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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat?
no.. you cant get pregnant if you haven't had your period...have you been having sex? most girls get their period around 7th or 8th grade and if you havent gotten yours yet that has to mean you are younger than that. if u are... i would stop because there is still a 50% shot of you getting pregnant. however if you are still gonna have sex.. always use protection. hope i helped
okay...i just got out of a relationship and it ended very badly. i fell in love with him and hes been saying very mean things to me and im finally over him completely. theres this other guy that im friends with and ive been thinking about him a whole lot and im really starting to like him and hes really nice and hes got such a great personality. im just scared to fall for someone like i did last time and get hurt and go through all this again..even though i do trust this guy that i like. should i go for it or keep waiting?
you should def. go for it. evryone is different. just because the one guy is a jerk doesnt mean that that other guy will be. he could be a real sweat heart... the only way to find out is to try it.... hope i helped
okay just warning you this could get kind of long, so I met this guy and for some reason immediately he just sparks my interest you know catches my eye however you wanna put it so I start getting to know him better and he's probaby like the funniest person I ever will meet in my life so Im starting to really fall fast for this kid then he asks me out at first I kind dont want to rush into but I think about it and I realize that im not willing to risk the chance of losing him by saying no. so I said yes and by doing that I did exactly what I didnt want to happen. We went out over the summer and broke up for well some really stupid reasons I couldnt trust him because he lied to me alot and would tell other people everything we did. to me that was our personal business and i didnt want everyone knowing about it so after i talkd to him and he cont'd doing it i broke it off he told me he didnt care and that he hated me and he never wanted to speak to me again then he made the next few weeks hell for me but then one night i got really upset and i was talking to one of his good friends about it and i was trying to explain how i just couldnt see how i could be so stupid to think he ever cared about me when he obviously didnt, well his friend cut me off right there. he told me that me and my ex were two of a kind, we were cut from the same block however you wanna put it, my ex had said that same thing about me when i broke up with him and he even cried but made his friend promise not to tell anyone. now that i know this happened i think i might of made a mistake i really loved that boy and i miss him everyday, i pray everynight that one day ill get him back and i know how pathetic that sounds esp. since he just got a girlfriend today they dont really know eachother too well though and i heard he still wishes me and him would someday work everything out but i dont know it seems like everythings in too big of a mess and that no one would ever be able to fix it.. i feel like an idiot for letting him slip away. he wasnt perfect, he was far from that but i loved that about him cuz he knew it and he'd always let it shine through and he could always make me laugh. i need some help though what should i do to even be on just good terms with him? or what should I do to possibly win him back or am i just as screwed as i thought.. i know this is long and probably annoying and your probably even laughing but thanks for at least reading it an please respond if you have any ideas cuz im really hurting right about now
-virginia
you should talk to him... tell him how you feel.... tell him it was a big mistake losing him and that if you cant ever be a couple again, you still want to be really good friends like you used to be.
my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend.
well.... maybe since she has never had a boyfriend that treated her like that... she gets caught up in the moment. its def. wrong that she chooses him over her but next time you call her to ask her to hang out tell her u want it to be just the two of you. make it clear that you dont want to hang out with him at the moment! hope i helped!
ok i dont know how to do my make up for my face i have dark brown hair hazil eyes and light pinkish lips what are some make up tips that would look good on me thnx sooo much
try some black eyliner, light green shadow(( but dont put too much it will lo0k bad)) and some brown mascara. it will look good with your hair and eyes..... also if u dont like eyshadow just do the eyliner and the mascara.
my friend is 13 and she had sex with a sixteen year old and she got pregnant because her cheap boyfriend couldn't spare the extra 3 dollars to buy the good condoms and it ripped, so now she's all excited about having a baby and i told its nothing to be excited about and i told her that when your that young and have a baby that its not very safe and you could die is it true?
and by the way i love my friend to death and i have know clue what to say to her about the whole thing and she's mad that everyone is calling her a slut which she is!
well that is pretty stupid. why would yu have sex at 13!!?? i mean it is a 50% chance that you will get pregnant and then you really have to think. tell her that she has her whole life to have kids but what is important right now is her school work and her own life. that doesnt involve taking care of a baby 24/7. maybe you should try to convince her about putting the baby in an addoption center. just think about what is best for the baby. i know she must want it to have a good home and to be takin care of.
My parents don't like colored people but i have a lot of colored friends that are guys. I think i'm starting to like one of them but i can't help it and i think he likes me. I've been going to all his footbell games and everything like that. but if my parents found out that we liked each other i would get in a lot of trouble ( and right now isn't a good time for that ). I asked them why they are like that and they said they knew some bad ones when they were growing up..and that a lot of colored people are like that to white people...but i said the black people that live around us had to get used to it and my parents should to but i don't think it worked. Would some one PLEASE help me?!?! Thank You So Much If You Can Help Me!
my parents are the same way and i think its totally wrong. yeah thers some bad ones out there but not all colored people are bad. so0o... my advice is to obay your parents. if you dont know what the consequences are they are most likely going to be bad so just stay frineds for now... you can still like him but make sure that youre not getting to involved
Girls: I have used tampons before of course, but never at school. I just started using them over the summer. We have not even 2 mins to go to the bathroom at school, and I'm worried when I'm in the bathroom changing a tampon, some girl will walk in and see me underneath the stall with one leg up. What should I do, any tips? I can flush mine, but what do I do with the applicator and wrapper? The garbage is right by the door, away from stalls. What can I do??
u dont always have to change your tampon with one leg up. u can sit on the toliet and spread your legs to put it in... this will make it less noticable. now... if you are worried about someone seeing you throw it away...wrap it up in toliet paper when you go to throw it out then people will just think that its a piece of toilet paper.if you dont wanna do that... hu carse if someone sees you...now ii dont no what grade you are in but if your in middle school or highschool chances are that a lot of other girls have their period too. so it wont matter if they see you. if your not in the older schools...well...dont be embarssed...everyone developes at different times... ii got my period in the fith grade and all my friends didnt get it until like 7th or 8th grade... so dont be embarassed just do what you have to do and then its done. also there should be a little trash thing on the side of the stall in the bathroom just for that. look for one and if you dont see one try what ii told you.
Heyy .. well i'm kinda new at my school & there is this kid in my history class that sits by me & he always teases me but you can tell that he's just joking around & he always makes sure that he's looking me right in the eye & then he smiles at me.
His locker is right above mine & usually he doesn't talk to me but today after school he was like "come on hurry uppp get your stuff" & he was like kicking my shoes but you could tell he was just kidding. So I was wondering if you think he was just being friendly or if he might actually like me. Thanks for your help & I'll rate high! :)
thats hard to determine but he might like you.
do you like him?¿? if u do tell him how you feel so that he knowns and if hes single and he knows how you fell mabe he'll take the risk and ask you out. if he doesnt like you and he doesnt ask you out just tell him that you dont want things to be weird around you guys just because you like him
im trying to make a myspace layout site...i know how to make the layputs and stuff im just having trouble making them show up heres the page www.myspace.com/double_ara_lauouts and under general we tried putting the layout there with a link but after i pressed enter it wont go a line under like this site http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=19927772&Mytoken=2362B5C5-E33D-4B30-B0E5DD3999D56DBA886396734
will rate 5 for anything thanxxx
i dont know what u mean about layout!? tell me more about it and i will most likely be able to help u out. i have a myspace myself.
This might be stupid, because it happened to long ago but I want peoples opinions about it. I'm 15 female, & my sisters 22 female.
My mom has been on asthma ever since she was a young girl, and one night in June 2005 I wake up to her coughing an over amountage & weezing [deep breathing] I was super worried because I didn't know what to do, so I woke my sister up & had her come in my mom's room, my mom started throwing up because she was coughing so much, & she couldn't breath, so we decided we were going to take her to the hospital, because that's the only choice we really had. At this time my dad was living away, but my parents don't hate each other or anything, it's just he moved & they we moved a couple months later. But anyways, when we decided we would take my mom to the hospital my sister goes into her room, changes from her pajamas to regular clothes & then says shes ready!!
I didn't even care what I looked like, I didn't want to waste anytime because I knew that my mom had a hard time breathing, and it must be horrible to have that problem. But, my sister changed and that's what made me really mad, because it just seems like she doesn't care what happened to my mom in that 3 minutes. Blah, well basically I was just wondering, don't you think that that's wrong? I know I shouldn't be worrying about it now, because my mom's perfectly fine now but I just can't stop thinking about it.
Automatic 5's just for reading. Thanks a bunch =P
ummm...well... thats a difficult one to answer. if my sister did that i would be totoally mad. But if she didnt take FOREVER to get ready and your mom is fine now.... ii say let it go.... your m0m's okay and thats all that matters.
Has anyone tried the stridex power pads? Do they work? Thanks! LOve ya.
ii have tryed them...u have to use theem every night to prevent pimples and break outs. All that it does is wipe all the dirt and oil from your face. but the only way it will work is if you use it EVERY NIGHT!!
wats the best way to get pimples away fast?? i heard something about tooth paste and another thing about eye drops.. but i dont understand them.. anything would be good. i rate high!
Thnz
ummm....... pimples.... they're tough to deal with. One day ii hade a pimple and my m0ms friend recommended some stuff that realii does work. Try getting a teaspoon of DRY chopped basil and 1 cup of water. Put the in a pan on the stove and leave it there until it starts to boil. then.... take it off the heat...let it co0l for about 2 minutes... and then put it on ur pimple((s)) Its supposed to realli work. It drys them right up. Even though it smells realii bad its better than having a big pimple.
h0pe my advice helped
I am a pretty outgoing girl, but for some reason I am a lot shyer when it comes to approaching boys. If they talk to me first, then it's all good, but I want to have more of a interaction with them then just in class. I don't know how to approach them, and it's not as easy as "just being brave and talking to them" (most people say this) because they already have other girls who are their friends, so it's tough because they already have friends. To me it sounds eaiser if I start talking online, but then I feel like it would be awkward because they'd be like "where the heck did she get my screen name" so I wouldn't know how to IM them first. Does anyone have any good tips for me on preferably starting a conversation with a boy you only know from class, or IMing someone? I would really appreciate a good thought out answer from someone who has ahad the same experiences because a lot of people say be brave but it's not so easy for some girls as it is for others! I am a 16 year old female if it helps, & I would say I am pretty (not the most gorgeous girl, but nice looking). THANK YOU!
Talking to boys isnt always esay but once you start it will just become natural. A good way to get started is to just say hi in the hall ways. If ur into this guy(( like a crush )) you might want to trii to start a conversation. Just go up to him and say hi. Its really hard to do when youre scared but the key is having faith in your self. You have to think possative the whole time. Now, ii have a lot of guy friends so its a little easier for me because if ii like someone its usually one of my friends. If you dont have the guts to go up to him and talk to him.... well...IM him.... just say hey...tell him hu you are and just start a random coversation. After that it will be a lot easier to talk to him.
h0pe ii helped a least a little
go0d luck!