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does she still like me?
15/m last year one of my friends told me that she loved me. i told her we'd be better off as friends and i pretended not to like her...cause i really do i dont know why i did it i guess i was just scared of her leaving me cause all the friends i've had broke up with me and i didnt want to go through it again but i really regret not letting her know how i really feel cause i really do love her and she's a really good friend to me and a fun person to hang out with we talk and everything but i dont know what to do? help please
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welp hunni theres only one way to fix this...and thats to tell her exactly how you feel as soon as possible! i know because i've been in your place and the other girl before...but im telling you especially if she's your friend anyway she's gunna want to know that you feel that way. and since she used to like you it shouldnt seem really random that you come out and say that, if your worried about that. if she asked you why you waited to tell her, tell her the truth and since she's a good friend that she is, she will hopefully understand
and even better, hopefully give you a second chance!
xoxo helpachick
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well it seems like you both are open with each other so talking with her wouldnt really be a problem right?? so try talking to her tell her that you never ment what you said in the past that you were scared you would go through everything youve been through all over again make her understand you and that you really do love her and always have
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hey, alright well theres no really telling if shes over you yet or not. it really depends on how much you meant to her and how she is with getting over people. bring it up in one of your next convos. explain to her what you explained to us. hopefully things work out. it will feel good getting it off your chest also.
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If you think she still feels the same way and you want to make a relationship out of your friendship, I would go ahead and tell her. In fact, I would tell her exactly what you told us. That your friendship is extremely valuable to you and you dont want to lose that. And that's why you said "no" before. If you don't want to be so direct about it, I would just start hanging out with her a lot more than usual and start flirting a bit. She'll get the idea pretty quickly. Good luck
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well i think that you love her as a sister kinda love. Because you dated your friends before and it didnt work out so maybe your better off just being really close friends with her. SOmetimes when you date your best friends or friends things dont work out because your love is more like a friend kinda love and a brother and sister kinda love. things might change if you dated her. When i went out with my best friend things got really weird and we just stayed friends it was better that way. We still talked bout things and love eachother still but it was weird kissing him and stuff. But if you really love her as a girlfriend then go for it dont be scared of her leaving you. If that happens then im sure you guys will stay friends adn stil talk bout everything. If that was me i wouldnt want to risk messing things up between me and my friend. So its up to you what you want to do i mean i wouldnt want to mess anythin up with our relationship if i was you. But sometimes wen you go out with one of your friends things dont change sometimes your relationship gets stronger by dating them. It depends on the people i think. well i hope i helped out and if you need anymore help im here and you can write me in my inbox.
i wish the best for you and i hope everything works out the way you want them too! oh and im sure she still likes you because when you say you love someoen it usually never goes away well thats wat i think. wen i say i love someoen i love them for a long time adn sometimes forever.
~katelyn~
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