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Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: Lucky12 101
Member Since: December 2, 2004
Answers: 72
Last Update: December 12, 2007
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hey you guys. im wayyyy over stressed and i really cant seem to find anyway to take my mind off things and just relax? does anyone have any tips? also, i cant seem to sleep anymore are there any tricks you guys use to get to sleep? please dont say go by some sleep aid or whatever cause my mom wont buy them for me. thanks

oh and im 15/f if that means anything. thanks! (link)
try to exercise, dance, or do anything that involves moving. Like a sport. Then slowly approach your problem. (h/w, etc, stress)


im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
LOOK...I KNOW THAT YOUR IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT YOU HAVE ONLY 2 OPTIONS.....
1. YOU CAN TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU WONT GET MAD ABOUT WHATEVER HE SAYS. IF YOU JUST SIT HIM DOWN IT MIGHT WORK.
2. YOU CAN GET OVER HIM AND FIND A NEW GUY. NOW I'M SURE THAT YOU'VE TRIED TO DO THAT BUT KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. EXERCISE, READ A BOOK, HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS, WATCH TV, ANYTHING....HAVE SOMETHING (ANYTHING) TO HANG ON TO WHILE UR TRYING TO LET HIM GO. OR JUST COMPLETELY try TO AVOID SEEING HIM, LIKE IF YOU KNOW YOUR GOING TO SEE HIM JUST GO TO THE LIBRARY OR A MOVIE OR SOMETHING.

***DONT KILL YOURSELF.....IT IS NOT THE ANSWER..YOU CAN HAVE SUCH A GOOD LIFE IF YOU PUT THIS BEHIND YOU AND FOCUS ON THE FUTURE...



Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger? (link)
i think that if you use eye shadow and extend it to like your brow bone so its not just on the lid...it looks pretty and makes your eyes look bigger


What does an architect do particularily?


Gimmie some idea's (link)
i think that they design buildings and figure out how much space there is going to be in the rooms..etc..


i'm 14/f i got my period when i was 10. i kno thats young. these past few days i've been getting LOTS of white stuff come out of my *area* and i haven't had my period for i think 1 and a half months? my boobs are getting smaller too i think. i'm not sure. i'm a virgin. i don't know whats happening anybody know? (link)
i think that your ok..that happens to me when i get a lot of discharge at once. i think its just natural..you have nothing to worry about..and as for your not having ur period..i've skipped a lot of months...its fine


Hey ummm does anyone have any cute hair styles because i'm runing out of ideas! I have dark brown hair and wear mostly pink( if it helps). It also usually frizzes!!! Well thanx. Will rate high for cute hairstyles!!! (link)
i saw this cute hair style once and (u might of already done this though.lol!) but you part your hair to the side and the side that has less hair on it, you take the section right above ur ear, twist it, and pull it back. then you keep it tight with a barate or something..not just a clip cause thats kinda boring but something with sequins..hope i helped


hi some one ne one please answer this. ill rate 5s to ne good suggestions. well i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months now. ive never talked to him b4 or ne thing. im very shy around guys. not that shy but when i get around them alot im not shy. ne wys i see him staring at me alot. now when he sees me hell stare at me or show off for me. i really like him but i dont know how to start talking to him. i can tell he wants to talk to me cause hell stand around by me and stuff but i dont know how to start talking to him.i really wanna get to know him b4 i ask him out or ne thing. ne suggestions would help. thanxs (link)
I think that you should (if you know that he's interested in you) just go up to him and say hi.there's nothing wrong with that if you know that he likes you. he'll probabaly be GLAD that you made the 1st move. some guys are shy like that. i know it might be embaressing at first but as soon as you start talking to him reguarly it will be no problem.


k, well i have red hair. & im thinking about getting streaks in my hair. or something like that. what would you recommend? i rate high! (link)
i think that u should go for the brownish red color..i have a friend who had red hair and she got enough highlights so it looks brownish red..it looks hella pretty..
hope i helped



I always have to be perfect in every single way. That's just the way I am. Well, now that i'm getting older i feel very uncomfortable wiht my body. I weigh 97 pounds and i am 5'3". I'm worried my thighs are to jiggely and my butt as well. I'm also very uncomfortable wiht my bra size, i'm the 32 AA,=, and i hardly fit in that. Well, yesterday i was making a list about all the things i liked about my body and hate about my body. The only thing i liked was my eye color, and i have evrything else. Please help me!! What are some excersizes that i can get my whole bpdy toned up AND HOW CAN I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
omg i am the same way. except i only really hate my bra size 32 AA dont know if i even fit into that. just dont worry. see what size ur mom is. if she is a B like my mom then ull grow slwer. if she is a C or D then ull grow anytime soon...

READ MINE ITS CALLED>>>>>please help me. please!


i was looking at beyonce's hairstyles online under google, and as i was going threw the pages, i saw sumthing gross. i have no clue what it was. nd so i click on where it says "veiw larger picture" or sumthin like that... nd it said on the bottom "get f---ed" i dont know what that is.. can someone maybe take a look nd see what it was? it was under IMAGES:"beyonce"pg 5 at the top. please dont think im stupid or anything!

xO me (link)
which picture...i went to google...images...page 5...the very top or what i didn't see anything on that page. where is it?


What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
kinda avoiding you like on the phone " igotta go" hanging around his guy friends more. flirting with another girl. but the main one is avoiding you. its the way guys are. hope i helped. read mine its called PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE!


therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge? (link)
well if you really hate him that much then flirt with every other guy possible. that makes guys jealous from experience.


one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?

Signed,

Freaked out Friend (link)
OMG NO. you should go. that wouldn't of been noisey at all! and if worst comes to worst she'll think that you are a REALLY caring friend.


Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.

I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer (link)
not an official job but just babysit or walk dogs, mow lawns. that's about all you can really do.


Well my two best friends of all time are going to one highschool and we are all supposed to go to the same one. Then my mom changed her mind and is making me go o another one!!! I REALLY wanna be w/ my best friends and I dont have ne other friends going to the other highschool help!!!! (link)
yea same with me except my friend is going to another high school. but you can talk to your mom or you can just look to the future and hope that everything turns out ok. this is a tough one. if you can't do anything about it then enjoy the time you have with them and make new friends.


I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate. (link)
see long distance realtionships are always hard but if you tell him to call you and he doesn't it (in my opinion) would hurt more than if you were living near him. besides girl...ur in college..new people await!!


Ok I have green eyes that have a little bit of yellow splash to it if that makes any sense lol!! Well all my friends say it looks really pretty and exotic (it is a weird combonation) but they usually can't see them unless they look closely. I have a lot of eyeshadow but can't find any that will make them accented where evryone will be able to see them but not to dramatic wehre its like eww... (link)
just asking is this chelsea davenport? it just sounds like the way ur eyes are. if it is hey its arielle...call me later!!


Hey, you know that new movie coming out, Hide and Seek? Well, I think it looks awesome!! During the day I'm all psyched and excited to see it, but at night I dont wanna see it anymore. This happens with all horror movies. Help? Should I see it?

Signed,
Psyched and Scared (link)
omg i am the same way! i want to see it but i am going to watch a bunch of commedies and when i go to sleep @ night i am going to think about that.


Hey I have dark brown hair and I was wondering if I should put blonde highlights in them? I have done it before for like 2 years and then I stopped for some reason. I was wondering if blonde highlights are still in or should I leave my hair dark brown. Oh and I'm kinda sick of blonde so what other colors can I put in my hair. I have a pic on my column its xo_sherry_ox :) (link)
i have dark brown hair too but my advice is to just stick with like highlights that look natural like goldish or like carmel. thats what mine look like. hope i helped
-xoxo
arielle


I have a friend that sleeps with a lot of people, I tell her it's bad but she still does it. Well one day during lunch she took a pregnancy test (she never uses protection, and she's been pregnant before but had a miscarriage) and well it came out positive. She got home and somehow her mom found out, and was like "How many times are you going to do this, you act like a ho, stop sleeping with people" and stuff like that. And then she told me she took another test and it came out negative saying that she wasn't pregnant. So that's what she belives, she thinks she isn't pregnant. Is she pregnant? I heard that the only time pregnancy tests can possible lie is if it comes out negative, and that if it comes out positive then she's defninitley pregnant. Which is true? Is she pregnant? (link)
i think that she should take it again and like u know like 6 times because you never know and if it comes out negative like 5-6 times then she isn't pregnant. same thing with positve....good luck! RATE ME PLEASE




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