heyy my name is kristy, im 16 jerseyy girl. I no alot about life, and ive watched many many movies about it. Ive been through tragics and joys, so check out my advice column. Ask all you want! x0o have fun!!!
E-mail: XokristyyoX@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: jersey girlll
Occupation: none
Age: 15
Member Since: February 21, 2005
Answers: 40
Last Update: July 28, 2005
Visitors: 1899
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i used to like this guy kyle and i dont anymore. im goin out with this guy named andrew and whenever i say anything about kyle even if its mean it seems to pissed andrew off... wat do i do? (link)
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OK, dont say thngs about Kyle anymore, because if you like this guy, i dont think he wants to hear about Kyle. Even if its mean, your thinking about him, and if you talk about him alot, then i think oyu might still like him. If you think wht i am saying is stupid, o well bc some1 would stop talking about their EX. Don't let Kyle come ot your mind, and if he does see if u still like him.
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Ok im 14 and i have this friend. We have been friends sence before kindergarden. Now im in 8th Grade and we talk and hang out but we are friends with totally different groups of people. All the people she's hanging out with are real popular and preppy and totally not her. I normmal dont like thoses type of people. They are nice but probably would not care for me. She is now started to act like them and i dont really like it. I want to tell her and seee what she would say or if she would change, but i dont want her to get mad at me. I dont kno what to do please help!! (link)
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That is a really hard decsion. But, i would tell her and see what happens, she'll get over it. Or you could hang out with he alot more, and be her frend, and maybe she'll change. I f you tell her say as a friend i need to tell you thtt, or you could tell her on AOL, AIM, MSN, w.e chat.
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well ive liked this guy for like 5 months now, and so much has been hapening, now i like other guys 2, but its like i dont know like i still have some feelings about that guy i liked for 5 months, i still care for him. but now i like this other guy and he just broke up with my friend and today i walked up to him and he was like "hey sexie, and put his arm around me and said ur my gurlfriend now" but he was joking probably, well i really like him too, but that other guy i still have feelings for him too, and its like i like him too. but he flirts with every gurl and i just dont know what to do about it.
plz help me.
i rate 5. (link)
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So everythng you do is not working?? Ask your mom for help, try a diet plan, run more, eat healthy {3 fruits aday}. Dont eat junk food, but it could affect your metabilism so ask a doctor.
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im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out. (link)
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OMGG!! STOP!!! OK, you can lose alot of blood from that! See a theripist! TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!!! THROW OUT ALL THE RAZORS< KNIVES< ANYTHING THAT YOU CAN HARM URSELF!
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i have recently had a coldsaw but my girlfriend wants me to give her oral sex but im concerned that if it is not gone completely she may get infected. is it safe? (link)
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Well, not to sound like a goody-goody, but you should have sex after your married. You can be infected with Klamida or another kind of disease. Don't give oral sex to her because i don't think it's safe.
good luck x0o
~advicechick123
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Ok, i need help. Wel I am like in love with this guy. And i think that he likes me 2. I herd from someone but im not sure. But the only reason i thinkl he likes me is because im sporty and play sports and isnt a girlygirl. But when i go out woth him and mi friends, and he sees me woith a purse, then i dont no wat he will think!!
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Being sporty isn't bad, and being a girlygirl isn't bad. Show him who you really are, meaning you can be a tomboy sometimes and you can be a girlygirl. IF he likes you as a tomboy your not only that you are so much more, if he doesn;t like you being sporty i would say don;t like him. You won't beable to express and show who you are and that isn't good. A real "SPECIAL GUY" wouldn't care how you look, or dress. He would care about your personality and how you show yourself.
x0o good luck
~advicechick123
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im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do (link)
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Calm down, and breathe. In a movie how a lot of times at the end they kiss and everything goes perfect. Practice on your hand, and everything will be fine. Don't get scared, and he moght lose interest if you ddont't make a move.
x0o good luck
~advicechick123
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is this normal...
im ok with death, and i know heaven is more peaceful then earth..and i know heaven nothing can go wrong..
i sometimes want to die..but sometimes i fear that i dont want to dye...like i dont want my life to end i always want it to continue...and never end
im 14 and i know my death isnt till another 80 years or so... (link)
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Everybody is going to die one way or another. Sometimes i wish i weren't on earth and sometimes i wish i didn't want to leave it in the end. When you die you begin a new journey to heaven. So your life does not end it begins. Life is a preperation to heaven, which we get to see what we are about and who we are.
x0o hope everything works out
~advicechick123
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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes? (link)
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Well, he says he likes you..but he proboly chokes up and swells when he wants to talk to you. It might be very hard for him, bc he doesn't want to make a fool of himself. He doesn't want you to see through him, that is my opinion.
x0o good luck
~advicechick123
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I have this guy friend and we are like best friends no dout but I knida really like him and everyone thinks he kindof likes me. I dont know if I should go out with him or not because his guy best friend likes me too and I dont want to ruin thier friendship or our friendship
Please Help::f/13::I rate high (link)
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Ok..breathe..now find out if the best friend likes you, and then if you like him, go out with him. See how it goes..the other guy will proboly understand. If it doesn't go well then you know hes not right for you.
x0o good luck
~advicechick123
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i like two guys but i only told one of them i lliked them and the other is my ex but he thinks i dont like him ne more. and the guy i told that i liked him im starting to not like him no more. and i want to have my ex back realli badly but hes gotta gf.plz help. from 15/female/new jersey (link)
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Well...tell your person that noes that you liked him, but once you told him it stoppeed. Or you could say i don't think this will work out. Your ex on the otherhand dont tell yet...be a good friend, flirt a little, and be a nice supportive person. Then onec your so close tell him.
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my ex and his gf just broke up he is heart broken and i love the kid to death so feel horrible i have always just wanted to just randomly walk up to him at school and kiss him or tell him i love him but he had a gf so i respected that. they arent dating anymore so what should i do. (link)
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You have feelings for this guy i can see. Do what your heart desires, and tell him that you like him. BE a good friend, comfort him while hes still inn pain. Show him love and compasion/
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my teacher let my friend and i do an advice column 4 the school newspaper but it's kind of hard to give advice when there is no one to give advice to in other words no one will ask us 4 advicewhat should we do???
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That's how I felt, but..on the left column where it says "GIVE ADVICE", under says view questioins. Go to there and start answering those kind of questions. Then people will start seeing ur "NAME" on browse columnist under "GET ADVICE".
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I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do??????????????????? (link)
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NOt calling, not interacting, that's not a sign of love. Seth, if he treats you well, go for him . Jarad might need sometime, but think to yourself..Would you like someone who never call and or never makes you laugh. NO!! I wouldn't so go for seth.
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i have alot of arm hair!!!! i hate it and its dark dark brown there is just no way to hide it especially in the summer and when it isnt summer i dont ususally like to wear long sleeves well anyways my hair on my arms tends to be messy and if i lotion it it looks wayyyy to perfect does anyone know a way to keep it looking sharp without lotioning it?????? (link)
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Try some "NAIR", don't shave it because it will become back black. Keep doing it and let it grow alittle, then once you think you can see it alot. Use the nair.
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my pet is pregnant wht do i do..?? (link)
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Ok.. calm down, I think they have their babies only in 3 months. She might be in pain, so don't worry.
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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything.. (link)
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ok..i sugest tht you by a early pregnancy test "FIRST RESPONSE" and let it detect it. If you are inform your mom, and dont! i repeat DONT! get an abortian! Let the baby live, every person should have a life and a chance.
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I really like this guy and hes home for vacation and so am i but i dont know if i should ask him if he wants to hang out or how. I mean we are really good friends but he has a girlfriend (who isnt home and hes thinking of breaking up with) but we never talk on the phone and he cant go online cuz his comps broken.....ugh what do i do!
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Well, if you really like this guy you have ot take some chances. Comfort him, and be a really good friend. Ask him if he wants to hang out, and flirt a little. Be who you are, and spend more time with him. Then, the kiss...
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ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/ (link)
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OK...your stll young and you will proboly be going out w. alot of people, so dont worry. I've had things like tht happen, {now i might sound like a mother or a nun} but just pray. Do good deeds and your answer will lie in your heart. Who do you like more, who makes you have the kiddishy feeling tht you dont want to leave the person. You right their name. Things like that.
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heyy..well im here to ask u a question...i found out tht my father was cheatng on my mother and idk wht to do or how to tell her. her bday is tmm and im so nervous... (link)
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fist thts rele sad...and second i thnk you should wait till aftfer her birthday so she can enjoy the moment...give her a good present and the happiest day possible! tell her you love her and want t see a smile on her face all day! Break it to her either a note or to her face 'nd make sure tht you are compleely positive b4 u d anythng! lyl x0o!
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