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best friend to worst enemy
you seem like you're really good at giving advice, so i hope you can help me. :] see, a couple months ago i started going out with basically my best guyfriend. it was a horrible relationship for both of us, and after a couple weeks he dumped me. i was so surprised i jumped down his throat, we got into an arguement, and we haven't spoken since. he refuses to acknowledge that i exist, and recently i realized most of why the relationship was bad was MY fault. i tried to talk to him before, but it didn't work. and i really miss him 'cause we were so close, but i wouldn't know how to apologize since he's avoiding me at all costs. and now it's really awkward in school whenever we have to be near each other. what should i do? thanks soo much in advance.
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You need to make sure he can hear everything you have to say. if you tried talking to him in person, he might just simply walk away or talk over you so that you can't get your point across. try writing a brief note and have a friend/you hand it to him where he can't avoid it, or send an email/IM if he hasn't blocked you. If he is still stubborn and refuses to listen to what you have to say, then there is nothing you can do and this situation becomes his fault because you gave it your best try. good luck! it's such a shame that you guys were such good friends- but if you two were really that close to begin with then im sure something minor like this won't affect your relationship forever. just be patient! :]
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