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i need your helppp!! iam lost.
hey there, well i have a bit of a problem there i don't know if you are good at relationship problems, but i have a problem with my boyfriend, well this happend couple of nights ago, well i was on the phone with him and he siad that who i was talking to and i siad my friend sean (which sean and my boyfriend don't get along at all & sean is my best friend which i tell everything to) so like i told him that can i call you back and then i hung up well like when i was talking to sean my boyfriend left me a voice mail and it was him and his mom were fighting sota, well the fight went insane because my boyfriend's mom went all crazy about it because she thinks that iam using my boyfriend over sean which that wouldn't happend anyway, i would not go out with my best firend that would be awkard, so like his mom doesn't like the way i treat him and either my mom doesn't like the way my boyfriend treats me, well like my boyfriend doesn't do anything harmful or anything, but he mainly makes me sad or mad at times, and we fight too much (sota) and like now i told my friends about what happend and all they all told me that to break up with him, well the thing is that i still care about him and stuff, but i feel like my friends are going to think that iam going to keep on getting hurt by my boyfriend and like i told myself that i wouldn't listen what my friends say about breaking up with him because its not thier chocie its mine you know, but like i don't want them to get mad me and making the worng choice and puls the want the best for me and all, and i feel like iam going to make a bad choice if i stay with him, i care about him alot and love him i mean i don't know like there is question mark in my heart and i can't figure out what to do with it... i need your adivce.
thank you very much.
*Lauren
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Block out all outside influences dear.
It's completely understandalbe that your boyfriend would be mad if you ditched him to talk to Sean.
He's probably threatened by him because he knows that you and Sean have a strong friendship and so your relationship might go poof at any moment. And his mom probably thinks that to.
About the constant fighting--sure it's okay to fight once in a while but if you guys are constantly fighting, try to make a compromise not to let things rise up to the level of a fighting but rahter talk calmly. If that won't work out, you guys should either just take a break or break up because it's clearly showing that it will just cause more stress on one another and htat you guys can't get along much without quarelling over little things
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