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what should we talk about
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me and my boyfriend always end up kinda sitting there / not talking when were together . or making out and i really do not know what to talk about with him . he`s on the football team. and im a gymnast. and i have no idea what to talk about. help me!
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Instead of sitting around, pop in a funny movie. It will lift the mood and you two can start joking around and laughing together. Snuggle with him while the movie is on and flirt. You could even consider getting out of the house to go bowling or putt putt golfing. The more fun you have togehter, the closer you will become and you'll have more to talk about.
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That sounds pretty common. Were you friends before you went out? If not, it is definately understandable.
My boyfriend and I struggled with communication for a long time, most likely because we knew eachother, but we had never really been friends, and hadn't talked in like a year because we didn't have any classes together the previous year before we started going out. It's best to just make some sort of effort at a conversation to show you want it to work. As you get more comfortable you'll find it easier to talk. Maybe you should be with him when with your friends, his friends, or both, because it's easy to talk to friends right? Just talk about small things at first, what happened so far that day, how you felt and why, talk about little things that made you laugh that day.
Is he your first boyfriend? Maybe you aren't used to knowing what to do with a guy? Maybe he doesn't know what to do with a girl? That's how I felt months ago when I got my first boyfriend, very confused.(I'm the same age as you).
Good luck =D
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