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Hey people
My name is Ixchel, Im a high school student. Im curretly on my last year of high school. I do Help my friends out when they need help. When I get out of high school I want to be pshychologist and I thik that this is a pretty good start.

It's been a couple of years sence I last logged in.
I am now 24 and I look back at this web site and see what I did on my time off..
Well I'm re opening for edvice . Ask away I have alot to chare with all of you . And hope I can help in some way ..

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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do

Well are you sure that you want to do that. You might hve to much fun and wount want to go back. If you do go trew with it let her do everything. Dont be stupid and you eat her out. She wants to have oral sex let her do it.
If you do then I hope that u have fun.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Chelly~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

Girl come on. Let me tell what you are going to cause.
Well they are best friends so thats one bad thing. Lets say that you pick one guy over the other one. (You say they both Like you) They are get into a fight and in the end they are both going to stop liking you and you are going to be with no man.
So its just best to have them as friends.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~chelly~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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ok im sorry if this is going to be long..and this is more like a girl quiestion..
well i have been going to the bathroom..and when i wipe all this stick nasy white stuff comes out..and its like nasty..my mom says its discharge but i dont think so..and its like chunky and stuff...(sorry for the details)and some times its brown..so it comes out in brown chunks..but any ways i told my mom and she said its just left overs from your period..like left over blood..and i said i dont think so because its brown not red..and she said shell take me to a cudor doctor..and i said hell no..and shes like fine...and yes i take a shower everysingle day..morning and night..and i do wash down there..and its not when i plat with my self..i dont think so!!
need help bad..ill rate 5's to all!!!!

Well Your mom is right it is Discharge, and it comes out brown some times because the blood it self is dried up.
I know what im talking about when thta started happening to me I thought I was sick.
But take my advice dont go to the doctor.
If you o ask for a women doctor. The do things that I dont think you want a doctor to be doing to you. And they have to see everything. So dont go. Give it a cople of weeks and it will stop.
O if you take bubble baths then stop it might be that your area does not live it and the sope is penatradin you in a way that it should not.

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well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??

signed: grossed out

Well its just sometimes they have to.
But if you dont feel comfertable with a man doctor then ask a nurce to stay in the room or ask to be changed to a women doctor.
And as you get older youll have to get full viginal checkups. I meen its not best felling but what can you do.
Oh and if you fell that u are not being touched in a right wayhthen tell your mom. Hope that i helped.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~chelly~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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