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I had an abortion 6 years ago without telling my husband. At the time I had a 2 year old son and I did not want want to be saddled down with another child. We found out I was pregnant when I took a pregnancy test. My husband and I were both pro-choice, but I decided to have an abortion. I went to visit my cousin in another state after I found I was pregnant and she help me to get the abortion. I later told my husband that I fell and had a miscarriage.

It has been six years and I have a wonderful husband and I am felling guilty and a shame. I also, think that I am depress and I need to tell my husband about the abortion but, I am afraid he will not love me any more.

My husband always have something negative to say about women aborting their unborn babies and I am not sure how he will feel if he knows that I had done the same. What should I do?

You should tell him. But fairst pray and ask God to forgive you then foegive youeself. then tell him you are sorry. If he loves you then he will lisn and not be roude to you because you already fill bad eneufe.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. He was in Spain for the past month and we didn't really talk-we could only talk over Facebook chat, and only did so a couple times briefly because he never initiated it and I didn't want to bother him since it seemed like he didn't want to chat. Before he left, we hung out, and he seemed SO into me and he acted really sweet and made me feel important. But last week was my 16th birthday, and he didn't say anything. I had messaged him two weeks prior to see if he could come to my party, but he never even opened the messages. I could see that he went ONLINE for extended periods of time throughout that time, and he was ONLINE on my birthday, but he didn't even say happy birthday. He read my friend's messages so I know that he is getting messages. Anyway, I wrote him this whole thing about how it's rude to ignore my birthday and to not even read my messages(he knew it was my birthday, that's not even a question) and how it really hurt my feelings and to please reply when he can. He was online when I sent that but he still didnt read it. I don't know what's wrong with him!!! We were GREAT the day before he left, I don't know why he's ignoring me. It really put a damper on my birthday because he didn't say anything. Even my ex said happy birthday. Anyway, he is coming back today and will be able to text. He hasn't texted me. I want to know what his problem is but I don't want to keep asking. Should I break up with him? I feel that he deserves to be dumped but my problem is is that for some reason, I still really like him and want to be with him. Am I overreacting? What should I do? I just want him to talk to me again. He knows I'm angry. Thank you!

Pray about it and then call him three times if he dont answer sorry but he mite not like you any more. LOOK on the briate side you are alive and can find the one God has in mind for you. no matter how far apart y'all live he will talk to you and he will always be there for you.

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im young,but not too young. I can't help but feeling so down about not being pregnant. I dont know why thats the frusterating part. i have been spotting for a while so i went to the doctor and i had to get blood drawn to see if i was pregnant and it came up negative. i was kind of hoping i was and now im really sad and angry. i guess God has plans for me until im really ready.

When it is time God will give it to you. Gods word says if you ask in the nam of Jesus it will be done.

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I'm thirteen years old and female, and I think I weigh a little more than I should. I'm four feet and eleven inches and almost ninety pounds. I have gained a lot of weight recently, and I don't like it. When I was in fourth grade, I was only four feet tall and 48 pounds. I wish I could stay that way.

I think I need to start eating less, exercising more, or something like that. Whenever I eat more than I usually do, I feel awful about it. So far, I have tried to make sure I don't eat too much at meals, and I do a lot of sit-ups and yoga. When I start school again, I'll be doing PE every day, too. I'm trying to eat only 1300 calories a day. Is that good enough, or should I eat less than that?

No matter what I try, I always end up gaining weight in the end. I would really appreciate any advice on how to lose weight. Thank you!

God made you in his own imange

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I am an 18 year old girl and I have just gotten my heart broken I fell extremely in love with an 18 year old boy who is immature and doesn't value me the way he should. I literally love him more than myself and proven that to him in so many ways but doesn't see that we recently broke up and I am destroyed because I have given everything up in the hopes that I would have a healthy amazing relationship with him we've been together for over a year and a half. god put him in my path he is my soul mate.. But I need him to realize that he needs to value me as the young lady that I am and I need him to grow up. I have faith in God but I am feeling so hopeless right now that contemplating death sounds like the most ideal solution. What can I do to fix not only my emotional state but the problems in life that follow?

All you need to do is pray for now i am 17 now but i had sex with this x-boyfraind to let him know i love him and when we was finis he broke up with me. I have a now boyfreind now and we are getting married nexd yr. God has someone out there for you it is just not time yet. He will come when it is time. This is for the tears someone gave this vears to me when i was crying one time. Read Psalms 56:8 it will help.

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I am sooo ugly , how do I make myself prettier ? Im a female 14

God made you in his own image.
You are prety the way you are.

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(Im a 22 year old girl.)This one feels complicated. I met my now best guy friend, who is a 21 year old guy, at work at the beginning of the year and we bonded through his breakup with his long time girlfriend. We're a lot alike in a lot of ways and talk easily about pretty much everything, including our dating lives, family/personal/work problems and secret future dreams. Over the past like three months our friendship has gotten deeper and deeper, I guess you could say. Out of the blue one night he told me I was his best friend and he felt closer to me than to his best guy friend that he grew up with. Then he told me he loved me as a best friend. Then he started relying on my fashion and relationship advice to get back into dating. He kissed me on the forehead once to tell me goodnight and I was completely thrown back. Then he started flirting with me jokingly, when at the beginning of our friendship this was just not done even as a joke. Now he's calling me babe and flirting with me hot and heavy-mostly when we're around other people-while telling me he loves me (without saying as a friend like used to always specify) A LOT-around other people and not. All of our coworkers and friends say they see something there and after his comment tonight "what if we're like those friends that in 15 years realize they can't live without each other and get married?" I'm starting to wonder what to make of all this. Any insight?

If you love him then do it/ go for it, I am 17 and I am getting married.
PS he is younger then me but not much.

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I'm planning on getting a new number (Because I've had the same one for SO long, and I've gave that number to people I don't talk to anymore), but I'm kind of afraid of something happening...

The service recycles the number after 30 days of non-use, so I'm scared that my one friend that has my number (I only like to give my number to family) will text it. I don't want to be associated with her anymore. She's "bad news", if you know what I mean... That being said, I won't give her my new number.

Should I be scared? Or is it just me? Also, we don't really text anymore.

If I was you I would

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If I eat healthy, drink water and work out an hour everyday can I lose 80 pounds by December/January?

yes you can

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I am thirteen years old, female, and about to go to eighth grade. I'm really scared about it, though, and I don't think I'm prepared enough.

Here are a few things you should know:
- My school closed, so I have to go to a new one.
- I don't know my way around the school.
- I tend to get stressed out about grades.
- I'm awful at making friends.
- I am a perfectionist, and I usually stay up late to finish my homework. (That's something I like about summer -- I can go to bed as early as I want and get enough sleep.)
- School starts in a week.
- I was teased a little about my race at my last school, and I don't want it to happen again.
- I'm very close to my teachers from last year, and they won't be at my new school.
- I was supposed to be put in journalism because I'm a writer, but they put me in something called office aides. I'm rather frustrated about that.

I would really appreciate any advice about how to be more prepared and less anxious. Thank you!

Just be you.

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OK! I'm a 14/f and I've been talking with my crush who is just a few years older than me (not much and don't talk about age, its not that huge of an age gap) we are both mature and are both in a school activity. Since it's summer we text literally everyday. I love talking to him (its very easy talking to him :D) and lately we are both struggling to find topics. Cause I can tell he likes talking to me just as much as I like talking to him. I want to keep conversation fun and continuous but I need help with ideas. So please give ideas!! We usually talk about the activity we are both in and how our days are. SO PLEASE HELP!!!! :)

Tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you.

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I am a retired member of law enforcement in my late 50s. My wife of 35 yrs left me suddenly last month. No discussion, she just was gone. A few days layer she called saying she needed a break. She suffers from major depressive disorder. My kids, late and early teens live with me. My son has shut her out of his life as this is the 2nd such departure she has made in the last yr. My son is angry and hurt by her actions. My young daughter is confused. I know i must care 4 my kids and do so but i am so down. These were to be my retirement yrs,instead it is hell. I am not interested in starting over. But i refuse to get old and eventually be alone. There are no 3rd parties involved here unless u count depression. On the job ive seen how these things can and do play out. Im not going to be sitting all alone staring at the walls or making umteen trips to a therapist. This will end badly 4 me no matter what.But at least i can end me. There is no other options. I feel very sorry 4 my kids. Mayb this way they can find a way to reconcile with their mother.

Sir tell your son that I know how he fills my dad did the same thing but never came back, tell ur daughter that her mom lover soom much.I was taken from my mom.
My name is Amy Allen I am 17 the only reson I am still here is God & Jesus.

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