How often do people in high school that are dating stay together?
it depends how the boy is like if he shows off in front of his friends usally not very long but if both people are truly in love and devoted it could last as long as you make it last
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Not one boy has ever liked me or even said I'm pretty. I think I'm average but I just feel like I have no appeal to boys. What can I do to make myself prettier? Like what are the "in" styles for hair and clothes, and what's some good make-up to wear?
for hair: wear it down straight or curly and if you have a straightener that would also work
for clothes: wear bright colors and a different style like something sexy but not slutty just something like very preppy that will show people how different you look and changed
makeup: never wear the same color as your shirt unless it is green, pink, and white if your wearing jeans or something wear srapkley eye shaddows like silver or gold that shine. for lip glosses wear sweet talk or something shiny or a light pink. for cover up you should get something a little darker than your skin tone to stand out and shoe people you changed
i hope i helpedd if you need any thing else just ask =]
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I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
15/f
well first of all that girl is not really a friend if she will do that and you should tell her that you stil lreally love him and that you think its kind of messed up to do this to her and for the boy well if he really still loves you whats ment to be will find its way =]
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ok. i`ve been knowing thiss guy.. since 6th grade and i`ve fallen for him. *since 6th grade* but i was a fat girl and he wasn`t so he didn`t like me. we were kool, kinda friends i guess, but you can tell he didn`t like me cause i used to ask him out all the time. well throughout middle school, my like for him got stronger and stronger. and i lost weight during summer b4 9th grade. well in 9th grade, he started talking to me more, and more. and we evolved a friend ship. he had a girl friend, but she could nvr do nething durin the weekends, so i used to do stuff with him all the time, and he used to cuddle with me. well they broke up and we started talkin, and he asked me out on his birthday. well we broke up but even tho we were broken up we were still actin like we were goin out. he had another g/f and he cheated on her with me and was still tellin me he loved me, and i cheated on my b/f with him. well now he has no g/f and i have no b/f and we tell each other tht we arent goin to get one. but i dont understand why WE D0NT G0 BACK 0UT. i mean we tell each other we love each other, and spend each minute with each other, everyday @ school and everyweekend. but he is goin off to a school next year tht is like 5 hours from here. only gonna come down once a month, but idk. we`re at the end of out 10th grade year. and we have been talking since october of 2004 so almost 2 years. but we don`t go out but we act like we do and everyone at school thinks we do. please i need advice.
i say that you two should go back out for now because if you really love each other then it will work and even if he moves youll still have feelings and maybe wen he moves you could go on a 'brake' because while hes down there and your up here youll love each other but youll be bored without each other so youll need other people then whem he comes back down and you see him and your wityh each other it will seem like yous go out and everything will seem ok just he will have to call you eeryonce in a while it coudl kind of be a good thing hes moving becuase it will make you want each other even more and look forward to your visits and be so much happier to see each other =] if you need any thing else just ask
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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him
just act like yerself dont be shy. the worst that could happen if you show your realy personality is that if he doesnt like it hes not worth it and im sure if he lieks you now hell like your personality i say you just act yourself and hell fall more and more in love with you every day =]
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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'(
heyy i deff think that you shud start to liek a new guy. he seems liek a hugeeeeeeeee player and that even tho he seems so great hes doing it just to be more popular even th oyou liek him alot hes not worth it find someone thats worth it and that will do anything for you i say you kjust try hard to find someone new
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Okay so I met this guy at my cousins wedding reception two weeks ago. I had a really nice conversation with him and found out he has a good job and he similar values as me. When I got him alone he acted like a perfect gentleman and said all the right things.
My main concerns however are that he is 6 years younger than me (he is 22 and I am 28). I think he's still in his party phase. I'll let you be the judge. Well earlier he and his friends went upstairs to the bar in the hotel to pick up girls. He came downstairs and was bragging to everyone that he got the number off the hottest chick in the bar. Also he was hanging out with a guy who made a rude comment about an overweight girl.
I'm debating about whether or not to ask my cousin for his number (she gets back from her honeymoon tonight). I just wanted to ask your opinions first if you think he's relationship material.
Also before I forget he lives about 5 hours away from me.
i think that he is still too young to for you. you are older and mature (expecially because girls mature faster) he is still younger and likes to fool around. he would be nice and kinda without his friends but he seems liek the type that likes to show off in front of his friends. i don't think you should bother with him becuase he seems like he will just act like a great boyfriend in front of you to play it off but exspecially becuase he lives so far away it will be a very unsecure relationship. you will always have to worry about ihm cheating because he seems like the hit it and quit it kind of guy. he seems liek he would get with you and today then tomorrow her. he doesn;t seem liek hes ready for a real relationship yet . i say you get his number call and be friends. maybe one day when hes ready to be mature you can be more than friends. you should tell him how you feel for him but also let him know you don't think hes ready for a relationship because of what had haopened later that night. if you need any more advice just ask =]
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Ok, so I have always hated my highschool, and thought that everyone in it was a shallow dimwit! But I recently got advice to try to get to now some people, mingle & be social, and maybe Iäll start liking it more. Right, so I did. I started talking to these two guys, who are best friends, pretty popular and pretty much WANTED by every girl in school, but I just wanted to be friends, right..so I started talking to these guys for the first time yesterday, and it was just for 15 minutes, helping them study, but I felt an immediate attraction to both of them, one of them is outgoing, loud, charming..and oh so popular, and the other one is also pretty popular (because he's hott) but really shy, quite, and looks pretty insecure. Now, the thingh is the're both BEST FRIENDS, and I would never start flirting with two bff that could end up terrible! But I know I'm gonna start liking these guys, so I would like to decide WHICH ONE to like, and just go for him, flirt with him, instead of with both of them, because what if they both end up liking me..that could be terrible!! So how do you decide which one to like? And also, what would be hard is that they both like different type of girls, so its better to just focus on one of the guys..15/f thank you!
i say that you go for the one that is quiet. it seems that almost all guys who are too outgoing and charming are too much into themselves. he would proablly be the type that treats you horribly in front of friends. the quiet boys usally are more trustworthy and understandable. it seems like the quiet one would be the better one to have a relationship with, he would know how to make it work better.
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So I have this friend I've had for a couple of years, and today we were in his room and he got a bit "touchy-feely" and kept asking for hugs and stuff. Usually he's not like this at all. Anyway, soon as I was about to leave he went to kiss me on the cheek.. and I kissed him on the lips.. not knowing he was just going for the cheeks. lol. We kissed for about 20 seconds, then I broke it off... and said goodbye and went home. Well I feel really weird about it now, partly because I enjoyed it and yet he's been a friend for a long time. I don't regret it though. But I'm the type of person who takes kissing someone pretty seriously.
I know this kind of thing is pretty common, and I shouldn't let it affect things between us. I don't really want a relationship right now. However.. not sure whether we should just let this go, put it behind us.. or whether we should do the whole "Friends with benefits" thing.
Thanks for your help.
even though you say you don't want a relationship right now i think that this is the perfect oppertunity to have one. sense you two are best friends it makes it even better. when you date your best friend you feel so comfortable and you just know that it will work. you know pretty much everything about them so you know that you can trust them. i deffinatly think you should tell him that you have feelings for him and that you think that someday you guys will be more than just friends. because i know that if you did become more than friends your relationship would be perfect. it already seems just by reading this that you two were made for each other and you obviously already can tell he has many feelings for you. i say that you should start a relationship out of this it would probobally be the best relationship you ever had. please take my advice. and if you need anymore just ask =]
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at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much...
hi wow this is really weird i almost had the same problem. i met a boy and he really liked me, a lot and i really liked him to. we never talked much we just always looked at each other and knew we had feelings for each other. then we started talking on the phone and i seriously fell in love. i thought every thing was great. then one day, he moved all the way to colorado which i live far, far away from. he didn't eve say good bye he didn't even tell me he was leaving. and i never talk to him any more at all. it kills me to know he left and to know that i had so many feelings for him that now ill never get to express but to help me get over him i kind of helped myself. what i did was, well in the beginning of the year i found this boy. we kindd of became best friends. Now i have much more feelings for him. sense he was my best friend he i felt so comfortable around him now that i like him things are getting better. i know ill still always have feelings for the other boy but the best way to deal with it is to bring out the little feelings you have for someone else to help you get over this boy. if you need anything else just ask me quesitons and id be glad to help you =]
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