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1*What time is it: 10:24pm
2*Todays Date: 1.28.05
3*Full Name: becca norris
4*Gender: bella
5*Age: four * teen
6*Birthday: 11.24.90
7*Siblings(age,sex): 2 sisters, 22 . 15
8*Parents: mommy
9*Nieces: layla
10*Nephews: hunter . eathan
11*School: JMMS
12*School colors: blue + yellow
13*Car: i dont have a car
14*Car color: ?
15*Eye color: blue
16*Hair Color: brown wit blonde highlights
17*Hair Length: ast my shoulders
18*Weight: 108
19*Height: 4*11
20*Skin(pale white,tan,dark,black): white
21*what are you wearing as of now: pajamas
22*Are you wearing make-up? no
23*Did you take a shower today? yeah
24*Pets(names,kind): doggies, pepper, tippy , oddball
25*What are you drinking right now? nothing
26*Do you smoke? yepp
27*If so, what do you smoke? newport 100s'z
28*Do you have a car, or is it your parents? cant drive yet
29*Are you listening to music? yepp
30*If so, what song, and who is it by? candy shop . 50 cent
31*What are your screen names? bAbiixPhAtT3
32*Crush: Jimbo
Member Since: January 9, 2005
Answers: 35
Last Update: February 11, 2005
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My best friend and I are going to experiment again. We were wondering is there any other thing we can do while experimenting(. We've already tried French kissing and nibbling on each other. What else can we do like a different way to kiss or something (nothing vaginal!!). (link)
let him go in your shirt or you go down his pants lol or other way around sry u didnt say weither you were a boy or girl lol


ok... i was at my friends house and we were just watching TV you know.. just hanging out...well we were like extra bored so we sat on her bed askin each other stupid questions..like what have you donse wiht a boy.. or girl or w/e but i noticed she keeped on asking questions bout girls like... would you ever make out with a girl.. stuff like that... well after that we were jus looking at each other for some reson and she kissed me.. then we stared making out and doing some other things.. but the problem is..if you didnt already know im a girl...i dont know what to do i cant look at her the same but she acts like nothin happend..dose this make me a lesibean?? i dont think i liked it but thenagina im confused right now.. what do you think?? sorry its so long btw
-Crystal (link)
everyone expercies different things. maybe your just embarressed about it thats why u act different around her. theres nothing wrong with doing stuff with the same sex, your young, people do stuff like that it doesnt mean your a lesibean. and maybe your friend was just experminting with you, i dont think either of you are lesibians. theres nothing wrong with what you did sweetie!

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


hey, i need help really bad but i don't have anyone to turn to, and i really mean nobody. a while ago i "went through a depression stage" i guess you might call it, and it got really bad. i was builimic [sp.?] and i cut myself. [my parents and friends were compleatly oblivious to everything because i guess i'm a "good kid" and they never had to worry about me] i don't know how it stopped, but it just did. and now i think it's starting again, my parents suddenly decided we're moving and i feel like nobody wants me around, but i guess thats my fault because iv'e been pushing away the people that mean the most to me. i always want to be alone and i started keeping to myself a lot, like not talking AT ALL during lunch, unless someone asks me a question or somthing. when i get home i got straight to my room and cry, i don't know why though. and i started cutting myself again, i dug a knife into my wrist after dinner tonight and it bled and bled. i feel like i don't belong anywhere and i want to run away, but i don't know where i'd go or how i'd get far enough away from home. iv'e also sat on my roof after everyone in my house is asleep and thought about jumping off, but i really don't want to go to hell. i really need help [i'll "rate high" or whatever, just please help] -jeanine (link)
guidence at your school, the nurse lol someone. a guidence person maybe? you need to talk to someone and your not alone. dieing isnt the answer, you only get one life.. you should live it and everyone gets over depression! even if u dont think you will, believe me you will.. give it some time, and dont do anything youll regret.


Hey everyone, well i'm a little late with my period this month. I'm definitely a virgin but i was wondering if there was a reason that you could skip a period one month without being pregnant. answers anyone? (link)
yea if you got your period in less than 2 years ago or maybe more idk its not regular yet, your body isnt sure when its going to have them but dont worry nuttin wrong with you


Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder
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babes'z your just shy.. loosing up a bit and be yourself and if they dont like u then fuck um theres more people!


hey advicenators! ok heres my story: me and my boyfriend have been going out since new years eve, and we see each other at school and hang out on the weekends, and talk at night, but it doesnt seem to me like we are going out! its basically like hes my friend, except we hug before we leave. how can i make it more like hes my boyfriend, and less like one of my friends? thanks guys! (link)
kiss him gerl! lol then youll be going out !


Hey yall, i need help with a nickname...my name is Ashley i have nicknames like Asha,Ashems,Ashlynn but i dont like them! So can u help me out with a new cool nickname?
Thanks, Ashley (link)
ash lol thats the best i can come up with


So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP! (link)
call a friend or other family member your close with and stay with them for a couple of days and take some time off of that crazy life

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers! (link)
cutting hmm.. yes it helps and it feels good i know but i think when he finds out your cutting or your friends and family find out and notice how much its hurting them then i think that will make you stop but hopefully they dont find out lol rubber band, wear one around your wrist and when you feel like cutting just pull it

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
thats not gonna lable you a slut sweetie! its been like almost a year and who cares what people say and it might hurt alittle but it will feel good too lol and if he does it rough then it might pop your cherry

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
just tell her theres nothing to be embassesed about every girl gets it lol just tell her cuz you are gonna need tampons or pads!

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high (link)
your mother is black mailing you? omg thats just wrong... pay back.. what u gotta do is find some dirt on her or make something up and do the same thing to her, thats really messed up tho who does that to their child lol?

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH! (link)
i think it might be a cold sore maybe you should tell your mom so she knows whats going on

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high) (link)
it will probably be hard but i think you should just move on and find someone better who is right for you

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx


okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks (link)
she took him from you first and if she was really your friend she wouldnt of even gone out with him after you broke up with him and its not your problem if she still likes him cuz he was yours first and if he doesnt like her and he likes you then thats her problem and if she hates you for it then she wasnt a good friend.

hope i helped xOx love becca xOx




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