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hey amanda i need help i went out with this girl a while ago and then we broke up and we didnt talk at all for a while but all of a sudden since last week we are talking alot more and we're starting to be friends again and we hooked up for a while last night and i think im starting to like her again and her friends are telling me that she likes me but im not really sure, we both dont want to go out but we like each other, what should i do
hey! haha well i don't really understand. do you like the way things are going between you two now? like the talking/hanging out/hooking up without being "together"? if so, continue it! maybe you should talk to her first though to see how she feels about you and the situation and maybe you guys can decide together to eventually go out or how fast you wanna move thingss. if you've just started becoming friends again, my advice is not to rush into anything new too soon. chances are, that's the reason why the relationship didn't work in the first place. gooodd luck hopee i've helped! :]
whats a really good foundation? that stays on for a long time? i had clinique.. but i didn't like it. what other kinds are there?
you know what's sooooo gooodd.. physician's forumula. its really good for your skin its all natural and is dermatologist reccomended i thinkk. they have so many kinds like theres one to blend in blemishes one to even your skin tone and they have light or darker bronzers gaahhhhh its the best thing ive used yet. :] you should try it!
hey amanda,
theres this guy and hes kind of an asshole and annoying but sometimes he can be really funny. and i know that he is like this but for some reason whenever i see him i just really feel like i want to be with him. i dont really talk to him all the time but i cant help the feeling. what should i do!?
aaww xo this happens too much it's so sadd. read the two comments below this one ! i can't believe how much guys really play with girls' heads. if i have foundd one guy to prove them all wrong .. anyone can! stayy strong kiddoo you dont really need to deal with a guy like this you can do betterr x3
13/f. Ok, so I have recently been having LOTS of trouble with my knees, and I'm only 13! A while ago, my right knee had been hurting alot so I had been trying to go easy when I put pressure on that knee. But as of last week, my left knee started to hurt. Now it has progressed, and both my knees hurt constantly when I'm walking or putting any pressure on them. I do dance, but only twice a week. I do poms...and ballet, tap, and jazz, but the 3 of those are combined in one class. I'm afraid I'm going to STOP having to dance, and that isn't an option with me, because I love to dance, and it's a big part of my life. Someone, please help me!
hey, you sound alot like me! i also had these horrrrrible knee pains and it got in the way of me getting into more serious cheerleading and gymnastics. i ended up having this thing called oschten schlotters disease (or however you spell it lol) and it's where your kneecaps grow faster than all the other bones in your leg so it's kinda cramped and rubs against your other bones uncomfortably. there's no cure for it other than taking pain killers when it hurts and wearing maybe a brace for support .. and it doesn't stop until you stop growing. it actually is somewhat common, and it'll be the most active around your age when you are growing the most. of course you might not have this- you need to go to a doctor to find out what's really wrong. but just really you should stop whatever you're doing when it starts to hurt.. it'll only make things worse. good luck, and i know what it's like to have a passion for something so i honestly with all of my heart hope this doesnt ruin your dancing career!
so theirs this guy that i have been in love with forever and i think he loves me to but i dont know if i should move on or not. whenevar i try to move on i cant. but whenevar i see him i get all nervous and butterfiles in my stomak. he has hurt me so many times but i keep going back for more. what should i do?
if you think he feels the same way about you, why would you move on? firstt i suggest you talk to him.. see if he'll say who he likes and if its you congrattss! :] you can even talk to his friends or someone that owuld know as a last resort. if it turns out he doesn't feel the same way, then just read the answer below this. it seems like you can really care for a guy and there is someone out there that can care about you just as much. trust me. ;] it just takes timee. good luck!
i cant get over this guy. i try but just cant. i just miss him more when i dont see/talk to him. its probably hurting me more not letting go, but i dont have enough will power to just forget about him. i want to move on, but then i miss him too much. i dont know what i should do..move on or hang on. what's your advicce amanda?
i would definitely say move on, babee. i know it seems impossible- but you really will be able to! keep your mind on other things .. like sports, school, or hobbies - something that you love and are interested in that will help guide your focus away from him. the way i used to find helpful to get over crushes was to meet new people, try to make new friendss.. i'm sure you'll eventually stumble over a guy that will completely steal your heart and make you wonder what you ever saw in that other guy or any other guys in the worldd. if you are able to devote that much of your herat to a guy .. you deserve and need someone who appreciates it and can reciprocate it. just keep thinking that you have wayy too good of a heart to waste it on someone who can't see that. gooodd luck xo stayy positive! ;]
ok so i have like, two groups of friends. one is me and two other girls...they're my best friends and i tell them that all the time. but then i have another group with my boyfriend and i hang out with them all the time. they arent friends w/ these girls that are my 1st group. now the two other girls are confused- they don't know who i like better because i have been hanging out with these other ppl soooo much. i try to make plans with them but i never really get together with them anymore. i hate to admit but even myself doesnt know who to be with more. i know that theyr my bessssttt friends and wont leave me no matter what, but should i be paying more attention to them? i dont wanta lose them but hanging out with my boyfriend and my other friends is so much funnn. i dont know. help!
you definitely need to balance both groupss. and if one group has a problem with you hanging with the other group .. then you should really consider your friendship with those people because if they were true to you i think they'd understand. like, your first group shouldn't care that you also like the second group and the second group shouldn't care that you're with the first group. but this doesnt mean you can take advantage of them for being undersanding of the situation! even though you prefer being with the second group, you cant always ditch the first group. imagine how you would feel if your best friend ALWAYS ditched you for her boyfriend?! you said theyre youre best friends, so you really must enjoy SOMETHING about being with them- maybe you just havent hung out with them in a while you need a sleepover or somethign to catch up with them. or also, and not many people are comfortable about this, you should combine both groups sometime- it never hurts to make new friends! no matter how different you may think they are, they all have at least one thing in common - they're friends with you. and that's a good start! i wish you luck with all your friends! hah, wow, you're quite the popular person! just really remember, treat your friends how you expect your friends to treat you. ;]
back to that boy that is a grade higher then me. i honestly cant beleive u couldnt figure out who this iss. i love u amamamanda
ohh righttt! haha i wasn't thinkin, babe. :] weeellll.. i honestly think you can find someone that treats you SO much better than himm.
How can I get tan and not get burnt?
i have such pale skin so i have a really hard time getting color other than red. there are ways to make your sunburn turn to tan though. the more you moisturize the burnt areas the better, or your skin will just peel and you'll stay white underneath. also, and this sounds really weird but it works like magic, take a tea bag and soak it in cold water and then rub and press against the burns. it reduces the redness sooooo much and the brown thingies inside of the tea bag kinda darken that area of skin tooo! haha. and it's not bad for you either, use like natural herbal tea that has no extra crap in it. hopee this works for ya!
wanna have hardcore make sex?
hah, sure. :] but only because i feel sorry for you. time? place? count me in! ;]
who cares if someone thinks you have no busms (boobies) YOUR STILL HOTT..since i dont wanna waste your time um..im bored wtf do i do?
aw well thanks! ;] and you could never waste my time! hahaha and if you're bored uhmm.. idk? find a life kelly. haha totally kidding i love you. i guess. kind of. haha xo
I've been eating one meal a day. I know this is probably not healthy...and I'm not doing it to diet. I just can't stop. I didn't have breakfast or lunch 2 days in a row and when i returned home I had a dinner which barely consisted of anything. I really am not dieting although I am overweight...I am content with myself. I'm sure this is not healthy but I do drink lots of water and juices. Can anything bad happpen to me?
hhmm it might sound crazy but i've heard that skipping meals actually causes your metabolism to slow down and instead of losing weight you will just gain more. when your body realizes that it's not getting enough food and nutrients as it should, it kinda goes into a "state of emergency" if you will and now releases extra stored fat in your body for warmth and whatever your body uses fat for because it thinks you wont be able to get food for a long time. it can be pretty dangerous if you keep up what you're doing.. and even if you aren't hungry you should slowly try getting back into the habit of at least three meals a day. i'm pretty sure this is accurate, getting this information from a trusted adult who specializes in this area, but it's enough to get me motivated to eat right! hopes this helpss :]
okay so likeee...im supposed to be reading a midsummer nights dream..but like im suppperr boredd..like you knoww?? what do i doo...read or watch tv..hmmmmm...
--guess who?!
my dearest janis, what has happened to your superior study habits? they seem to be deteriorating. i hope you choose to study, or mrs lindyyy will eat you alive when you fail that test and take you out of honors and move you into the stupid class. unless gilmore girls is on.. then that's understandable. ;]
okay so theres this boy, and he isnt in my grade but i really like him. do i stop becuase i never have a chance?
welllll.. do you talk to him alot? i don't know enough about your friendship with him to tell if you would have a chance or not. If you've barely talked to him before.. then your chances might be a little slim. but it also depends what grade you're in and if hes older or younger than you. you can IM me at amandaaxoox or repost with more info so that i can answer your question better. sorry!
basically, i love you. anddd, i want to express that in some way, so i thought that this would be the best. i love you amanda lee. and i always will :]
-your poptart/imbecile for life
yay i love you too, kelso! =] beeeeefff.
amanda, i know you have a boyfriend... but i need you. i can't stop thinking about you, and whenever i do, well you know what happens ;] damn girllll, you are just so fine!!! not to be cocky, but people tell me i'm hot - way hotter than that fag matthew mannella. please just dump his ass and jump my bones!!!
-- helpless in lust
sorry babe, i lovvveee matt too much and hes the best boyfriend in the world :] and i think you're a desperate hoe. always here to help!
Hey, i've been wonderin, you've got a nice ass and legs aren't bad but you got no titties. Where'd your titties go?
uhm, i don't know they got up and ran away? sorry, but what kind of question is that! hahahaha but thanks for the complimentt and for making me laugh :]
Okayyy well i have this like totalyy amazingg friend her names amanda. and i just wanna know why shee is sooooooooooooooooooooo prettyyyy!!!!!
your love anne!
awww thanks anndriaa! :]
you seem like you're really good at giving advice, so i hope you can help me. :] see, a couple months ago i started going out with basically my best guyfriend. it was a horrible relationship for both of us, and after a couple weeks he dumped me. i was so surprised i jumped down his throat, we got into an arguement, and we haven't spoken since. he refuses to acknowledge that i exist, and recently i realized most of why the relationship was bad was MY fault. i tried to talk to him before, but it didn't work. and i really miss him 'cause we were so close, but i wouldn't know how to apologize since he's avoiding me at all costs. and now it's really awkward in school whenever we have to be near each other. what should i do? thanks soo much in advance.
You need to make sure he can hear everything you have to say. if you tried talking to him in person, he might just simply walk away or talk over you so that you can't get your point across. try writing a brief note and have a friend/you hand it to him where he can't avoid it, or send an email/IM if he hasn't blocked you. If he is still stubborn and refuses to listen to what you have to say, then there is nothing you can do and this situation becomes his fault because you gave it your best try. good luck! it's such a shame that you guys were such good friends- but if you two were really that close to begin with then im sure something minor like this won't affect your relationship forever. just be patient! :]
My friend said she`s a "true" friend , But she always copys EVERYTHING i do . I mean really ; it`s ANNOYING! and she has to get her own life . What should i tell her ?
----> problem child
The best thing you can do is to just not let her get to you. i've been through this more times than i can count, and i've learned to realize that you need to see this from your friend's point of view as well. i'm sure she doesn't even realize she's doing it! some people feel like being exactly the same as a friend is normal because you're so close, and she's really looking up to you- not trying to be annoying. you've got to try not to be mad at her, but just tell her what you're thinking and give her some examples. make sure you ask her how she would feel if she were in your spot, and i'm sure she'll become aware of what she's doing and hopefully stop. hope this helps ya! :]