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which guy?


Question Posted Monday January 29 2007, 8:35 pm

I am going out with a guy named dustin and he is cool and all but he tells his friends he is going to kiss me and invite me to the movies and stuff and he hasnt yet. It has been 3 weeks and we havent hung out or anything. We dont really have much to talk about and he doesnt like hugging. I kinda like him still but then this other guy came along..josh. he is soo sweet and weird (like me) and HILARIOUS! he is really easy to talk to and we have "chemistry". What should i do? Should i break up with dustin? What is the best way to break up with guys?

thanks in advance!

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orphans answered Monday January 29 2007, 9:53 pm:
break up with dustin, definitley.

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Boochie answered Monday January 29 2007, 9:23 pm:
i think you should break up with dustin. if hes not gonna make a move and you "like" him then you should move on to the guy who has a personality like you and you have chemistry with him, and thats a big focul point in love. the best way i would say is, i like this other guy, and its not really you that i dont like its just we havent moved in the relationship.
i would say that if i was you.

--natalie

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chlorofume answered Monday January 29 2007, 9:22 pm:
If you like someone more, and they like you, than maybe you should be with them.
If you choose to break up with Dustin, first of all do not do it over the internet, that's just inconsiderate, it's like saying "I'm breaking up with you over the internet because I don't even want to see you." And he probably deserves an explanation.
Breaking up with someone, and then going out with someone else right away, it really hurts the person you broke up with, because it makes them feel like it was all a game, and they lost. (maybe thats just how I felt when it happened to me, but it sounds pretty realistic to me)It might be good to kind of explain...
And of course it probably wouldn't hurt to say "I really don't want to lose you as a friend or something" (but maybe you should only say that if you mean it, they'll know if you don't mean it)
Be as considerate as possible, if you chose to break up with Dustin..

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