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Im pretty young female teen and Well i have a boyfriend but we never had sex and i didnt have sex with no one im still a virgin. But i have sex by myself and i was wondering if im pregnant cuz i am getting fatter and some pains in my stomach once in awhile. Can it be real if im pregnant yes or no (link)
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No, you are not pregnant. You can only become pregnant through sexual intercourse, in which where the penis enters the vagina. A sperm and egg form a baby. And since you are a virgin yo7u are safe. You can not get yourself pregnant.
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how do i tell my boyfriend to
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Well I'm not so sure what you mean. How do I tell my boyfriend to? What? Lol. Well If you are reffering to what you said in the heading.... I will try to go off that. Assure him you are your own person. He has no control over you, and if he still tries to control you dump him. You are your own person and you do not need a man telling you what you can and can't do.
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I just learned that my boyfriend of a year is still visiting dating sites. He has friends on facebook that I had questioned him about. His response was "they are just friends." I msgd one of them and she informed me that she did meet him on one of those sites. Should I consider this a form of cheating and should I let him go? (link)
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Well, first off.... If a woman was cheating with your husband, do you think she'd be honest too you? No. If you truly are in love with him, tell him it bothers you and see if he will bring it to an end. But to me, it seems like he is trying to keep his options open and is looking for a fling more than anything else. He's the type that cheats on you.... But like i said, confront him about it. Ask him to stop visiting these sites, tell him how him staying on these sites make you feel. If he stays on them I suggest letting him go!
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Hey guys,
Okay so I'm looking for any recommendations on a good book series? I love reading series as I find I get really engrossed in the story lines and characters. I've already read the harry potters. The twilight saga and my personal favourite the hunger games.
So any of you have any suggestions?
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Chronicles of Narnia, The Left Behind Series (whether you are into religion/end times or not this is a great read! My favorite) Inheritance, (a three book series) Daughters of the Forest, Little House on the prairie (another personal favorite) Artemis Fowl, The Tomorrow Series, Uglies, Bartimaeus Trilogy, Fablehaven series, The Clique.... I'm not so sure what genre you are into... SO I hit a variety of genres! Hope I helped :D
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I'm very happy I'm being honored for my charity work at school. Honestly i do care about the charity than the award. There are others getting awards themselves but little actually deserve them. One girl joined EVERYTHING just to et in yearbook, the newspaper, and to get this award. 2 other girls who claim they're bullied to teachers are getting awards for being kind when in reality the 2 girls bully EVERYONE!!! One of them has an autistic brother who she picks on (punching, kicking, etc.) at school. I feel this is a problem and want to address teachers about it but I don't know if I should. (link)
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If you bring to your teachers attention that the other students don't deserve the award, there could be some trouble. As long as you yourself is doing it for the right reason, there is no problem. In the long run you will be making out better. They will look back and regret how they set their motives. You on the other hand will not. I suggest leaving it be.
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Is there anyway for businesses to use your social security number to go and find out how many times you have actually been fired? I used to lie and didn't have any problems, I decided to be honest and then they didn't hire me...There is no foul play or anything, just firings from little two bit jobs that aren't even on my resume. Thank you. (link)
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Well, I suggest being honest. You don't want them to hire you based on a lie... It's an immoral thing to do. Plus, if they decided to do a background check and call previous employers they would find out you were lying and wouldn't hire you/or they would fire you. Honesty is always the best policy :D
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I became a vegetarian over a month ago and I've been eating much healthier meals and consuming much less calories than I used to, and no I'm not starving myself. But I haven't lost any weight at all? I'm overweight so believe me there's a lot of weight to be lost but why aren't I losing it? (link)
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Well, I must ask you a question.... Are you exercising? Don't get me wrong a healthy diet is key.... But you need to add exercise into the mix. Try running or cardio!
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me and my dad have unprotected anal sex
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I have a feeling this question is a troll.... But in case not. You need to stop immediately and tell someone! I don't know of your age... But having intercourse with a family is called incest and is illegal! Please stop now and confide in someone you trust!
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Is it a bad thing my girl friend had sex with 34 people (link)
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Well, it can and can't be. If your girlfriend was safe and used protection then you need to look past the number of sexual partners. But I suggest she gets tested to make sure none of her partners had stds. To make sure you yourself is safe while sexually involved with her. Now depending on how old she is, 34 people could be a bad thing. Remember not to judge her. And get tested foryour and her safety :) Remember rather safe then sorry.
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Okay so I'm going to my best guy friends sweet 16 birthday party this weekend. It's not a drink till you pass out party. It's a Bon fire with music and a lot of my other friends are going as well. I do like this kid...but I don't know how he feels about me, and I have a boyfriend but no one knows i like him. Anyways he says he just wants money but I kinda wanted to actually get him something. Some of my friends say that I should get him a movie or something simple cause guys love electronics and stuff. Is that a good idea? Or is there another option? I don't want to get him anything that flat out says "hey I like you" I want something more suttle and simple.
Also what should I wear to this occasion? I want to look good but like effortlessly good. And I don't want to just go in yogas and be a bum. How should I dress for this?! (link)
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Well, since it is a bonfire with music event.... How about getting him a cd from one of his favorite bands. Guys like music. SO find out what genre he likes or an artist/band he is into. He will appreciate it for sure, and everyone loves music :D ANd yes your idea is good too. Even perhaps a new video game because as you said guys love electronics. Now for your outfit... You don't want to over do it but you don't want to under do it. Your a girl... You know what I mean.. You could pull off a cute pair of jeans with a casual tee. And your favorite pair of shoes and you look great and yet your still relaxed. Since most bonfires are at night I suggest bringing a sweatshirt or a jacket of some sort. Since it will most likely be a little chilly. Hope I helped!
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how can you make your breast get bigger? (link)
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Without surgery or weight gain I don't believe you can make your breasts bigger. But you can wear a push up bra or a bra with extra padding in it to make your breasts appear bigger :)
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i wanna know what does masterbate mean? (link)
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I cut copied and pasted this from the dictionary. Definition of Masturbation is " The Stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual pleasure."
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If ur boyfriend masturbate then gets it all over his hands then touches ur bum with his hand could I get pregnant ? Xxx (link)
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No you could not get pregnant from this. In order for you to get pregnant sperm would have to enter the vagina. But in this case he touched your bum. That is the wrong body part for pregnancy to occur :)
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I really really need to loose at least 10 lbs.
yesterday i had vegetable juice (i use a juicer and juice raw beats and carrots etc.) coffee with skim milk, salad with some tuna, and dinner was half a steak, i also had some grilled chicken and broccoli
today i had vegetable juice, a large coffee with skim milk, lunch was half a cup hoop cheese (sometimes called pot cheese- similar to cottage cheese but different) with some fruit, then mid day snack was 2 40 calorie vegetarian sauces with some avocado, then dinner was tuna salad and i had some of my mother steak. not a lot but a couple of bites.
i also walk as much as i can.
if i continue like this will i loose weight?
should i eat more or less or what? please help. i really really need to loose weight as soon as possible. (link)
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In my opinion you ate too little. The recommended calorie intake is 2000 a day. You need to eat and not starve yourself. There's over eating and under eating. If you go to a nutritionist you can find out the correct calorie intake your body needs. But you ate too little. If you exercise on a daily basis and eat healthy you will find yourself feeling better and you will lose weight!
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Can anybody kill me? Seriously...
20 years old from greece
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It would in fact be illegal for any one of us to kill you. I suggest going to a hospital and telling them you are having thoughts of suicide or even confiding in someone close such as an mom/dad/grandparent/close friend. Nothing in life is too painful to take your life before your time.
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how do you know if you have it ... ive cut myself about 3 differet times..
ive took pills to try to put me to sleep foever
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Well you obviously are going through depression. I recommend that you seek a doctor or a trusted loved one for help with it. Don't cut yourself or attempt to end your life! Whatever is going on could not be bad enough to do these things. Remember..., Someone always has it worse.
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Id like to hear yalls opinions about tongue rings on girls 18+. Ive always wanted one because I loveee piercings/tattoos, I like the way they look, and I always like to have something in my mouth like straws, pens, cigarettes (i really want to quit). I wouldn be that girl whos always showing it off and would want it far back enough where its not terribly noticable.
Do you think its trashy when a girl has a tongue ring? (Like i said, not showing if off but if you just noticed when she was lauging or something)
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First off, I myself would never get one. But, no a tongue ring is not trashy. If you want one go crazy. Get yourself one. Don't let other's opinions influence what you do or don't do! Be yourself. Don't be fake! If you want it get it.
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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
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First off14 is way to young. In my opinion you should not even be dating yet. But, you are also too young to be having a child. You are not an adult and just a child yourself. Honestly you should not have one. It would be unfair to the baby. You both have no income. 14 is too young to work. Therefore no clothes,food,diapers, and other needs can be provided for the baby. Wait til you are older and for the time being enjoy being a kid.
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Everytime I get on my period, my vagina literally leaks a water-like substance. It isn't thick like discharge. It goes straight through my pants & I can't control it at all. It comes at the most random times. Even when I wear tampons, it's like it goes completely through it.
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Ok first off, person beneath me, that is nasty. But some people do get that. But I would go to a doctor if it is as bad as you say. He may be able to help you out with getting ticker pads and or tampons. Hope I helped :)
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When a guy tells his friend that he thinks you are too innocent what does that even mean?
My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future?
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Innocent girl.... hmmm. Well this would mean that your a good girl and not a slut. Do not be ashamed of it either! It is not a bad thing. Trust me.
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