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I am a pretty outgoing girl, but for some reason I am a lot shyer when it comes to approaching boys. If they talk to me first, then it's all good, but I want to have more of a interaction with them then just in class. I don't know how to approach them, and it's not as easy as "just being brave and talking to them" (most people say this) because they already have other girls who are their friends, so it's tough because they already have friends. To me it sounds eaiser if I start talking online, but then I feel like it would be awkward because they'd be like "where the heck did she get my screen name" so I wouldn't know how to IM them first. Does anyone have any good tips for me on preferably starting a conversation with a boy you only know from class, or IMing someone? I would really appreciate a good thought out answer from someone who has ahad the same experiences because a lot of people say be brave but it's not so easy for some girls as it is for others! I am a 16 year old female if it helps, & I would say I am pretty (not the most gorgeous girl, but nice looking). THANK YOU!
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Talking to boys isnt always esay but once you start it will just become natural. A good way to get started is to just say hi in the hall ways. If ur into this guy(( like a crush )) you might want to trii to start a conversation. Just go up to him and say hi. Its really hard to do when youre scared but the key is having faith in your self. You have to think possative the whole time. Now, ii have a lot of guy friends so its a little easier for me because if ii like someone its usually one of my friends. If you dont have the guts to go up to him and talk to him.... well...IM him.... just say hey...tell him hu you are and just start a random coversation. After that it will be a lot easier to talk to him.
h0pe ii helped a least a little
go0d luck!
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when you are iming them be like, heyy its (your name) i got your sn from (person your got it from) your in my (subject) class, right? , that way he nos that u like him enough to talk to him but you dont sound desprate. hope i helped xoxo Tara
o0o0o, just like compliment him on his clothes or someting or talk about how dumb the teacher is or about the weather anything really but remember to always smile!! and flip your hair, not alot just a little so they notice it. and laugh at all the things they say that they are trying to be funny.
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