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hey guyz im 16/f ....and well theres this guy called jason and like we have been friends for a long time now and he has always 'liked me' in that kinda way =)..but we have always been just good friends...but now hes like 'i rly like you' and i rly duno how i feel about him =/ hes like the nicest guy ever and i kno he would not hurt me but its like i duno whether to date him b/c maybe hes just *too* nice for me and i dont wana hurt him so im like confused =/ i always get butterflies when im with him and like we flirt a lil but its just fun.....how do i kno if i like him like he likes me ??? (link)
normally, i would advise you to just stay friends but in this case im advising you to just go for it. They always say, "the best lovers are just bestfriends on fire". To me it seems like you like him but are afraid to lose your friendship. If im wrong, sorry.
Hope, I helped :)
P.S. Anymore questions just ask :]

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How do you keep a strong mind set in staying healthy? How can I turn away from bad food? Where can I get this will power? (link)
When I see bad foods that I want I just feel how big my stomach is and remember how miserable I am being fat.


Okay so Ive been texting this guy for awhile
& he wanted to ask eachother personal questions over texting
So I agreed

But I had no idea what to ask

What are so good things to ask?
We're talking like
:do you wear thongs> send me noods> cup size?"
Those kinda questuions

What questions could I ask HIM

ALOT PLEASE (link)
you could ask questions like how "big" is he...is he a virgin...ever gotten head? blowjob? how far has he gone with a girl... has he ever kissed a guy. does he like to eat girls out? would he like to eat u out? how many times a week does he jack off? you know things like that:) HOPE I HELPED :D


I am returning to my country late in Feb.

Girl 1
Met on family trip. Spent day together walking around town, sharing looks, smiles, going "click". My father said he could see it even while around her parents.
Lives far away, so I haven't seen her. No English, and I am a slow writer, but we've shared short "Hey it's ... Remember me?"
"Yes, perfectly, I'm well..." messages.
I told her that I wanted to see her again before I leave, and she said O.k.
I won't see her for at least a year maybe longer before I come back from my home-town.

Girl 2
Found me (Going to my town for exchange study). Said she wanted to practice English, but speaks in her mother-tongue to me. Not reaching ignition. Been around her plenty, but don't feel like I can get near her personal space. Has come over several times for dinner, but we don't end up talking about personally important things. Stagnating, and don't want to turn the basis of our relation into inviting her for dinner. Hasn't invited me to her place. Only initiated one meeting, but it was on Christmas day, to give me a present of a personally-annotated novel (which I'd joked about ages ago). Annotating it must have taken ages, but I don't know if it's a friendly "I'll help you learn" thing, or an "I like you, look what I did for you" thing.

Only free time I have to visit Girl 1 is 10-20 of Feb.
Likes me in return. I could go be with her over Valentines day, but then I am throwing the day away in relation to Girl 2. It could be the death-knell of potential I have with her, and extremely awkward if she asked me to be her Valentine.

Considering asking Girl 2 to be my valentine to see if I can make the "relation" a "relation-ship", but will become awkward if she says no, and hurt potential for development. If she says yes, I would feel terrible seeing Girl 1, but I just want to so much.

a few sure days, or ambiguous long-term potential.

What do you think I should do?
Thanks (link)
It seems to me that you like girl 1 more then girl 2. and my advice is whoever you think you like more go for them. by the way you've explained things it looks as if girl 2 would be a better friend to you. You shouldnt have to try to make it work if its meant to be it will just be. "True friendship grows even over the longest distances. The same goes for true love."


I'm 14 and i havent started to hit puberty yet. I dont even have any pubic hair yet. Alot of the girls at school have been making fun of me. Is there somthing wrong with me? (link)
theres totally nothing wrong with you! i mean i wish i was you! your so lucky!!!


how do you know if you have come across love and what is it anyways? (link)
You'll just know when you've found it. Its hard not to know when you've come across it. And you come across love when you least expect it when your not looking for it every second of every minute of every day! hope i helped


Me= 17-F
Boyfriend=17-M
bf brother=17-M

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months now. A year ago before his brother got his girlfriend, He complained alot saying i was stealing his brother and we only hungout once a week if that because we live 40 minutes away and talked on the internet an hour or so nightly. Since he has got his girlfriend they hangout all the time because they go to school together and she is pretty much his only friend now because he doesnt make time for his friends. He always says things to me now about how crappy me and my boyfriends relationship is just because we dont go out and do things everytime we see eachother because we'd rather stay at home and relax together. It always ticks me off and he's made me cry twice because i feel horrible. But last 3 weeks ago (the last time i saw him) his brother told us that we shouldnt kiss as much because it means our relationship is all lust and crap because he believes everytime we go to his room we stay down there and makeout the whole time...when in reality we go down there and cuddle and watch movies and just be together yes we kiss but we dont makeout the whole time we are away from eachother for 1 to 3 weeks at a time and he complains when i say i miss him when he says it right after he gets off school when he saw her a whole 10 minutes ago.

I just want to know why he always makes me feel like shit i love my boyfriend so much but im tired of his brother making me cry and feel like crap.

just please tell me why you think he might be doing this...

i just want to understand why hes doing this to me when, when me and his brother first started dating he seemed to like me.
HELP!
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okay i was kinda in the same situation with my sister and just dont think anything of it because i was letting it get to me too and it only made me feel like crap so now i just tune out what my sister has to say about my boyfriend and me. hope i helped


I reaally like this boy. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He stares at me in assembly sometimes, and when i look at him, he looks away.


Also when he's talking to his mates. they look at me?


im so confused. Does he like me? (link)
girl he likes you! no doubt about it! i say go for it!!


okay so i know we've all done it at one point or another, but see i met this boy...

i really like him but hes definitely the type of guy liked by EVERYONE and he knows it, and he loves to play mind games. he doesn't seem to be looking to commit, but hes also not a player he is the sweetest when it comes to girlfriends. its getting the gf status thats hard. i know that he likes me and im sure he wants me...thats not the problem. the problem is that i dont want to just give in to him so easily because i know him, and he WILL get bored. if we kiss, go out, hook up, w/e then in a week he'll be like 'alright were friends right?' and i want more than that. so i know this is really not the way to get someone...but i want to play his game. That's why i need advice...
what can i do to make him want me on a more serious level??? how do i play these mind games and do you think they can work? and please no lectures about how wrong this is because honestly its human nature to get bored if something is too easy we all do it. so in a way I'm just keeping things interesting. and besides, he does it too!
THANKS! =)
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well its hard to be specific if i dont know him or the way he acts but i do know the way to make him crazy is for you to not want him as much as every other girl or atleast make it seem that way to him. He'll keep wondering why almost every girl wants him except you. therefore he'll do more to get your attention and impress you. let me know if you need anything else just ask! hope i helped!


OK, there is this guy in ALL my classes. Before I liked him as a friend. Now, I love him..absolutly love him.Lets call him J. But you see the problem is that he is going out with one of my best friends. But everyone says that he is going out with him to get to know me better. Well, today we were talking and me,amber,and kelly(some of my friends) were drawing blank dollar bills and then disigning that. Well, Amber started by drwing a pic of him, then me, then Kelly. Well, he was like Imma gonna draw all three of you. When he drew them he showed tehm to us and my pic was a pretty girl. So he has this friend named, well, lets call him A.) A likes me and J was like "outside, go and stalk her" so A said sure.
tehn inside were jokeing around making fun of each other. (We have a mentle kidd in our class, lets call him b.) He said that I was going out with A then i was like omg, i didnt know that you were cheating on b with a..and we keep going on, and on!He was basically flirting with me, and whenever I look at him he ALWAYS looking at me!
So do you think he likes me? (link)
he totally likes u so just go for it and dont hold back


I am a 17 year old male.
There is this girl who is a freshman and I am a senior.
I wanted to know if she is too young for me to date. (link)
no. im in a similar situation and it worked out great between us! hope i helped!


Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you? (link)
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! i mean i have that same situation i mean most of my friends are 16-20 and im only 13 buteveryone says i act way mature 4 my age and my boyfriend is 17 and yea. next year it will be illegal but it doesnt matter 2 me. besides i heard that if ur parent(s) or guardian is okay with it then noones doing aoything wrong and my ma approves of myboyfriend 100%


14/f

I've heard the expression to 'Play hard to get' but how exactly do you do that? Like what are some things you do to play hard to get? Thanks (; (link)
i agree to all these answers. and another thing that drives them crazy is when they like ask to go out say that ur busy even if u not and tell them reincheck? and look as innocent and irresistable as possible. :D


Alright guys, there is this girl I truly adore. The same one as usual, of course. She's currently dating a guy, but I think I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me in that way, infact we're kinda talking last night about didn't foreplay, other sexual type of things, ect. We usually have those "interesting" type of conversations when we talk late at night, and we just blame it on us being out of it, delerious, ect. Although, she did say she enjoyed the conversation.

Anyway, during the day that we talk, she doesn't act the same at night, she's a bit more quiet, and doesn't mention those type of things. However, she's told me several times that I'd get a 2nd chance providing they break up.

Well, I'd kinda like to make a move now, and try to get her attention. You guys may not be able to answer this, since you don't know her personality, ect. but I was hoping you guys could provide some tips on how I could perhaps make a move on her.

We tend to just talk on AIM, we rarely get to visit each other, and will talk on the phone from time to time.

Thanks! (link)
i think that you should wait to see if they break up and if they do then that when you make your move. and i you do make a move(which i totally give you kudos because most guys dont have the guts to) then u should just be yourself. Im sure everything will work out for you! hope i helped!:)




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