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Breaking Up?
me and my bf are both 13 in 7th grade. we were going out last year we broke up over the summer and 2 monthes ago we got back 2gether. he keeps telling me about how were so in love and were getting married and all of that. and usually im like so in love like he says we both are but a lot i feel like hes just using me. he always tells me please dont break up with me id die but i think its all a game how can i tell? because im really getting sick of feeling like its not real.
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You're 13! Even if you know what love is..you should not be talking about marriage so soon. You should be flirting shamelessly & having fun being young! You have plenty of time to worry about those things. & if you're not happy in a relationship, then either fix it or move on. But you can never take relationships at your age very seriously. Go have fun, girl.
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Your 13, you don't know what love is! Even if you do, do you really want to be tied down so young? Seriously girl, think about it!
You have your whole life ahead of you and your worring about a 13 year old boy using you?
Go out, party, respect yourself!
Spend time with the girls, your too young for relationships right now! Enjoy life!
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I have a friend that was in your exact situation when she was in 8th grade. Her boyfriend *John always would tell her how he wanted to marry her and how if they broke up he would kill himself. She felt bad and she still goes out with him. She is a Sophmore in highschool now. She dosent hang out with any of her old friends. It is just her and John. John is controllive atleast over the years he became that way. The same way he pressured her into not breaking up he pressured her into losing her friends. I barely talk to her now. All I am saying is in 8th grade she felt the same way you did but she just never broke it off when she wanted to and now it is like she is trapped. If you like him then thats great but take it from someone who saw this same thing happen, if you arent into him end it sooner than later before it gets to deep. Chances are in 7th grade he maybe wont talk to you for a week or so but if he likes you that much you will stay friends. But at 13 he will probably get over it quicker than you think.
Good luck and hope it helped.
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Using you for what?
To make another girl jealous?
To boost his ego by having a girlfriend?
If you think it's all a game, you need to tell him that, and really ask him if he means it when he says "I love you".
If you're thinking it's all a game because of the influence of other people...I'd take some time to forget what your friends or anyone else says, and to think about what you actually agree with based on what you know about yourself and him.
If he is constantly saying how you're so in love and about marriage...I would be worried that he is too obssesed with you, not using you. My best guy friend, whever he gets a girlfriend, he goes crazy. He is always saying stuff like "I love you we're going to get married. You are so amazing." In fact, he talks to me about how amazing his girlfriends are. Maybe you should find out if he is obssesing over you to his friends.
I don't know how much advice is really in there...but maybe it helped a bit. =)
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