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what's a manslice? (link)
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A "slice" is an attractive woman or girl.
So a "manslice" is an attractive male I suppose.
=D
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me and my boyfriend always end up kinda sitting there / not talking when were together . or making out and i really do not know what to talk about with him . he`s on the football team. and im a gymnast. and i have no idea what to talk about. help me! (link)
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That sounds pretty common. Were you friends before you went out? If not, it is definately understandable.
My boyfriend and I struggled with communication for a long time, most likely because we knew eachother, but we had never really been friends, and hadn't talked in like a year because we didn't have any classes together the previous year before we started going out. It's best to just make some sort of effort at a conversation to show you want it to work. As you get more comfortable you'll find it easier to talk. Maybe you should be with him when with your friends, his friends, or both, because it's easy to talk to friends right? Just talk about small things at first, what happened so far that day, how you felt and why, talk about little things that made you laugh that day.
Is he your first boyfriend? Maybe you aren't used to knowing what to do with a guy? Maybe he doesn't know what to do with a girl? That's how I felt months ago when I got my first boyfriend, very confused.(I'm the same age as you).
Good luck =D
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Crying is like a reaction or something. I'm not a cry baby or anything but when someone talks to me or I get chosen to read something or someone talks about something personal my face heats up and I start to cry! How can I stop? I'm not even sad or something or angry I just cry (link)
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The only thing I can think of is to just think of something that makes you smile everytime you feel like you're about to cry.
It's just some sort of reaction you have I suppose.
I do not naturally have rosy cheeks, and I often turn red when I am embarassed, and sometimes when I'm angry. But then there are a lot of times when I turn red for no reason, and then when someone points it out to me, I turn even more red. I hate it, but I try to think of something that makes me smile to make it go away. Sometimes my eyes will water and I'll be trying really hard to hold back etars, so I again think of something that makes me smile to make it go away.
(I'm sorry that that was a lot about me, I've noticed that I tend to do that, but I feel like my words seem more value when I have personal experiences to bakc it up)
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May I still consider myself vegetarian if i do not eat chicken, turkey or beef, but I still eat fish ocasionally? (link)
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Honestly, who should care?
If you tell someone your vegetarian, and they see you eating fish and they give you shit for it...that's pretty lame.
Or does it really bother you if you tell someone you are vegetarian, but you still eat fish sometimes? It shouldn't. If you don't believe it's wrong for you to eat fish, then don't worry about others who do.
They shouldn't be against you for it. You don't torture your fish do you?
Why should anyone care what you eat, I mean as long as your healthy right?
Maybe a lot of people out there don't agree with me, but who needs to get all technical about what it really means to be vegetarian, you should be respected for choosing not to eat chicken, turkey, or beef, not disrespected for eating fish occasionally.
Maybe you just wanted a simple yes or no answer to that question...but I just thought I'd put it out there, if anything like I said ever does happen.
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hi~~ i got a friend we been best friend for almost 6 years we both know we always will got each other back! but the thing is she like some one i knew that is a dumb ass and totally horriable~~~ i know that he tread her nice just because he want some thing from her. i done ever thing i could to explain to her how relistic is it but she seems to ignore all my opionin and still like him!! i asked her why she like him she told me everthing but he is shorter than her and he got physical abnormal problems i just dont konw what can i do to let her relizes this like is not truethful and she desirve so much better????? pllzzz help me i need her back to normal!!! (link)
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If you really think he is a bad person, there isn't much you can do than just show her what is bad about him.
I bet she does consider your opinion a lot but decided she really does like him and wants to make things work if possible (I know I'm like that with my boyfriend, many of my friends do not approve of him at ALL)
The best I think you can do is if this guy does anything bad to her, stick by herside and never tell her "I told you so." Just be there for her when she needs you.
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I am going out with a guy named dustin and he is cool and all but he tells his friends he is going to kiss me and invite me to the movies and stuff and he hasnt yet. It has been 3 weeks and we havent hung out or anything. We dont really have much to talk about and he doesnt like hugging. I kinda like him still but then this other guy came along..josh. he is soo sweet and weird (like me) and HILARIOUS! he is really easy to talk to and we have "chemistry". What should i do? Should i break up with dustin? What is the best way to break up with guys?
thanks in advance! (link)
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If you like someone more, and they like you, than maybe you should be with them.
If you choose to break up with Dustin, first of all do not do it over the internet, that's just inconsiderate, it's like saying "I'm breaking up with you over the internet because I don't even want to see you." And he probably deserves an explanation.
Breaking up with someone, and then going out with someone else right away, it really hurts the person you broke up with, because it makes them feel like it was all a game, and they lost. (maybe thats just how I felt when it happened to me, but it sounds pretty realistic to me)It might be good to kind of explain...
And of course it probably wouldn't hurt to say "I really don't want to lose you as a friend or something" (but maybe you should only say that if you mean it, they'll know if you don't mean it)
Be as considerate as possible, if you chose to break up with Dustin..
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Ill try to explain this best i can
Well see, I have 2 best friends, and i have a crush.
Crush lets call Brandon
and Best friends, well the one dateing brandon lets call her Cathy
and lets call my other best friend Alice
well okay i like brandon, and people know but people lay off it. He also knows too. Well its really uncomfortible for me to like talk about me likeing him in front of my best friends, because you know. well Brandon likes Cathy, and he asked her out now they are dateing, i dont mind that at all. But today someone said that Brandon likes Alice and i really mind that, because she always gets the guys i like to like her, just because i think she has bigger boobs then me and most of the girls and stuf. Well it would really both me if they dated, because Brandons very attractive and i know she'd date him. Well im not really sure what my question is, im sorry but like how can i make him like me? and which best friend should i act like if, he likes both, and i know its weird like well if they were your best friends, please dont give me that, because where i live its very different, its whatever date them, best friends dont listen to the rules, its retarted. Should i change, and i know i dont want to hear like never change for anyone and stuff but this is really hard for me. im not sure whats going on
and im sorry im being wicked picky and stuff
it just sucks that boys never really like me.. well the ones i want too
What can i do
Is it because im not as pretty as all the girls
Please help
if you can im not sure what about
but thank you ♥ xoxo kendraa (link)
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The best I can think for you to do is to just be friends with them, and maybe one day they will like you.
My friend has had a few boyfriends, and she has actually had me ask them if they were attracted to her because of how she looked at all, and most of them said not at first, but they got interested in her because she was a friend of theirs that was female, and then fell for her personality, and then began to see some exterior beauty.
You really shouldn't try to be like one of your friends (even if that wasn't what you are trying to hear)
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is it possible to make out w/ out french kissing? (link)
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Doesn't making out = french kissing?
Do you mean, kissing without tongue?
'cause of course that is possible, you just don't use your tongue, only lip contact.
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I cannot seem to help my food intake or "craving" problem. I am not fat, only 115 pounds, but Im afraid if I keep up the cravings I will be heavier. I do dance and other sports, but I just want to be a little skinnier. The craving is so overwhealming it seems I can't stop it. I dont know what to do!
Thanks for you help!
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everytime you get hungry, drink a glass of water, see if you feel full or not hungry after that. If you do, then it was just a craving and you should go distract yourself with friends, or go on a nice walk, or go to the cinema, something to distract you. If you're still feeling hungry, chances are you might actually be hungry, eat a healthy snack with a friend or on your own if you can. If you ignore your cravings long enough, they will go away.
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K. Where to start? Well, I had known my ex-boyfriend for about 3 weeks before he asked me out. We went out for 2 weeks, and even though he was a shy and inexperienced boyfriend, I was completely happy with him. Anyways, he ended up breaking up with me after his friends had been pressuring him to do it. He also found out he would be moving a city away and felt that he couldn't handle a long-distance relationship.
Anyways, instantly after he broke up with me, he got really jealous. He would see me hanging out with other guys, and he would get so jealous that he'd make up stories of hooking up with girls to get back at me. In fact, he avoided me completely for awhile. Then, this past weekend, I ran into him and we ended up talking for hours. He got really flirty and for the past few days has been talking to me a lot and acting like he did when we were going out.
I still like him ... but I don't want to get hurt again. I was just wondering if anybody thought they could decipher his intentions, and if so -- if I should consider taking him back or not. (link)
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Hey, well, everyone deserves a second chance.
My boyfriend = the biggest failure of a boy I've ever met.
I took him back, because I liked him.
And then he fixed himself, without being fake.
Ya, I was afraid of getting hurt again, but I liked him, and that was a reason enough for me to give him another chance (and the fact that he gave me a sincere apology)
So maybe you should try again, even if you feel scared still that he will break your heart.
Everytime you get a new boyfriend, there is always that chance they will break your heart, you're just not thinking about it.
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ok.. the kid i'm hooking up with makes no sense.. everytime he calls me i can't pick up the phone cuz i happen to be busy. so he'll leave a message ranting about how i never pick up and yet he never picks up when i call him..
and also i have a stalker so my hook up agreed to help me get my stalker away so everytime i text my hook up i'll say "help me" and he just types back.. "ok"... and does nothing. yet whenever i see him he is soo friendly.. but when we're communicatinig through texts or email.. he only types one word.. i'm lucky if i get a sentence once in awhile. i don't know what to do.. i don't know what to say and i don't know what he wants.. what should i do? HELP ME! (link)
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Guilt him.
Text him saying like
"Yeppp, I love when you pretend that you care about what I'm saying to you =sarcastic="
My bf = the worst at answering texts and IMs. A lot of the time, he doesn't answer me at all, and then after like 20 minutes will be like "hello?" It's pathetic and it worries me.
So I guilt him, and then he fixes it.
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does anyone know any good songs that basically say "i wonder if you ever think about me?" or something like that? (link)
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Aha, well you could probably find something if you type "I wonder if you ever think about me lyrics" into like google, I just did.
Teehee. =D
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Can people give me advice how to talk to her like give me an example convo
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you:
girl:
cause when people say talk about anything or classes i dont know what to say. Can anyone hel[p me with long term conversations that like go on for about 5-10 minutes then she wants to keep talking but we have to go. (link)
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Well like, how about...
You: Hi, how are you? =smile=
Girl: Ummm...I'm good, you?
You: I'm fine, except I hate this cold weather, it makes me sad =(
Girl: Awhhh, me too =giggle=
You: aha. giggling is cute.
girl: teehee thanks =D
You: Yayyy, I like it when you giggle.
girl: maybe I should do it more often =smile=
You: Hey you're pretty cool.
Girl: Thanks! you too =D
That was kind of fun to type...
but anyway, you don't have to have a like a big subject to be in a conversation,little cutesy things are pretty cool, it shows you tried, and doesn't make you look like too much of an idiot. Decent people won't think you are stupid because you look like you're trying to make small talk. You know it's just a start. =D
Maybe I helped, or maybe you thought that was pretty stupid, either way, good luck ^^
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My boyfriend got me a neclace for Christmas. I got him a neclace for Christmas too. He told me on the phone he got me a Teddy bear for Valentines Day. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO GET HIM!!! he has a new watch and I cant just get him another neclace! Guys or girls, what do the guys want? what can I get him for Valentines day? (link)
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Why not...chocolate?
Godiva chocolate is a rly nice gift, though it is expensive. Just a box would be a generous gift.
Expensive chocolate is somehow more romantic than just any old kind I suppose?
I got my boyfriend chocolate, and he loved it. I don't really know of any other gift ideas, but I really think chocolate is a good one unless you've already used it. =D
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you know when you have a pimple and its cleared up but not totally because there's like a red cirle there but you can't feel anything when you touch it? So it's like a flattened pimple? well I had those on like my peach fuzz area and on my nose for 3 years but it still didn't go away even with medicine? Is it a scar? will it ever go away? (link)
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Hey, actually. If it's been there for 3 years, It might be an over grown pore. This means, well just what I said, it's a pore inside your face, that is overgrown. I have an over grown pore myself, and I went to see a dermatolagist who said nothing could be done about it except plastic surgery or lasoring it off.
You should see a dermatoligist about it and see what they tell you.
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me and my bf are both 13 in 7th grade. we were going out last year we broke up over the summer and 2 monthes ago we got back 2gether. he keeps telling me about how were so in love and were getting married and all of that. and usually im like so in love like he says we both are but a lot i feel like hes just using me. he always tells me please dont break up with me id die but i think its all a game how can i tell? because im really getting sick of feeling like its not real. (link)
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Using you for what?
To make another girl jealous?
To boost his ego by having a girlfriend?
If you think it's all a game, you need to tell him that, and really ask him if he means it when he says "I love you".
If you're thinking it's all a game because of the influence of other people...I'd take some time to forget what your friends or anyone else says, and to think about what you actually agree with based on what you know about yourself and him.
If he is constantly saying how you're so in love and about marriage...I would be worried that he is too obssesed with you, not using you. My best guy friend, whever he gets a girlfriend, he goes crazy. He is always saying stuff like "I love you we're going to get married. You are so amazing." In fact, he talks to me about how amazing his girlfriends are. Maybe you should find out if he is obssesing over you to his friends.
I don't know how much advice is really in there...but maybe it helped a bit. =)
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we just got a pet cockatiel and we are stumped on finding a name.
my mom wants a name that means something in another language or just a cute american name.
please an many answers as possible.
thanks =]. (link)
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To me, I think Bobo is a great name for a cockatiel.
Cockatiels for the most part are playful and sweet, and Bobo just seems like that kind of name.
Maybe because of like Bobo the clown or something? cockatiels can be quite the little clowns.
If you're afraid of clowns like some people are, than maybe I shouldn't have said anything.
For a female, I would say Lola. It's kind of like Bobo. Lola sounds cute and sweet and feminine.
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