hey. my name is ashley and i started this advice colomn a long time ago but just started using it a lot now. you cna talk to me about anything. i am always giving friends my advice and usually things always work out. i hope all my advice helps everyone !!!
xOx ash-
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I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim. (link)
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no thats about normal for your age
xOx ash-
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what? (link)
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well it seems like you dont actuallu LOVE each other if you have only been going out for a day. but when you get more into the relationship then you well actually start meaning it
xOx ash-
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Alright, I have a question about being popular.
Well, not exactly. You see, I'm not obsessed and crazed and having my whole life devoted to becoming popular. Its just, the popular people are all so out-going and aren't afraid to do anything and they speak their minds. How do I do this? I'm so shy in real life, but I'm actually out-going online. But in real life its just like, "woah, who's that girl? She's so shy." nobody knows me.
How do I improve this? I just wish I could be out-going and be my real self without being so scared all the time.
Please help? (link)
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You should just become friends with a lot of popular people and then you will because wayy popular. Just be crazy and more outgoing and make up jokes.
i really hoped it helped !!
xOx ash-
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this may seem weird. but i thik that i am semi depressed. i went on a website to learn more about depression and saw the symtoms and i had alot of them. lately i have been feeling really lonely and left out with friends also ive been experiancing guy issues so that may be it. but i dont nkow what to do (link)
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well why are you depressed ?
xOx IM me to talk more - x0O ASHL3Y
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Three girls. Used to be friends with them. Now I'm not (long story) and they're bitching about me behind my back. The part that makes it upsetting is that act really lovely to me when I'm around... and I'm a trusting kind of person. It took ages for me to believe it.
Would you please tell me what to do? Is it better to...
1)...confront them, and a)hold a grudge b)forgive them OR
2)...ignore them, and a) hold a grudge b)forgive them.
3)start a hate campaign.
Or if you have an alternative I'd be glad to hear it (but I'm not changing schools!) (link)
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i think you should be mad at them or forgive them, . depending on what they are saying. if its something really bad i would get pissed. im not sayiing you should get mad but i would because saying shit behind ur back is stupid and pointless especially if they act like little angels infront of u
xOx ash-
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ok like for starter i am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and sometimes 5'5'' ...i kno ..like how strange i dont kno how but the difference happens when i measures ...ookay anyways... i like just recently lost about 20 lbs... which is soo good ...yay... and even though the BMI calculator said my weight is like normal i still could lose 20 more pounds because that would be the ideal average weight... but i've been like slacking off now...before i used to never drink any soda or eat any snacks at all so thats how i lost 20 lbs but now i eat way much and eat junk foods...im glad i am not GAINING any weight...so is there any way i can get back on the track? so i can actually wear and be comfortable in my swim suit???
i give easy 5's if you actually helps even a little
and no funny stuff peoples because i will report you and you will get consequence and yea i know some people will say...and i've heard...what you cant do that blah blah blah...well believe whatever you want to believe but i dont think its funny how some people just say some not so nice stuff about others when they ACTUALLY are in serious dillema...anyways for who is helping me THX a bunches in advance~ (link)
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ok well instead of soda drink waterr !! water is really healthy and fills you up majorly sometimes. and instead of junk food for snacks have like grapes or an apple sometimes.
xOx ash-
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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you should flirt with them. guys like that lol. but yah smile, be nice etc.
xOx ash-
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ok i am 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. i want to trust him but its hard b/c there are so many girls after him and he has a myspace right.....1 of his comments even says from this girl i know that she had FUN with him LAST NIGHT! whats that supposed to mean. he says he loves me and stuff but i dont know what to believe. i rate 5s!!!!! help...
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well maybe she was joking or maybe she was serious. if she was joking then just laugh about it. if she was serious ask him what it means. and if hes studdering or something then he deff. cheated on you !! im sorry to say but its probably right. or you can ask her and see.
sry that was kinda hard lol
xOx ash-
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I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice! (link)
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Sounds like he does like you !! because hes being friendly but at the same time hes deff. flirting !! so maybe you can tell him oyu like him and he might say it back. or talk to one of his friends to see if he does. that usually helps !!
xOx -ash
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Okay. How are you supposed to get rid of under-eye bags?? I hope no one will answer with the word "sleep" because I get plenty. More than enough. And I conceal the bags everyday with concealer. And it might be genetic/stress-related/hereditary, I KNOW. Just tell me how, without purchasing anything, can I get rid of the bags under my eyes? (link)
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i have them too but you can buy clarition and it gets rid of them in a few weeks. but thats all i know of.
xOx hope i helped
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I need to lose stomach fat FAST. What is the fastest way I can do it (with the exercises listed and how often I should do it). This is desperate! Thank you.
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do crunches... like 50 a day and you should run around your block like once a day for excersise
xOx hope it helped
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i love this boy.
he keeps himself completely closed off from the rest of the world.
but i know he hurts inside.
how can i get him to open up to me?
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you should tell him how you really feel and he will probably tell you how he feels to. or talk to one of his friends since guys tell their friends everything. so whichever but eaither way you will probably get the truth.
xOx hope i helped ! IM me- x0O ASHL3Y
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My ex hates me now and I don't know why. He's the one who broke up with me, actually he had his friend call me to tell me he didn't want to go out with me anymore instead of doing it himself. if anything, i should be the one hating him.
Me and this guy I was going out with broke up last Tuesday. I don't know why we did, there was no fight or anything. I didn't do anything wrong to him or anything. Then on Friday I was at the football game hanging out with my friends, and he was there hanging out with his. And apparently, him and his friends were saying things about me, just making fun of how pale I am. Pffft.
How nice. I STUCK UP FOR HIM even after he dumped me and this is how he thanks me? I never said one bad thing about him, so why might he be saying this stuff about me? (link)
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well he might like you if hes making fun of you. it sounds weird but actually its a known fact so if you still like him thenn play hard to get and then he might wanan go out wit u if u wanna go out
xOx hope i helped .. IM me- x0O ASHL3Y
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My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better? (link)
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Yes it would. If she still calls you then she obvious still cares. And you should still talk to her so you can maybe hook up again if you still like her
xOx hope I helped .. IM me x0O ASHL3Y
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Alright there is this girl i really like her she is funny and beautiful and all that good stuff but i don't know if she likes me to. Well i want to know what is the best way to go on about this. (link)
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I think you should tell her. girls love it when you tell them those things. and if she likes you back she will soo tell you !
xOx hope i helped !
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okay. well there is this boy, hes 15 & im 12 ive kissed him like 3 times, and we went out. ok but he broke uhp wit me & now im soo hurt. people tell me to forget him & get a new boyfriend but i tried and i did get new boyfriend but i still cudnt stop thinkin bout him and it didnt work out. i think he likes me but i hav no idea, hes always ignoring me now and its like he cant be around me n e more he shows off and stuff in front of me, and i think he cares about wut other ppl think too much. he wuz such a jerk about it he wuz like yo call me when your 16 ight . im like fuck you but i mean i just cant move on; i cut, a lot not juss about him other stuff too but he juss adds to it all & i dunno wut to do; i try to move on but i cant let go. and now my mom wants to move because she dunt like this house. ( he livs like next door) i see him all the time so it makes me feel a lil better but if i move ill never see him again and i dotn kno if i can say goodbye ..... plz help me !!!
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Ok well he obviously lieks you if you went out before and it sounds like he still does if hes showin off a lot .. i kno you cant get over him but if you do move then you will .. just dunt loose him number so you can still call him but maybe let him know how you feel and maybe he'll tell you he feels the same wayy and if he doesnt then at least he knows how you really feel. I know youll probably be a little nervous but youll be happy after he knows. and if u dunt wanna tell him then just keep it to urself and find another guy tht u really like and he reele like you and you will forget about him.
hope it helped =] xOx
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heyy . . .umm i really like this guy and he likes me too . . buht he wont ask me outt!!! ive liked him since the beginning of the year and hes liked me since then too . .. were friends buht not best friends. . .i really want to go out with him buht hes taking forver to ask me out should i just give up on him or wait? idkk -- (link)
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maybe just ask him out. people say that girls shouldn`t ask guys out but who really cares. if i were you i would just ask him out and see what he says. most likly he`ll say yes.
hope it helped
sn -- xhuggablle
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..ive been going through a lot lately. my family life sucks. my mom hates me and my brother beats me up..while my mom stands there laughing and letting him. there was only one good thing in my life..my boyfriend i mean we had fights but..dosnt every relationship? we just happend to have more and thats why he broke up with me and i was really derpressed but to make matters worse not even a day later he goes out with one of my friends and starts being the biggest jerk to me..so i started to cut my writs..i know its wrong but i cant help it..it seems to take away all the pain.. i need my ex back now then ever and ive tried telling him everything..im just afraid that if i tell him that i cut..that he`ll think im physco because hes like that..i dont no what to do i want to stop cutting but the only was it to get him back..
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maybe just like ask him out or something. and try not to fight. because you really cannot cut. and if you cant get him back then just try and stop or forget about him and get a new boyfriend. and do not let your brother beat you up. and maybe try and just try and ignore your mom.
i really hope i helped!!
sn -- x huggablle
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I am a female and i am 14 years old. Well, this is kind of a long story, but i will try to make it short..me and my boyfriend have been dating for just about a month now (since june 10th) and i love him to DEATH and i KNOW he likes me ALOT too. Although, we have unconditional love for eachother i dont know if i want to be with him anymore. I mean, he does ALOT of things that annoy me and aggravate me easily. For example, we will be walking in the mall or ANYWHERE and if he find someone he knows, he will stop and talk to them for like 20 minutes or more, and even though he knows it annoys me, he continues to talk. Also, he has immature moments where he does voices and noises like a 3 year old would do. I mean, he gets embarrassing in public too. Like he makes fun of people and walks like them and mochs them and stuff in front of EVERYONE. Also, this may sound stupid but he says i love you like 10 times in 5 minutes and it gets annoying after a while. Also he calls me baby ALOT and it irritates me. I mean, i think i want to be single because i do flirt alot and everything. My boyfriend also has ALOT of girls that are friends and he swears he would never do anything with them and everything but i KNOW for a FACT some of the girls he's friends with like him more than a friend. Also, if i break up with him i am afraid no one will want to be friends with me or they will be mad at me. And if i see him with another girl i think i will just break down and cry!! please help me!!! love always, Tori (link)
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just tell him if he keeps being immature then things arn`t going to be the same. and maybe then he will understand. if not then just brake up with him and then you will feel better. at first things wont be too great but thing will get better!!
hope it helped!!
sn -- x huggablle
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Well, there is these 2 guys that my friend and I have become friends with. I liked this one kid for a while. I figured I did'nt have a chance. Then, the other boy was kind of flirting with me more and more, seeming like he wanted me to like him. Over time I started liking him. My friend likes him alot also! She has liked him from the beginning. This boy dosent really know her well, he dosent even know her name and she is obsessed with him.S0O, I finally told my friend that I liked him and she flipped ! About a week later she got over it and told me she had no problem. Then , everyday since then shes supposebly going through depression and everyday she either "hates" him or "loves" him and she changes her mind. S0O, I put this kid in my profile thinking ok, she has no problem with me liking him. The next day her sister i/med me online saying a real friend dosent do that, shes always crying ( mean while , im still thinking she dosent care ) and he sister was being really mean ! S0O, i was like im done with this! I called my friend and was like fine Id ont like him anymore! But, I KNOW i still like him alot ! What do I do, please help I can't talk to anyone about this !!!! (link)
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well you cant help who you like and dont like. your friend should just acctept the fact that he probably likes you. Since he doesnt bascially know she exists then she shouldn`t mind at all. just tell her you cant help it and maybe it will work.
i hope i helped!!!
sn -- x huggablle
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