to be sitting with his parents during the graduation. What should I wear? We go to an average, middle class, public high school. Here are some outfits:
1.Black dress pants with a nice shirt and nice shoes
2.Khaki pants with a nice shirt and nice shoes
3.Jeans and a tee shirt with sneakers
4.Jeans with a nice shirt and nice shoes (link)
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I'd stick away from the jeans. This is a special time for your boyfriend. I would go in either 1 or 2. Of course graduations aren't normally very formal dress or anything. Also, it would make you look pretty grown up to his family, including any distant relatives who are coming into town. There's nothing wrong with wearing jeans though, lots of people wear jeans to graduations (and it's probably what he'll be wearing under his gown.
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Hey, it's me again! I really want to go up to him and talk to him but I'm a really shy girl. I hardly talk at school except to people i know. And everytime I see him I get this really wied feeling! I haven't ever had a boyfriend before so I'm really scared to talk to him! I might think that he likes me because i'll catch him peeking a look at me but when i turn my head he turns his head around like he didn't look at me! Do you have any more advice for me?? By the way, did you ever talk to the girl you liked? And if you did, how did you do it? (link)
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Don't worry about being so shy. I was extremely shy, and it took me forever to get the courage to go talk to her. I finally just realized that I would never know if I didn't talk to her, so I just decided to do it (it took me like 3 months though). It sounds like he likes you if he keeps looking at you then looking away. That's basically exactly what I did as a guy, but was afraid to make eye contact for some reason. Basically what I did was I waited until the day we got a test back from our teacher. She happened to say something pretty funny in class that day too, so I just went up to her and asked her what she thought about the test. Then I told her that I thought what she said was funny. She smiled and that totally loosened up the situation, so everything worked out good. I was in the exact situation you are in, but then I just started thinking "How would I act if she started talking to me." Then I realized that I would be nice, and at least listen to her. That is what helped me the best. He's not going to be mean to you or anything. You just gotta get up the courage to go talk to him. If he doesn't dig you, its his loss. Let me know what happens or if I can help you at all again.
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how many songs and pics can you hold on a 2gb iPod nano ?
and what about a 4gb ? (link)
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Not sure about the 2 gb Ipod, but I have the 4 gb nano. Right now I have 745 songs on it and it's full. I also dont have any pics on it at the moment. You could probably sacrifice 20 songs for maybe 100 pics, but the picture thing is somewhat dumb to me. I'm actually regretting getting the 4 Gb nano now cuz it's a lot smaller than I thought. If you have the extra 50 bucks, go for the video one which has 30 gigs, even if you dont put videos on it, that's a ton more songs you can fit on it. Plus you get a bigger screen for your pics.
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Hey, why can't I stop thinking about this one REALLY cute boy that I've liked for a really long time? We've never talked and im too scared to go up to him and talk to him! He's at my bus stop so I practically see him every day. What should I do and how canI tell if he likes me??? (link)
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I had the same problem with a girl I liked. Just flash him a smile or something subtle. Or just go up and start talking. No big deal, just try to become friends with him. That could lead to a relationship in the future. If you're patient about it though and just do little stuff, he will get the idea that you like him, then he can ask you out. One thing to keep in mind though is if you never talk to him, you will totally regret it forever. It's better to be rejected than to wonder "what if."
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Ok! Recently I started dating this one guy, the problem is whenever i'm around him I get really nervous and awkward and tend to push him away. It wasn't like this when we were friends. I really like him! But I don't know why I get so nervous around him now that we are dating? What is wrong with me? I'm messing this relationship up and I really dont want too. Please help. (link)
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I had the same problem when I tried to make my best friend my girlfriend. I could talk to her no problem before, but then I just got all nervous around her. Actually what I did was I just told her that. I said that I was really nervous for some reason. She told me not to be nervous and we could take it slow if I wanted to. I think you should do the same thing. Just tell him that you are nervous but you really like him. Remember, he is your FRIEND. He wont say anything dumb, and you dont have to worry about what he thinks of you. By talking to him, it will truly help your relationship. Hope I helped
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15/m last year one of my friends told me that she loved me. i told her we'd be better off as friends and i pretended not to like her...cause i really do i dont know why i did it i guess i was just scared of her leaving me cause all the friends i've had broke up with me and i didnt want to go through it again but i really regret not letting her know how i really feel cause i really do love her and she's a really good friend to me and a fun person to hang out with we talk and everything but i dont know what to do? help please (link)
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If you think she still feels the same way and you want to make a relationship out of your friendship, I would go ahead and tell her. In fact, I would tell her exactly what you told us. That your friendship is extremely valuable to you and you dont want to lose that. And that's why you said "no" before. If you don't want to be so direct about it, I would just start hanging out with her a lot more than usual and start flirting a bit. She'll get the idea pretty quickly. Good luck
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Has anyone played the ice cube game? like where you have an ice cube or 2 in your mouth and you like pass it on to the other person by like making out? haha sorry this is tottally random but i wanted to know if i was the only one! (link)
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You're not the only one. In fact, watch the James Bond movie "The World is Not Enough" and there's a scene in there with an ice cube (that involves a little more than making out if you know what i mean lol). But yeah...it's a good game.
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is there anyway to get dimples if you don't have them? like is there a certain muscle you can work or ANYTHING? thanks. (link)
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Dimples are actually genetic, that's why some people have really promonent dimples (sometimes when they aren't even smiling) while others dont have any at all. I agree though, dimples are extremely cute, but there's really know way to get them. Not quite I guess, I've heard that smiling a lot and just continually smiling when you are alone for an exercise and you will start to get some lines where your dimples should be.
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17/F I know I should be happy for my best friend who finally got a boyfriend..like today for the first time EVER..but I'm not. I've never had one either..and I've just feeling very very upset with her that now I have to make room for her boyfriend..and I hate sharing. I know, I sound crazy, jealous and everytime I talk to her, I get really mad because all she does is talk about him now. Seriously, what can I do to stop feeling this way because I don't want to keep feeling like a REALLY bad friend..I'm the only single one now..and it sucks being single all by yourself. Help? (link)
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This exact same thing happened to me when my roommate and best friend got a girlfriend this year. At first, he did nothing but spend time with her and I got really jealous. But because of this, I ended up hanging out with her a lot too. And now we are actually good friends while she is still my roommates girlfriend. I dont know, it took maybe about a month for my jealousy to get over (I guess it's not completely over cuz its annoying when I want to hang out with him but he has to be with his GF). Anyway, my suggestion is just to hang out with both of them. You will still be hanging out with your best friend but you might make another friend in the process.
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i just got my braces off and now i wear a retainer. i am supposed to wear it all the time. but how would i kiss/make out with someone whike wearing it? (link)
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When I got my braces off, my dentist told me that I only had to wear it at night. I have to put it in every night though because if I miss a few nights it's tough to jam in my mouth and it makes my teeth hurt. I'm not sure if everybody can only wear it at night though, maybe I had a mild tooth misalignment problem or something. I would guess though that if you are going out on a date or to a party or something, that you could take it out for those few hours without any problems.
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i think i have a funny and enjoyable personality.
but compared to my friends, i feel like im boring and stuff. but when im not with my friends i can tell that my personality changes..
why does this happen, and what can i do to be the same.. ?
help is appreciated (link)
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I have the same thing happen to me. My best friend is one of those people who has the best one-liners for the perfect situations. Plus, he does it like 5 times a day. And I'm really shy around other people so my personality changes. I kind of try to be somebody I'm not. Ironically, when I met my girlfriend, she told me I was really funny. That's when I realized that I wasn't boring, I just thought I was compared to my friends. But she liked me for me. I'm not really sure if this can be fixed or not, maybe just improved upon.
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Okay so I was talking to this guy from school last night and he just so happens to be the hottest guy in the grade. We've talked a few times in school but we aren't tight or anything.
So this is how the conversation went:
(after like an hour of talking)
Me: Im so bored. My life needs some excitement. ANYTHING.
Him: You need a boyfriend.
Me: Yeah but they're no decent guys around.
Him: Yes there is *lists a few including his name*
...and the conversation went on.
So I was just curious to see how this looks. Would you say he was interested in me? Or was it just a random topic he brought up?
Please be honest. (link)
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Yeah, I think there might be something there. Even if he was just your friend, he wouldn't have put his name in the list. Or if he wasn't interested in you, or liked somebody else instead, there's no way he would have put his name in the list. Also the fact that his first suggestion was that you get a boyfriend. He's probably too shy to just come out and say it, or maybe he's not sure if you're interested in him either. You could be suave the next time you talk to him and say "I was thinking about your list of guys that you gave me, and I think I chose one." That would drive him wild. Good luck.
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well i fell like the ugly ducklin sometimes cause boys in my school mostly care about your butt or boobs and most of the boys i went out with they'd go for my butt or boobs but theres this one boy i have a huge crush on and he doesnt really notice me how can i fell sexy but that he sees the inside not my butt or boobs (link)
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I can help you from the guy's perspective. Of course all guys like boobs and butts, and usually that is the initial attraction that gets us to talk to girls. But when girls come up and talk to me, even if they are the ugliest girl, once I see that she is really nice my attraction for her totally changes. Of course looks still matter somewhat, but it is truly an initial attraction type of thing. Once he gets to know you a bit, I'm sure he'll feel the same way. Just go up and start talking to him. No big deal. Become his friend first. Good luck!
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i am trying to upload songs onto my band myspace but they are off my itunes and they are as mp4's. is there any way i can convert them to an mp3? i would rather now download any programs but i do have audacity if that helps, but i don't really know how to use it
thanks in advance! (link)
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Another thing you can do is to burn some songs songs onto a CD through your Itunes. Then go into Windows Media Player, and re-rip them back onto your computer (make sure that it is ripping them as an MP3 though). You will then have the MP3 version of your song.
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I am only 5'0 and I'm 13. I wear a 32 DD! Boys at my school tell me things about my boobs, and it kind of makes me happy. I would just like for them to start touching them. What can I do to draw even MORE attention or ask them if they want to touch them, but not be like " hey you wanna touch my boobs? " I know i sound like a slut, but i really like being the center of attention. Thanks! (link)
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Geez, where were you when I was 13? In all seriousness though, if you really want more attention, start showing some cleavage. But I dont think guys are gonna touch your boobs unless you let them know its ok with you. So you just might have to come out and let them know its fine with you. Odds are though that after a little bit you are gonna be sick of all the attention. You'll get guys that wanna be with you just cuz of your boobs and not your personality.
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how do i know when my husband is having an orgasm?
how do i know when he's pleased? (link)
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A lot of guys dont make any sounds at all during sex. The only way to tell is the physical release. If you are wondering if you are doing something right though, just go ahead and ask him. That can even be fun in the bedroom to experiment around. Then after that night of fun you will know what pleases him.
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Is there any difference between CD-R/DVD-R and CD-RW/DVD-RW other then the RW's are rewriteable and the R's are permanent? I usually would get CD-R's to make CDs and DVD-R's for when i make DVDs. I was wondering if there would be any difference in the quality between R's and RW's. I would always think in the back of my head that if I use a RW then the quality would be poorer because its made to rewrite and then if i rewrite and the disc might be scratched a little then it wouldn't come out right. So I always would just stick to the R's.
rich (link)
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Go with CD-Rs. They are cheaper and better quality.
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I'm tired of staying on a Friday or Saturday night! There's just nothing exciting where I live. I have quite a few friends but we just have nothing to do. What are some fun things that I could do with my friends? We live near a mall and near the movies, but like ... those get really old really fast. Any ideas? (link)
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Me and my friends go to college in a tiny town (like 9,000 people). We found this Karaoke bar that we have become regulars at. It's really fun and we're there for like 4 hours every Friday night. There's good music to listen too, a lot of laughs, and its fun to get up and sing. I was surprised too cuz i'm really shy and can hardly give a speech in class without shaking like no other, but the singing is fun and not really stressful. Anyway, that's what my friends and I found that works, maybe give it a try one week.
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this boy, he lives so far away, i only see him 3 times a year. winter break, a week in the summer, and spring break. well, this sunday im gnna see him for spring break. his family and my family are both going, and, were gonna be swimmin all day, and then its like fancy dinners at nights. and, i like him so much. how do i make him see this? without saying anything that has the word "like" or love in it. like i cant say "i like sombody" because i dont want to be that direct, i just want to hint it to him because he might have a girlfriend, and i dont want to look like an idiot. also, how can i flirt without being to direct? usually, i just smile a lot, and the boy will get it, but this boy isnt so much of a flirt. also, hes 14, almost 15, and im 13, almost 14, and so hes older, and thinks of me like younger. how can i show him that im a big girl? it helps that im taller then him, but just by a little. and he said "woah, are you wearing makeup?!" when i was. is this good that he noticed? because im such a girly girl, i wear makeup everywhere and im not going to stop for him, i just want to know if its a good thing or not. okay, thank you to anybody who took the time to read this, i know its obnoxiously long.
xoxo,
MMEE!!! (link)
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Well you guys obviously have a lot of time. Maybe just be a little more touchy than normal and he will get the point. Compliment him on his clothes or something. As for how to flirt, just start making fun of him about something stupid and keep at it (like if you see him trip, or something about his body, make sure he's laughing though too). I would do some of this stuff now, but then I'd start talking to him on the phone or on messenger. If you guys already do that, DO IT MORE! My best relationship happened almost completely on MSN messenger. We talked 3 hours a day because she lived 300 miles away. Then when it came time for her to move to the same town as me, we were already pretty far into the relationship. I would try the same thing with this guy, so everytime you see each other again, you are already that far!
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