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Well this guy I work with..Lets call him Bob,I like him A LOT!Hes not the most attractive guy but his personality makes up for his looks.I told my friend that also works at the same place I do that I liked him.So,I've been flirting with him and what not.Well..He asked my friend a couple days ago if I liked him.She said she didnt know(even though she did)and when he came back from talking to her,he came up behind me and put his hands on my hips and hugged me.I played it off and asked him what he wanted and he backed off.He gives me mixed signals a lot and I finally got up enough courage to tell him i liked him.He said he wanted me to think about it and he would think about it.Do u think thats a yes?no?maybe?
Sorry so long!
I rate high!Thanx (link)
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well it sounds like he likes you. if he asked your friend if you liked him, then i deffinitly think he likes you. and don't worry that he's not that attractive, my bf isn't that good looking either, but i still love him. you find love in the strangest places. so i think it's a yes. ask me anything else you want and tell me if it works out. i hope everything works 4 you.
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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i used to have that problem but i don't anymore. just flirt with them and stuff like that. i go to a private school and there is a really big snob there, except she's a slut, and all the guys hate her. just don't act like those sluts and snobs and act like yourself, but flirt with them more. how i got my bf was really weird. for some reason i started to like him. and he wasn't excactly the most popular guy, while i would call myself popular. when i started paying more attention to him and less to other guys, and it turned out he liked me too. so that's how i got a guy. so keep your options open and flirt with the guys. but don't act like a snob or a slut. i know you've this a million times before, but just be yourself. they'll eventually except you for the good person you are. i hope i helped! please rate!
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense! (link)
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it just makes him a normal guy. he didn't kiss a guy so it doesn't make him gay or anything. i hope i helped! please rate!
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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you might just be getting bored of the relationship. but if you love him as much as you say you do then try doing something you've never done before. you don't want to wreck a good relationship. i hope i helped! please rate!
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I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
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well if he's been flirting with you then that probubly means he still likes you. but he has a girlfriend. talk to him about it. its hard to find out from friends cuz you don't know if they'll always tell you the truth. the only thing i can tell you is to talk to him. he's probubly just trying to get over you or make you jelous with this other girl. i hope i helped! please rate!
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oh. well i have a friend, and we both have gotten wicked close in the past two years. we hang out with each other and all our friends and its usually at her house. but all of a sudden i started talking to her brother a lot. he talks to me online and stuff and we make plans together. i dont want anything to go on between us because i know that if something goes wrong then i might lose her friendship, which is really tough to get anyway. me and her family [including her brother] have plans this week and he said he was going to show me how to play the guitar. what should i say to him? cuz i really do like him. thanks x0x0 * jp (link)
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I think you should go for it. If your friend is a true friend then she shouldn't care who you like, even if it is her brother. Keep getting to know him better. I don't think she is going to care. I hope i helped!
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Okay i go out with this guy ... we have been together for a little less than a month but I have liked him since like september .. Well i dont know like since i got on break for school i just havent wanted to talk to him at all .. I mean he got me a really cute christmas present and hes sweet and everything but I'm not sure if we ya know like "click" ... I want to break up with him i think but tha last time i broke up with a guy we had been together for 5 months and i just felt i didnt like him n stuff but now hes happy with his new g/f and i regret it badly and i dont want to break up with my current b/f and regret it too ... what should I do? Please help -XoX- (link)
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give him more time. maybe somthing he says or does will change your mind. and if you keep waiting and nothing ever happens, make sure to explain that you still want to be friends and tell him why ur breaking up with him. but for now i think you should wait a little bit longer and see what happens. you find love in the weirdest places, and i should be the person to know. i hope i helped!
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
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don't end things with this guy because this girl is jelous of wut you have. i know a girl excactly like that and if she ever think's about getting near my bf im just gonna smack her or sumthing. it doesn't sound very nice, but grl's like that are terrible. just ignore her. eventually she'll realize that there isn't a chance of getting her old bf back, and that he's more interested in you. i hope i helped!
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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance. (link)
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i dunno. this is a tough one. if she knows you like him then i don't think she should ask him out in the first place. talk to your friend about it. tell her how much u like him. i hope i helped!
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I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks. (link)
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i think you should just tell him everything you just told us. the only thing you can do is talk 2 him. explain that ur kids future is effected by this. he's probubly just stressed from being a father. I hope i helped!
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Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!! (link)
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Yes i deffinitly think you should ask him out again! And I would do it in person so it means more to him. I hope I helped!
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Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me? (link)
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I don't think you should waste your time on him. He doesn't know what he's doing and you deserve better than that. You need somebody who will treat you with respect. There are alot of better guys out there. I hope I helped!
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I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal? (link)
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Yes it's normal. But it seems like you have a very good life. You wouldn't want to give all that up. Your friends and family love you. And they'd miss you alot if you decided to commit suicide. I hope I helped!
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well you see my dad just got up and left last night...he didnt tell anyone where he was going or when he would be back, we didnt even know he left...so after awile i called his cell...he answered and when i asked where he was he told me driving...i asked where, he siad the mountians when i asked when he'd be back he said WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT! and hung up!...i havent slept in my room becuz im scared he'll show back up and hurt me...hes a drunk and a very mean drunk...im really scared and upset becuz im daddy's lil girl and i want him home for christmas but aty the same time i wish he would leave forever! i dont know what to do anymore...plz if you have any advice plz tell me! (link)
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If your really that scared I would stay away from him. Nobody wants you to get hurt. Stay close to your friends and other family and they'll help you get through this. I hope I helped!
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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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Yeah he likes you. Keep flirting with him or ask him to go to another movie with you. Maybe ya'll would go out!!! Just keep doing what your doing because it seems to be working! I hoped I helped!
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Well...what clothing styles are in style this winter...and what accessories will spice up an outfit? Please give me some ideas! (link)
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if you go to like Hollister or American Eagle they have really cute sweaters and stuff like that...it would look good with a pair of jeans. And then just wear some necklaces and bracelets that stand out!
Hope I helped!
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okay so i have this best friend ..well sort of, okay me and him 2 months ago, had a huge fight about how i felt, i stopped feeling as if he loved me like he said he did, and he got extremley mad at me and blocked me online, and got a new sn , pretty much just completley made me get away from him, weve had fights like this before, and hes the type of guy that is always right and can never be wrong...so... i talked to a bunch of my friends, and he really did treat me bad...i was like his dog..and so yeah, i know i deserve better and like my friend says "its not that i miss him, i just miss what we once had* and it was an AMAZING frienship..ive never been so close to soemoen in my life...so yeah, my question is, should i try to call him and say merry christmas? I mean its been 2 months...dont you htink he'd be over it by now...and my sister says he seems as if its totally over, and i shouldnt try,i sent him a x-mas card and didnt hear anything back from him, so :/ I dont know what to do...and this whole thing ended because of one chick that his life revolved around...help me :( (link)
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I think you should call him and tell him merry christmas. If he answers you then try to start to talk about what's been going on. And then maybe things will get better. If he keeps ding this to you, maybe he's not everything you thought he was. I hope I helped and I hope things work out!
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Some years ago, I really liked this guy . The thing is that now I want to get over him . It was always a game of getting him jealous or making me jealous, and that's so pitiful and childish . I fell into that game cause I have liked, maybe loved, this guy for at least two years . I want to get over him and I am at the door step of doing that . So back to present reality . He has a girl, who he treats bad and all, and I have no one . He follows other girls , pays no attention to the girl he's with, and acts like he has a stick up the @## and it's so annoying me . No one deserves to be treated that way . I can't help but worry if things would've been different or would do the same to me . Guys help me out. What do you think, and why do some guys do this ? He continues the jealousy and looking game and I can't stand it . I want to move on , but somethings keeping me here at the doorstep . I want to be free but I can't fully do it . Why? Oh, please help me . I'll rate truthfully . (link)
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If he's going to treat people like that, then your to good for him. Even if you loved him, nobody likes to be treated like that. I think you should move on. It might seem hard but you need to find somebody that will treat you with respect. I hope I helped!
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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again? (link)
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YES!!! i definitly think you should get back together with him. My boyfriend broke up with me to for the same reason. And we got back together recently. Now he wants to talk more and spend more time with each other. So just call him morer and say Hi when you see him. Get to know him better! Hope I helped!
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i'll try to make this short. my brother was overseas in the army for three years. he came back in august. i've only seen him a couple of times since he's been back. the problem is we used to be so close and now he's just so weird. he won't talk to me. i went over for thanksgiving and he ate in a room all by himself. i felt bad and went in there to keep him company and as soon as i sat down he walked out of the room. he wouldn't even say hi to me or the rest of the family for that matter. i have to see him tommorow for christmas. should i ignore him or try to talk to him. he shuts me out everytime i try. any help would be great thanks. (link)
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Well if your brother just came in from overseas he's probubly still getting comfortable. Just keep trying to talk to him. Maybe you should ask him if he wants to do somthing with you. Spend time with him, just the two of you. If he finally starts to talk to you, just keep the conversation going. I hope I helped!
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