Im a varsity cheerleader in the 10th grade (class of '08) and i love tho listen to music and txt on the cell and talk talk talk 2 all of my friends on aim! i go to high school with all my friends: deanna, tyler, katie, trisha, & celsey! i weigh 117 lbs (tring to lose 20) and im 5 foot 1. and my favorite colors are sea foam green and bright pink.... well thats all im gonna tell yew cuz thats all yew need to kno!
E-mail: almondjoyx31129@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: maryland
Age: 14
AIM: almondjoyx31129
Member Since: August 18, 2005
Answers: 35
Last Update: January 4, 2006
Visitors: 2065
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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
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no, its not abuse its molestation
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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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if they say that they love them and then the person they love hurts them they wouldnt break up with them but they forgive them and work it out , so yes & no teens can love but it really depends on the person, but sometime 1 person really loves another but ther other doesnt love them back and that really hurts, i know, but it happens, im 14/f and i know most people think im imature and i dont know what im talking about but i just wish some1 would listen to me, but anyway.... i wrote this about 3 months ago hope it says something to you!........
love is a word with a lot of responsibility. if you don't use it properly, it leads to broken hearts, lying, misunderstanment, & chaos. if all this is avoided, then we'd all be happier, but that's not the way the earth spins. we always will have broken hearts, lying, misunderstandment, & chaos. there's NO way around it. so why don't we live in the moment and do just what are minds tell us? we could, but we wouldn't be truthful with ourselfs. we need to listen to our hearts and what we feel is right. if you feel it's right to live in the moment go right ahead, just remember this, that when you do, other's hearts & minds are in your hands
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Okay so all the guys that i seem to like or might be interested in only seee me as a friend. I'm kind of sick of being the "friends only" kinda girl. I want to meet new guys, but i'm kinda shy and don't really go too many places to meet new guys all that much...does anyone have any ideas as to what i can do? Anything would be really helpful. Please and Thank you!
~Kiwi
PS: I'm 17 and i'm beginning my senior year of high school. I want a guy for senior year and maybe longer. Thanks again! (link)
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the best place 2 find gys is NOT AT SCHOOL! lol but i found really nice HOTT guys at church, their really, trusting and most of the time the fam loves them cuz they go to church.. HOPE I HELPED!
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i rate 5s!!!
i'm going to a hawaiian party soon & i don't know what i should wear. i don't want it to really stand out (don't tell me i shouldn't, i don't ok??) and i just want it to kind of blend into what all the other girls will be wearing. what do you think everyone else will wear? it's hawaiian casual. what should i wear? where could i buy it?? thanks sooo much!!! (link)
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since its hawaiian every1 will prolly be wear bikinis and lehs and shorts or a mini skirt, but i wouldntgo all out and wear a hula skirt if you dont want to stand out. HOPE I HELPED!!
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ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
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well the white stuff is a discharge it happens to every1 right before you have your period, and it takes guts to go to your mom and ask her if you could go to the docter to be tested and shell respect you for coming to her, sure she might be mad butt youll feel alot better knowing wether or not your pregnat. HOPE I HELPED!!
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Ok i'm ahving a swimming party for my b-day and i might invite some guys and i kinda ahve a pooch and the guy i like might coem and i was wondering how i get a flat stomcah in about 1-2 weeks.i have volleyball practice in the mornings at 6 30 so we run there and when i get home i'm really tired so no like real powerful stuff.i rate high (link)
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well i think you should use a diet, thats the best way to go, try eating heathly cereal for 2 of your meals for 2 weeks you should loose most of your "pooch" by then. HOPE I HELPED!!
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my mom found a open condom raper in my perse..and it isn't mine. but she thinks it is. i swear to her it isnt mine. and i think 1 of my friends is playin a freshman trick on me by doin it. and i got yelled at. i called my dad (parents are split up i live wit my dad my mom called and cussed me). i told my dad i didnt do anything that i think it was my friend tiara (that isnt her real name) and hes like ok. i said im goin to delete her off of my list and ignore her and not talk to her. cause i asked her about it and she never msged me back...my dad said if i did wanna start doin nething that my mom needs to take me to the court house. well i dont want to cause i aint ready just yet. what do i need to do. cause my mom thinks im a whore. and i didnt do anything (link)
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ask her to take you to the docter and get a test and prove to her that your telling the truth, HOPE I HELPED!!
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ok, my best girl friend(kirstin) started going out with my best guy friend(jason) a while ago and whenever i talk to jason, even for like a group project in class, kirt gets jealous and everything. now i want to make it clear to her that i DONT like jason, but i want to do it in a way that wont make her angrier at me.
please help... (link)
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just be hoest with her most likely she apreciate your honesty and wont get mad HOPE I HELPED!
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how are you supposed to respond to guys when they open up to you and tell you something personal... like that their dad has cancer, they are still in love with their ex, or their parents are getting divorced? i know how to comfort my friends that are girls, but guys, i dont know what to say... i'd really appreciate any ideas. (link)
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comfort the same as you would your girl friends if they turst u enough to open up like that then you should treat them the same. they'll really apreciete it. HOPE I HELPED!!
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Does anybody know of any spiritual books that will change my life drastically for the better? I am specifically looking for something that will boost my self-esteem and turn me into an optomist. (link)
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yes, theres this one book i read in 5th grade and i loved it i literally could not put it down, its the little pilgrims progress or the orignal (minus the litte) its a great book, its about turst and the journey to find whats empty in your heart, but if you really want to find christ try going to a different church, the congragation should welcome you and make you feel at home in a place witha bunch of people you dont know but yet you still feel like you belong. its really a great feeling HOPE I HELPED!!
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i am skinny and thin and i love my body but as always like everyone i dont like one part of my body..which is my thighs...my inner thighs kinda rub together and it would help alot if i got some help.please give me your best answer on how to lose weight in my inner thighs quick with a good diet and excersice answer please only answer if you got a good answer thanks much!!! [also extra neone kno ne excercises that would give you tight abs ;-)] (link)
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umm... im a cheerleader and i have the same problem running is good for your legs and buterfly crunches are good for your abs, and that new machine the ab longe works really well, and ive got a diet thats used to loose weight b4 sergery you loose 10 lbs in 3 days its called the "army diet" and heres the stuff 4 it:
Super diet that's sweeping America
LOSE 40 lbs IN FOUR WEEKS
...it works even better than the cabbage soup diet
It's the diet that's taking American by storm! Call it the fax diet, or the ice cream diet..or just the miracle diet.
Copies of the simple plan have been passed with electronic speed from house to house and office to office. And what's more, you have to go on the diet for only three days--and then revert to normal, sensible eating for four days, before tackling it again.
"It's really miraculous," says New York housewife Jeanette Luba. "I lost 10 lbs. in just three days." Other fans have lost as much as 40 lbs. in a month!
Dietitians STAR spoke to say they have no idea where the diet originated, but they agree that it's not only faster than the cabbage soup diet that swept the country--it's a lot healthier!
The miracle diet works on the chemical break-down of certain foods on the body. It delivers an average of 1,000 calories per day. Remember to follow these guidelines:
1. Consult your doctor before starting the diet.
2. Do not skip meals.
3. Drink four to eight 8 oz. glasses of water daily.
4. Do not add fats when preparing food.
5. This diet should be used for three days--followed by four days of normal eating. You can lost 40 lbs. a month if you stick to it.
Day 1
Breakfast
Half grapefruit
1 slice toast, 2 tbs. peanut butter
Black coffee or tea
Lunch
Half cup tuna, plain
1 slice toast
Black coffee or tea
Dinner
3 slices of any meat (4-6 oz. before cooking)
1 cup of string beans
1 cup beets
1 small apple
1 cup vanilla ice cream (Must be Healthy Choice or any other low-fat ice cream)
Day 2
Breakfast
1 egg
Half banana
1 slice toast
Black coffee or tea
Lunch
1 cup cottage cheese
6 Saltine crackers
Dinner
2 hot dogs
1 cup broccoli
Half cup carrots
Half banana
Half cup vanilla ice cream (Healthy Choice)
Day 3
Breakfast
5 Saltine crackers
1 slice cheddar cheese
1 small apple
Black coffee or tea
Lunch
1 hard-boiled egg
1 slice toast
Dinner
1 cup of tuna, plain
1 cup beets
1 cup cauliflower
Half cantaloupe
Half cup vanilla ice cream (Healthy Choice)
Important: do not vary any of the above foods. And yes, low-fat vanilla ice cream is an important part of each day on this diet! HOPE I HELPED!!
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Okay..skool starts on monday and im freakin out..im about to go into highskool and i only know my 1 of my friends that are going to the same skool..and we have 3 classes together plus lunch..okay..my question is..how can i talk to more people?! i dont wanna be the little quiet shy girl..i mean..im really crazy if you get the chance to get to know me..(seriously..) but when i meet knew people my face gets red and i don't really know how to start up a conversation actually..its just that like..i dont like talkin to people i don't know. gahh its soo bad..anndd pleassee!! dont tell me to be more outgoing becuz i am..well mayb not the first day of skool..but..can yall give me sum advice?? tell me what i need to do to start talkin to people..and how to be like..the class clown and stuff in class! PLEASE I`LL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! (link)
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well i know just how you feel, last year i was a freshmenand very shy and vey emotional about everything and at the begining of the year i sat by my self, and i saw that my friend was sitting at this other table and well like a week later i got up and moved to her talbe and sat down and made friends with her friends and then i joined her field hockey team, and i gain a whole lot of friends from bus trips and stuff, but im not saying do what i did but i got me to realize that all you hafta to is be yourself and people will be your friend for who you are. HOPE I HELPED!
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I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either) (link)
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well no dont dump him just because hes short, just be his freind and if you like him that much then youll except him for the way he is and btw, some people dont stop growing till their in their 20's HOPE I HELPED!
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Hmm, I don't know where to start. I'm 15 years old i have 2 older bro's 18 and 22 and a younger sister 13. Most of my problems is with my oldest brother. He doesn't do anything just sits at home, doesn't have a job and just gets everything from my parents and never works for anyof it. It pee's me off because I have payed for everything i have i'v been working since i was 10. Me and my oldest bro get into fights about everything and even the smallest thing leads into a fist fight.. every little thing i get yelled at by either my parents or bro/sis. I can't take getting yelled at everyday getting into fist fights with my bro everyday or going to bed crying everynight because i want to leave soo bad. Everything that i do my mom asks " what is wrong with you" an dnothing i do can be good enough for my dad. more to the story but no way i could explain it all. please help me what can i do, or try to do for the next couple years im stuck in this house.!?!?!? (link)
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just deal w/ it try to get rid of your anger against your brother another way like screaming in a pillow or vent about it to your friends. and my dads the same way so i kno how you feel. try cooroperating as much as humanly posinle and then maybe your dad will see that it not you thats the problem, its your brother. HOPE I HELPED!
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Ok me and my bro are twins... Im 14/f and My family always bugs me because were so close... I have a 16 yr old sister but we dont get along and they are so judgemental about it... They want me to always hang out with her and Me and My Bro Just get along way better and he has the coolest friends... ANYWHO my dad says i cant have a BF and my sister is 2 years older then me and she can... WTH this really sucks because i like my bros friend Cris and stuff but my dad wont let me have a BF... :( ive tried asking but all he does is yell at me and says i cant... HES REALLY strict so how can i get him to let me have a BF... He never argues with my sister about BF's and i always am told no you cant have a BF until your 17 WTH my sister is 16 and has one.... HELP!! (link)
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just start hangin out with him and become "friends" and find out if he likes you too, if he does then talk him bout it and c if your dad will understand, if that dnt work then ask ur mom and see if she can explain to your dad y its so important to you that you have a bf. HOPE I HELPED!
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