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I've been noticing that lately I've been getting alot of acne lately. I usually break out on my chin, but recetly I started getting zits on my cheeks, forehead, and even my chest and back! :-\ So, I'm wondering if anyone has used an acne medication or facewash or anything that has worked reallly well. I was thinking about purchasing Clearasil for the acne on my face. So, has anyone ever used Clearasil and if so, did it work well? Are there any other acne medications out there that work extremely well? Thanks for your help.

I have break outs too on my face, back, and chest. I just started using ProActiv Soulution, and it's a really good product. It's different for every person though, and what I mean by that is that you'll get results when your face adjusts to it, it might not be right away. As for your back and chest, you can use Proactiv too I guess, but I'd start it just on my face first. Good luck :)

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What's that one movie with Jim Carey where he meets God or something? PLEASE LET ME KNOW!

bruce almighty :)

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Hi. Im f/13. I am 5'7". I weigh 103. Do i need to gain? lose? are there charts that you can show me with healthy weights for girls my age? what signs (other than your lbs, coz bone size and stuff differs) show you are under or over weight? thank you.

I am as tall as you and I weigh 135. You need to gain weight. Go to www.am-i-fat.com. It's an interesting site and it sas that you need to lose weight for your height/weight.

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does the herbal essences Dangerously Straight work? i tried sunsilk and it doesn't make my hair straight and i'm not allowed to use a straightner or blowdryer. my hair is light brown and kinda poofy and frizzy after my hair dries from when i get out of the shower. when its completly dry, its poofy, frizzy, and kinda wavy in some places and kinda straight in other places. so can someone please tell me if the herbal essences stuff works right for my hair? thanks soo much! :)

I just bought the sunsilk to straighten hair, and it works for me. it is different on different people/hairstyles. I have heard that herbal essences does work. try it :)

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i got an ipod nano for a gift
but it says its 1GB..how many songs does that hold?

thanks :)

240 songs.

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I came to a new school in April and met a great bunch of guys who are into the same music as me and who get me. They're really good friends with one of the young teachers we have, so they introduced me to him and we all usually hang out together at school.
I thought that I had a crush on the teacher but I left it thinking that he was just young and my hormones were going crazy (as a young girls do haha). The thing is, we got really close from April to June and he kept me after class once and we kissed.
We've been seeing each other, not a lot, but in secret this summer. He was at my house when one of my guy friends walked in on us kissing. Dave (my friend) is one of my best friends so I don't know if he will tell the rest of the guys but I don't know how to face him again...or whether I should keep seeing my teacher.

I think I love him and he says he loves me but..hes 8 years older than me. I don't want to cost him his job if word gets out but he says it doesn't matter. What do you think...should I keep seeing him? (sorry if its all very confusing)

thanks!
-erika

What grade are you in? If your a senior, which I'm doubting, then maybe you could just wait until you graduate to start seeing him again. But, if you arn't then you need to face Dave again and ask him to not tell anyone. If you really love him, then don't tell anyone and see him in secret. This is a very hard situation. Good luck.

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i am 14 and me and my bf are planning on having sex tommarow night in his car. im really excited butttt how can i tell him that i want to him to wear a condom, i am afraid he will be like no it feels more natural without it? what can i say to make him wear one?

tell him that if he really loves you, he'll wear one because you do not want to get pregant. have fun and be safe.

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i'm 14/f
there is a guy i like that likes me but i'm too shy to say anything and he is too.(he also doesn't know that i like him) i really want to say something but i don't know what.
what do think i should do?

thanks a lot

if you really like this guy then i would not exactly tell him, but give hints. if he has a screen name to talk to him on there, or at school. if he gives hints he likes you back, go for it. good luck :]

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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.

God does not hate. But I'm sure he would love you and care for you even more if you stopped being belumic. It's bad for you and your hurting yourself.

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My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.

I can see how your jealous. I would be jealous and also kind of mad if my boyfriend did that. Comment your boyfriends pictures and see if he comments you back and says something like that. Ask him what's going on between him and your friend. Just don't accuse him of cheating, or he might get mad.

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Does putting eyeliner on your top lid, bottom lid, or both make your eyes look bigger and bolder?

To make your eyes look "bigger and bolder" put it on the top and on the bottom of your lashes.

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Well, I really do need advice. This has been something that's been bothering me for so long.

I have a friend that is a boy, named David. I really really like him, you see. I asked him if I had any chance at all and he said 'sorry, no.' After this I was devastated but kept him as a good friend.

Lately it's so confusing as to whether he wants to be my friend or not! He is really mean at some points, and then he's really really nice. He even asked me to visit him at work, and go to his beach house with my friend, Molly.

Sometimes I like to think maybe I have a chance with him, and my friend insists that things can change. But I'm not even sure if he's my friend!

Help? Is he my friend or a soon to be something more?

P.S. We are both 14 years old.

The smart thing to do would be to say to him, "lately, it's been giving me the idea that i've had some sort of a chance with you. can you tell me if i do, because i don't want to keep going on wondering," or something like that. good luck with him.

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HELL0. What are some good baby names? Boy, or Girl. First, and Middle would be appreciated! Thanks! =]

Shelby Nicole.
Jenni Elizabeth.
Kaylynn Dean.
Kaeleigh Nicole.

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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?

If you don't want to, then don't. If this boy really loves you then he'll understand. A guy asking a girl that is pretty gross to me.

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what are black heads?

pimples, but they're black.

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ok well everytime my frinds come over all we do is watch tv or were on the computer. or we just sit there asking eachother what to do we dont no what to talk about or what to do... please please give me some ideas i need them despreatly..

If you can get a ride, you could go to the mall or give each other make overs. You could cook, or go to the park or invite some boys over. Have fun!

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Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.


Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists.

If James hates you for no reason he's probably not the best guy for you. I'd try to talk to him, and if he is just so not interested in you, I'm sorry but you're going to have to find another boy. If this kid is making you cut yourself, it's just not right. Please stop cutting yourself. It's not good for you or for anybody else. There ARE a lot of fish in the sea. I know, I know, it's corny...but think about it. It's true :)

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Okay does anyone know that song from the movie A Cinderella Story when Sam is at the dance, and shes standing at the top of the stairs about to walk down them, well that song is that playing when shes coming down the stairs, and who's it by? thanks

The song is called The Best Day Of My Life. Jesse McCartney sings it, but I don't think he does in that movie.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkmOOkursHs&search=the%20best%20day%20of%20my%20life

I found the link for you :)

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i have blue eyes and brown hair well how can i make my eyes look bigger .. everyone is always saying how pretty my eyes are ... but i want the to stand out more what can i do ? and how can i wear my hair to compliment my eyes && i have really gross eyebrows i hate them they like curl and there wayy long.. HELP PLEASE

all the metallic(s)- gold, bronze, silver and silver greys, mauve, brown pink and fleshly tones are good for blue eyes. for your eyebrows, just get them waxed often and make sure you pluck them. your hairstylist can wax them in a style that you want, and then you just keep plucking them in that style. For your hair, don't cover your eyes because then that will just make the problem worse. you could do a bun, ponytail, or if you want your hair to be down then you could side part it. good luck :]

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does your penis get smaller the more you have sex

um no...haha.

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