E-mail:
bumdinger27@hotmail.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
OntarioAge:
18Member Since:
October 30, 2004Answers:
36Last Update:
March 14, 2005Visitors:
4384Main Categories:
Love Life
Fitness
General Sex Questions
View All
about
I love giving advice, I can say that I am good at it, most people i know come to me for advice. I am going to Uni next year and have a great boyfriend. I love keeping in shape and watching the Oc :) I do well in school I have an over 80 average and I LOVE giving advice! So ask me a question!!!
advice
i get depressed like really easly.. like today at school i was really hyper and happy and all that but now im really up set and want to cry over nothing. i just randomly melt down.. is there anyway to stop this or is there a reason im like this?
Yea I am almost positive most girls go through it! I am turning 18 soon, and I always go through it. One moment I will be so happy and the next I will be in tears over some dumb comment. Basically you have two options you can go on antidepressants, which do work you just have to find the right one or you can do an activity that can help you with this. I was on antidepressants and they did work but I didn't like how I was gaining weight so I stopped. So now to help myself out with these crazy emotional swings I goto the gym or I take time and write in a note book all my thoughts randomly, it helps clear your mind. You could take yoga or pilates, or even boxing getting any anger out. Anything that you are interested in you can take your emotions out into it. Hope it helps!
1. I want to go to a tanning bed, BUT, i heard it causes skin cancer, Does it really? Alos, I want to get a tan and I know its fall/winter almost. Would it look stupid? And how much do they usually cost? And do you have to be skinny to go to one?
I use to tan alll the time until I heard it makes u turn into a prune really young.. like i have seen girls who tanned all there teenage years and they are wrinkly now (they are like 25) plus it causes skin cancer! Anyways you have your whole life to be in the sun don't try and push it now... try investing in a nice fake tan (some products are relally good)
Do diet pills really work? I know there not healthy or anything. But i was thinking that if I went to my doctor they could perscribe me some healthy diet pills. Has anyone ever took them or a family/friend? And did it actually work. And yes I DO need to lose weight. Not a little about 100 pounds or so by next september or december. --And im also talking about the diet pills you can by in the stores. Thanks!
Hey, diet pills do work, but there is a catch, if you ever read a diet pill bottle it will say something to this effect" only works when calorie intake has been modified and exercise is being taken place" So basically the pills only work when you diet and exercise. So my suggestion is diet and exercise, BUT if you want to spend money and maybe get a chance in a weightloss assistant then buy diet pills, buy the Non ephedra because the ephedra's are banned because people have died from them. I would also suggest when buying them get a brand that people have heard of like you see on Tv because you know that they are safer then the ones people haven't heard of. I have taken diet pills and they do work, but they only work along with calorie modification and exercise. Hope i helped!
I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!!
I have my nose pierced and basically when they do it you can't look at them doing it because its soo close to and your at a weird angle... when they did my nose it hurt for in an instant and then it was done... my eyes watered (but they said that was normal because your nose is so close to your eyes) .. I also have my nipple pierced and it hurt way way way more so getting your nose done isnt that bad! And also i thought getting my ears pierced hurt more than my nose
Hey me and my friend/new coworker are starting a painting business and i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas on how we could get our name out there and start getting business...We have already made flyers and business cards! Thanks !
try making a website, you could make flyers with the website on it and put it on around town .
my boyfriend always calls me sayin how some girl kissed him today at school but if i just say my friend likes my butt he freaks out and i dont care about him flirting cz we dont go to the same school so im not there to do something..anyways i wanna tell him on halloween i was holdin this guy i just met hands but i dont want him to freak out..how can i tell him and ask why he freaks out about me doin the smallest things with my friends and me not doin nothin about him and his???
o yea when he flirts i get jealous but i dont act or say nothin about it..is he tryin to get me jealous?
I don't want to sound awful or anything but it sounds like you and your boyfriend don't have much of a relationship considering he calls you up saying he and a girl have been kissing... usually people break up over those types of things because its cheating, even if the other person started kissing them. If its only happened once then fine forgive him but if he is always calling you to say he kissed another girl then you should end it with him. This guy seems to be trying to get you angry and jealous of him, I would say dump his butt and find a guy who will want to go out to make you happy.
where can i get good friendship quotes to put in like my aim info or something? any good web sites?
www.ilovepoetry.com
Ok, don't think I am crazy or anything, I just DO NOT like scary movies. I end up thinking about them long after I have watched them. Now, I know the best idea is not to watch them, but unfortunatly I don't always have that choice. Any good techniques besides the simple "Remember that it is fake?" Thanks
I am very scared of scary movies to!! For me I try and make a joke of the whole movie and point out really dumb things be like "wow that mask is horrible, did a four year old make it?" Like try and make fun of everything in the movie... and worst comes to worst just close your eyes... haha wear sunglasses to the movies and have a good nap.. then when the movie is over be like wow that was so boring !
i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize...
What you could do is get some boxes either plastic or cardboard and store some of your things in there, you can label them, for example in my closet i have winter clothes, sports items, random, pictures etc. You can buy a rack for shoes and put all your shoes on them, and get hangers for all your clothes you can make one side for t shirts, tank tops, sweaters and the other side pants and dresses.
maybe that helped?
i wanna know whats da differents between puppy love or love?
love is something that you feel for someone.. you will always feel for them, its a weird feeling like u dont come up one day and be like i love this person it develops over time, and even in the biggest fight ever u still know that u wanna be with that person and you love them. loving someone isnt always being happy and things its alot more, it comes with happiness sad anger and everything, but like in the end you still always have the connection. (its sooo hard to explain!!:P)
Puppy love is basically like you go out real quick and you 'love' them, but really anything can break this 'love' like a simple fight can make u stop... its not real love
Hi, my boyfriend and i broke up in july,2004. We have been through alot together and we love each other. We both have cheated and now our lives aren't so happy and I really need him. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. I have tried different ways to get him back but it doesn't work. please can you help me
If you know he still wants to be with you then could talk to him and get him in person, you could see if he wants to "start fresh" that if you really love each other you can make it work you just will have to try harder, you can both promise each other that you won''t cheat and that you should just forget about the past and work on the future. If it's true love then it will work, it won't be easy but it will work. And if the guy is being a jerk its not worth it (which can be totally hard to deal with) and if that happens just work a day at a time to get over him reminding yourself that a better guy and much nicer guy will come along.
Im in 9th grade and theres this guy in 10th named tod im new to the school so not alot of people know me tods one of those people.He knows i like him becuasse a kid that sits at his table talks to one of my freinds and my freind told him....he wanted to know who i was sohe had a friend ask another one of my friends....i heard hes shy weve never said a word too each other sometimes in the halls well keep direct eye contact for a bit but thats nothing how can i start a conversation with this like what do i do to get his attention?
What you could do is maybe get him ICQ or msn address and start talking on there first guys are alot better at talking when they know its not total person to person contact, and then after you have talked a few times on the internet you can start like saying hey to him at school and work from there.
14/f
I know alot of people have asked this question..but what are some good haloween costumes? I don't want anything "hot or sexy or sluttish" nothing like that cuz I'm going with some 7th graders..something original..and I don't want to spend too much money..plus I don't have too much at home..any ideas? I have to go to a party TONIGHT! Thanks!
You could be something unique and simple to make! A bundle of grapes :) Just get some green or purple ballons some old clothes, and green felt. Basically blow up the ballons and sew them on the your clothes alot on the top and fewer on the bottom, cut the green felt in a leaf like shape with an elastic band on it and put it on your head, its a cute and original idea.
last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss
That is very sad and tragic what happened to your cousin. What you need to do to relieve your pain is to let yourself cry it out, because if you don't it will come out in other ways. Let yourself cry and be upset, I would say for a few days, after you have cried it out (don't let the crying go on for more than a week) I would start bringing things back into your life, like school and friends and such, obviously everyone will know your going through a hard time so don't feel rushed to go to parties and stuff because what could happen is you could start drinking to hide your pain or get into bad habits. What you would do is make a memorial for her on your own maybe with your family, and you could all talk about the good things that your cousin had and how nice she was and such. I have had many deaths in my family (unfortuantely) my mom being one of them, you just need to let time help with the healing because it won't go away over night, deal with your pain one day at a time.
Ok, I have 2 years to lose 100 pounds or so! I need help though lol. What is the best diet south beach,atkins, ect. Like what should I do. And do you think it would take 2 years or shorter? And what should i NOT eat. Thanks if you can help me!
The best way to lose weight is to keep track of your calories, if your someone who wants to always eat (haha like me) then always eat fruits and vegetables they are the best things for you. And they have hardly any calories. Doing fad diets have there positives and negatives, but since you have 2 years for your weight loss then I would suggest NOT doing a fad diet because they end up working (but only for a VERY short period of time) Start doing things small like if you drink alot of pop, then drink one a day and then drink none, replace it with water. Start walking more in a day park your car farther away from where u have to go. The best thing you can do is to try and through in exercise everywhere you go. Buy a pedometer (it counts how many steps you take in a day) and try and reach 10 000 (thats what you should take in a day to be considered active) Then each day try and beat your goal. Another thing you could look into are Ephedra free supplements that can help you suppress your appeptite. I am throwing alot of ideas in there but basically cut your calories, drink tons of water, eat lots of fruits and vegies and exercise! if you want to talk further into dieting I can help you , just contact me, my email is my nickname at hotmail.com
Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
You should tyell your boyfriend everything that happened, basically every detail. It happened to me, and I am happy that my boyfriend told me (it was at the beginning of our relationship) we have moved on and now are closer to each other, but one thing that has bothered me is that he took so long to tell me, I found out from the girl before him and that made it worse. Tell him right away and tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you that it was a big mistake and you will do anything to regain his trust again.