well i fell like the ugly ducklin sometimes cause boys in my school mostly care about your butt or boobs and most of the boys i went out with they'd go for my butt or boobs but theres this one boy i have a huge crush on and he doesnt really notice me how can i fell sexy but that he sees the inside not my butt or boobs
chuckweed007 answered Thursday April 5 2007, 2:04 am: I can help you from the guy's perspective. Of course all guys like boobs and butts, and usually that is the initial attraction that gets us to talk to girls. But when girls come up and talk to me, even if they are the ugliest girl, once I see that she is really nice my attraction for her totally changes. Of course looks still matter somewhat, but it is truly an initial attraction type of thing. Once he gets to know you a bit, I'm sure he'll feel the same way. Just go up and start talking to him. No big deal. Become his friend first. Good luck! [ chuckweed007's advice column | Ask chuckweed007 A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 11:47 pm: Aww, I know how you feel sometimes. It seems like most guys just go for your body/looks rather than your personality.
If you like him, smile at him or say hi. Start talking to him gradually, & let him see what a nice girl you are. Once he sees you have a great personality, you may be able to pull him in. But guys also like confidence. No guy wants to be with a girl that calls herself fat, ugly & stupid.
LoverButton answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 11:42 pm: this happens to me alllll the time.
try talking to him. just as friends, and soon he'll see what an amazing person you are! looks do matter, but they aren't what keeps the relationship going. and if you two aren't into each other, it's always nice to have many friends!
good luck!
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