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yea, its me again..I forgot to ask this..Well, i know that EvErYoNe argues and fights..Since i grew up in a family that everytime someone STARTED to argue, it blew out into a fist fight and cops coming and me getting hit, so everytime ANYONE at all argues, i get REALLY shaky, crying, and everything like that! I live with my dad now, i have for 3 years and nothing like this has happened before until now, or atleast i havent noticed it..Like a few weeks ago, my dad and step-mom got into a big arguement over something and i was in my room with the door shut, but i could hear them b/c they were only on the other side of the wall..and i know that this would NEVER happen b/c they're just not this kind of people, but since everything before happened, i was scared that they would hit each other and come after me and the police would come, but i know it wouldnt happen but i still get scared..can anyone give me any help on what i should do?? I really need help on this b.c its getting so bad that i actually hated them for a minute b/c i pictured it being my real mom..i got HORRIBLE flashbacks..Please help me!! :( (link)
hello. explain to the both of them how you feel and then ask them to tone it down a little. also tell them ot to fight around you as much. its perfectly normal to get sensitive around fights since you grew up with them. if it happens at school just walk away and try not to think about it too too much. hope i have helped. please rate. and always express your feeelings. and its okay to cry.


hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good? (link)
hello. go to like specail thoughts or a dolalr store and by him a little toy that doesnt cost too much. you can give him a little bit of icecream as a treat also. or even play a game with him. hope i have helped. please rate


well i go to school and my parents expect me to get high grades like they did or say they did when they were little but with me for some reason i dont get high grades and my parents hav been takeing my stuf away from me when i dont get high grades and i do apply myself to try to get high grades........help plz (link)
hello. dont listen to anything when your doing homeowrk. like the tv or music. dont do homework with friends. study for quizes for 2 hours. and just think they might take away more stuff if i do bad agaian . and also think i might get my stuff back if i do good. hope i helped. please rate


well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do (link)
hello. okay so your not as smart as everyone else and your good at sports. well god gave you talent in sports. so you may not be a scientist when you grow up your might be a pro soccer player. explain that to your parents and family and tell them you arent smart and school just isnt your faovrite subject. maybe they will understand. but also dont fail just because you dont think your smart. keep your grades up to bs and cs. maybe you will get a better relationship out of all this. as they always say oppisites attract. hope i have helped. please rate


my penis is small in size please help me is the penis enlargement possible if yes how (link)
hello. ty to use a search engine like yahoo google or msn. hope i have helped. please rate.


Anyone whos really good with xangas, cood yu please gimme yur sn? I can put in layouts and music nd stuff, but i have some questions. Please leave yur sn, im not some weirdo stalker, i just need some help (link)
hello. like abercrombie i also dont wanna leave my screenname. please leave yours in my inbox.


hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?

i rate well! =] ***((haily))*** (link)
hello. tell her how you feel. always express your feelings. also talk to your parents about it. next time she asks you for a drink dont get it. say get it yourself. just pbecause she is older does not mean she can boss you around. lay it on the line. let her know. your not gonna take it anymore. if that doesnt work get counselling for her. hope i have helped. please rate.


ok i made a new xanga site.. its www.xanga.com/music_and_iiconz. i need advice on how to make it better!! guys! i rate high! (and if you have an xanga, subscribe and tell people about it! i would really appreciate it!

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hello. i checked out your xanga. its was pretty good. but you could add layouts on there. also you could add quotes on there too. for quotes go to www.wittyprofiles.com or http://quotelove.broken-road.com/ or even make up your own. also for entertainemnt you might want to have a music video going. so go to www.urbnmix.net for music videos. hope i have helped. please rate


What is a good hair straightinger (sp?)? I have very thick hair and my conair straightinger just doesn't work for me and more. What's a good brand that will work for my kind of hair? Thank you in advanced. (link)
hello. i have very very thick curly hair. the straightener i use is called rusk. its silver and black. it was like 100 dollars at sally beauty supply. it has 0-200 degrees for heat. it also comes with a book and it says like for curly thick hair use 180-200 degrees and it has that for all types of hair. hope i have helped. please rate.


I have a horribal headach. We had no power for atleast 2 days, and it was all thunderstorms. And i couldn't sleep.

But anyways, I took tyolinal and it didnt work. I took it about 3 hours ago, it didn't work. I took the suggested amount of dosage, it still didn't work.

Anyone know a way to get rid of them? I can't take more medicen, Im not supossed to take it after withen 12 hours of last dosage. So I need your help on this one!

x Oo Maddy oO x (link)
hello. there is absoulutely no way you can get rid of a headache without getting a good nights sleep. so just try to sleep now. take a warm bath with a warm facecloth on your head. right before you try to sleep you might want to do that. any contact with coldness is bad. hope i have helped. please rate


ok so this is a weird question...but girls how are you suposed to...um...shave...down there?
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hello. you cannot take a razor and just begin shaving down there. you may cut down there and get an infection. you have to go to a waxing place and get what is called a brazilain wax. a brazilian wax does mostly the whole thing. there is also something called a bikini wax. but it only does the sides. hope i have helped. please rate


hi

im not feeling that well that often, i mean like, its like i dont care about nothing man!

i have had pains thoughout my body, like especially in my stomach.

If i get a chocolate milkshake from carvel (yumm) i get a horribal stomachach and i feel like im about to through up! yet, i do not get malted milkshakes. I dont like it at all. I tried vaniella, and same thing happened! its not how they make it, tis the exact way i make it at home!

and if i get it at a restraunt, YUCKY! same thing happens!

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?! (link)
hello. it could be a number of different things. but i nor the advicenators are doctors. the only way you will truly know what is wrong with you is if you scheldule a doctors appointment. im sure your going to be okay tho. hope i have helped. please rate.


ok well i had my peroid and i thought it was over bc well it stopped fer a while and i already ruined my FAV shorts but my mom cleaned them and they are faded now and i was wearing a thong and those shorts and it came bacK!!!!! what should i do.. n is it normal to have it stop fer like hours?? and ya?? (link)
hello. its totally normal. it can stop for days or even hours at a time. but when you see no blood dont just take out your pad or tampon. just simply change it. cause it may comeback in an hour. if there is no blood for a day or two then take it out. hope i have helped. please rate


hey is there any one that i can just like chat with for fun!! like guy or girl i dont care i just want more people on my buddy list because i just got my aim thing to work and dont have that much friends on there...soo if you wanna chat with me on my aim thing..leave your s/n and if your a guy or gurl and age! thanx love you!! (link)
hello. these arent really boys or girls but they are people that you can talk to when you are bored or when nobody else is on. they are robots. Austion Powers is one. ZolaOnAol is one. SmarterChild is one. they have some games on there like hangman and stuff. hope i have helped. please rate.


I know this sounds like a wussy story, but for the life of me I do not know why I feel this way....

I have this female friend whom I have been good friends with for many many years, We almost went further than friendship, but I declined cause I felt I would lose such a good friend.
Over the years we have always been friends, and I know now that she is the one for me, but how do I tell her?
she has been married and divorced, moved to another country with her boyfriend where he dumped her.

I moved to another country for career reasons, she has asked if she can come and stay with me for a few months, I am really exicted about her coming, but deep down I am full of fear because of the way I feel!
If I tell her, I may lose her or it could be I am gutless in the face of the one I truely love!

Any ideas people? (link)
hello. this seems like another opportunity for you and her to have a relationship. so take it! tell her just to her face that you made a mistake before and that you really love her very much. she might even feel the same way about you. i can see how you dont want to lose her as a bestfriend but having a relationship with her could make something even more beautiful. hope i have helped. please rate


well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I?? (link)
hello. i think you should tell him how you feel. its not good to keep it all bottled up inside. always express your feelings. also if you always keep in contact with him you wont grow apart. use the phone use aim use emails use letters. hope i have helped. please rate


I just joined myspace and I was wondering. Can you get a BLOG layout? I will rate 5's especially if you give me links. (link)
hello. i honestly have no clue. sorry. but there must have been a way you decided you wanted a blog layout. like you must have seen someone with it. so ask to be friends with someone who has it and then ask them how to do it. hope i helped. please rate.


Okay, this is gonna be long..but- 2 years ago a met this guy and we became friends turns out..he's MADLY inlove with me! That's all fine and dandy, I don't mind reject people I don't like, but it also turns out this guy is suicidle! Now, please don't say get him help! He's gotta better about cutting himself, and he sees a therapist. But every time a guy asks me out, even the ones I like, I make up a stupid excuse and walk away for fear the 'suicidle guy' will kill himself! He's told me before I'm his reason for living! What do I do? I rate high! (link)
hello. you cant spend your whole life worring about this guy. you are not responsible for what he does to himself or anyone else. if you are the reason he lives for then thats sad. he should be living for himself and only himself. right now he is too attached to you. try to ignore him for a while. but also try to find someone that likes him and try to start a relationship between the guy and the girl that you found. hope i have helped. please rate.


what does it meen when a guy says i wanked last night? or in other words, what does wank mean?? (link)
hello. it means to masturbate. hope i have helped. please rate.


Is it wrong to masturbate yourself?Will anyone find out without telling them? (link)
heyy .. theres nothing wrong with masturbating and no one can find out unless you tell them or unless someone walks in on you masturbating

hope i helped

please rate




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