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okay theres this boy that i like and we have a very intimate friendship, that whole friends with benefits thing. anyways he told my best friend he likes me but he doesnt know what to do? he flirts alotttt. and he told his psycho ex he just wanted to be friends nothing more than that. so he got her out the way cuz at one point he wanted to ask me out but she got in the way. but that was a few weeks back now its i like her but i dont know what to do... what does that mean? should i keep flirting back and acting like i like him or just leave it alone? i need HELP. i mean like some really good advice, cuz it hurts to just keep messing with him and like him as much as i do. (link)
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i think if you really like this guy then i think that you would not let anything get in the way of your relationship take my advice on this
just keeping it real
joey
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fifteen/female'
alright here's the deal, when I start to like a boy & they move on i get crushed,
and that happeneds alot-
I fall for guys too fast, and I try so hard not too' but I can't help myself!
Call me crazy but I'm serious;
-anything would help at this point.
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i think that you are going to take it slow with the guy because what happenes when you wanna take it so fast is that the guy ends up getting scared and wanting to walk away from the realationship
just keepin it real
joey
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I am a 16 year old male. My problem is that I met this freshman in my high school named Bria. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my entire life and I've never felt this way about any other crush in my life, normally I would forget about a crush in a matter of 2-3 weeks. But this girl, I've liked for at least 3 months now, and I cannot find the way to ask her to go out with me. Let alone impress her, I feel like I'm not attractive enough for her, not worthy enough, but I know that if she gave me a chance, that I could treat her better than any other guy ALIVE! But, so far she only knows my nickname that I go by, and she only speaks to me rarely and that's when we're in class and she needs something like, "what order are we supposed to staple these papers" and what-not. I feel that it will be nearly impossible MIRACLE if I ever got a chance with her, I've even prayed occasionally, and nothing's happened, I even tried to forget about her, but everytime i say that I'm going to, I only think even harder of me and her and what our future could be like. On a scale of 1 to 10, she's ranked a 10, and I'm like a 6-7. Someone that has my empathy help me with this one. (link)
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i think that you need to build up the confindence to go and ask this girl out because when you build up the confidence then you are going to think that you can take on the world and then you will beable to ask that girl out
just keeping it real
joey
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(15/f)
Hey everyone. Recently, i've been having problems with my self-cofidence. I use to be so confident and loving with myself untill about two weeks ago. I don't know what happended to me, but everything just went downhill. I started to feel hideous, and not good enough for some people. Another major thing is that i don't stand out in a crowd. If im with my friends, (who are GORGEOUS) guys tend to go straight to them and i'm always left hanging. They don't want to associate themselves with me i believe, and they rather would talk to another girl. Even i admit, there is nothing wrong with me, but i don't have a special quality that would make guys want to hang out with me or remember me. If anyone needs more information, i give write down more and anyone has ever felt this way and dealt with it, it is appreciated if you help me out with some advice. Thank you very much. (link)
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I think that you are going to need a confidence booster and i also think that you are going to relize that not everybody is going to like you but when you see that special person then you are going to relize that you are very out going and the same thing happened to me like a year ago were i have all of these freinds and all of these other people would go up to them and not to me and i think that you need to relize that you are beautiful and not care what other people think
just keeping it real joey
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18/f
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and I love him, but we started our relationship with him choosing my best friend over me, and later he cheated on me, chose other girls over me, sided with other girls if a conflict ever arrose, lied to me about being with girls who were awful towards me, etc. This was a long time ago, and he has been amazing for over a year. He's been so good to me, and I know he loves me, he deserves to start over. He is not a bad guy, he just made mistakes and learned from them. Unfortunately, I think it has affected me beyond repair.
Because he would "crush" on other girls, I have an overwhelming sense that I'm not good enough for him. And because these girls are rail thin, I constantly feel too fat for him to ever be attracted to me. The fat is, I'm not fat, so why do I feel like a cow 24/7?? He has made comments about the way I look, and I'm sure he meant nothing by them, but because of my insecurity I am overly sensative and get upset. For example, during Halloween I was trying on sexy costumes and asked if he liked them and he said "These are just not for you they don't look right I don't like them" I immediately asked who they would be for then, but he just shrugged... I assumed he meant I was not sexy enough for them, because they were not incredibly slutty or ugly they were all cute. I have come to the conclusion that he is not attracted to me and just loves me because he is comfortable with me. And I wonder if he thinks about other girls when we're in bed, or wishes he ended up with them instead... He's the type that would never say anything, and stay w/ me to be nice.
This is causing so much trouble between us. For example, I have become so digustingly jealous of EVERY girl he talks to, looks at, or knows. I know I shouldn't, but I get so upset when any girl talks to him. THIS IS CRAZY. I was never like this before :(
I feel ugly - but I have always been so confident in myself. How can I stop being so insecure???
p.s. I tried telling him that I feel like he isn't attracted to me and he didn't say anything at first, then when he started to compliment me it sounded so fake and forced. Now I am embaressed whenever he says something nice to me because I think it is only because I told him to. I sound so crazy, please help me before I push him away :(
and why do other guys think I'm hot, but my BOYFRIEND, seems to not care? :(((( (link)
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I think that you should dump him and the reason why i think that you should dump him is because of the fact that if he is going to chose an other girl over you that means that he is some sort of player and then if you give him another chance then he is going to think that he is always going to beable to walk all over you and i am not trying to be mean i just think that you deserve a lot better
Just keeping it real
Joey
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I'm 15/F and I like a 17/M and he likes me. He is really shy but he drinks and I am not into that. Advice? (link)
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I just think that that is such a good match for you and the reason why i think that is because i had the same experience with a girl that i was going out with and let me tell you that was not a good combination. so i think that you should not even touch that i think that you can probabley find someone out there better for you
just keeping it real
Joey
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i have this guy i go to school with that i have liked for a really long time. he has a girlfriend that goes to a different school not that far away. he and i have been friends for a long time but lately he has been very flirtatious and i can tell he likes me. i don't know what to do. i would like to have a relationship with him but i don't want to hurt this "other girl" or seem like i expect him to dump her for me. what do i do? should i tell him how i feel or let things go on the way they are? i am a 15 year old girl and he is also 15 and so is his girlfriend (link)
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I think that you should talk to him and i think that you should tell him how you feel because if you keep on flirting with him and nothing is happening then i think that you should leave him alone because you said that you do not want the other girl to get hurt so like i said just talk to him
Just keeping it real
Joey
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