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Hey Guys... im not gonna be on for a while...sowwie :( if you need anything i will check my emails as often as i can butt im not ignorin you okkay? lol LoVE yoUu!!my name is Ashley but everyone calls me asher or asher beth, i am 16 years old, i live in louisiana...!*SUPPORT VICTIMS OF HURRICANE KATRINA!* and i am a pretty lovable person, i like to make people laugh, i have lots of friends, i am pretty outgoing, im really nice and i wont be a sarcastic wen im talking to you about advice..if you wanna talk sum more im on MYSPACE AWL THE TIME!!! lol..its crzy! if you wanna noe more just chEck OuT My wEbsitE or EMAIL ME!! x3 asher beth....
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im 13/f and every1 say im kinda skinny but what they dont know is that my stomache is a little pudgy. i wanna know how to get it flatter without like losing weight but if u guys have any idea how to get my stomache flatter tell me (link)
The main thing is to do bookoo ab exercise..it can hurt alot...First you might wanna by those magaizines in the drug sote called FITNESS or sumthing like that and it talks about ways to get it skinny.this site mite help u also...

http://www.shape.com/getfit/7774

GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*



Ok,I have an adsl line, and I have a modem that is also a router so I can connect to the internet. Is there a way to connect a phone to the modem so that you make calls from the phone and not knock of the internet line?

How is this done, and do you have to pay more for such a thing? Is there anyway of doing it for free (besides paying for the dsl line)? Is it even possible?

Any help will be highly appreciated. (link)
It depends on who your with. ud honestly have to call your cable company about that, if you could maybe its illegal and you could get in boo koo trouble..im sowwie :(


GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*


does anybody know how to get a layout for your advice column...like if i want a different one other then the ones they provide on this site? if i look at layouts do i look at website layouts or blog layouts or what? thanks! (link)
I dont think you can sweet heart...im sowwie...


GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*


dear susan,
i have this problem. my problem is 14 years old. i worry about her everyday. she used to be my sweet little beanpole but now all she cares about is her boyfriend and school and her mom.she pretty much forgot i even existed.i dont know what to do! please help me get my little sister back!!
love,
anonymous (link)
well im confused but if you feel that way try talking to her...she will understand..i think...

GoOd lUcK! aNYthiNg eLSe?
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth...add me!
x3 asher beth *mwah!*


a few days ago i was with my guy friend and we were fooling around.. is it possible for me to get pregnant when he got cum on his fingers and then fingers me? and im sorry if its such a dumb question (link)
No of course its not a dumb question, NO1 HAS the answers to everything lol..but yeah sweetie you can get preganant...you dont always need your parents permission to go to the gynocologist...!!

hope i help...anything else?
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Is it possible to have a STD if your a virgin? (link)
Yea its not THAT COMmon...but it doesnt JUST HAPPEN OUT OF no where...lol

try going to a clinic to get tested..you dont always need your parents to go to the gynocologist either...


13/f
okay well i want to get something done to my hair thats different because ryte now its just....normal its wavy and thick and long...and i hate it...so i was just wondering if any1 had any ideas that might look good?
thankss -rosemarie-
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magazines from stores are the best...go to your nearest grocery or drug store and they have bookoo hairstyke magazines...

hope i help...anything else?
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x3 asher beth


i am not pregnant, but i havent had my period since february, and before then i didnt have it since september, whats wrong with meeee?! HELP (link)
Nothing. Its totall comon for you to be going throu this..ask your mom or dad to bring you to the gynocologist...they can give you birth control and it will make your periods come every other month and your periods will be veryy VERYY LIGHT! lol..

hope i help...anything else?
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x3 asher beth


i had sex with my best guy friend, and he has std's do i have it?!!!!?! help pleasee!!!! (link)
Well sometimes, you miss it sometimes you get it..it depends on what kind of std he has..some you can get an anti-biotic for it from your gynocologist...there are also many clinics..

idk where you are soo look up your town in google
for clinics...sometimes you dont even need your parents..ask friends for gynocologist in the area...

HOpe I hElPEd!
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
mWah! lOve AshEr


13/f
ugh i cant stand the top of my thighs. the rest of my legs are toned, but it just randomly gets biggerat the.you know, the inside and back a little bit thats really noticable in short shorts and bathing suits & whatnot. how can i make it go awayy? i know everyones gonna say excercise and eat healthy, yeah i know, but i need more direction than that. what kind of excersices and stuff. i'm trying to eat healthier, but i don't know exactly what i'm supposed to eat to make the little bit of extra fat go away.
thankks (link)
Her is some good legs exercises...they tell you what to do step by step.

http://www.get-great-legs.com/leg-stretches.html

HOpe I hElPEd!
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
mWah! lOve AshEr


Can someone please tell me how to delete memory off my computer. My internet has been going really slow, and I think that my memory is almost full. Please and Thank you. (link)
Well...idunno how old you are so you might wanna ask your parents...

1. Clean up your disk space.
2. you can *askk* your parents to ddo System Restore...
3. Delete all the documents you dont need.
4. go to internet explorer...go to internet settings and clean up(delete) sum of the cookies and files from the internet. It wont do anything really harmful...promise

well if that doesnt work go to the manafactures website...

like microsoft.com ..they have all kinds of info for windows...

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR


i am 14 female and i havent had my period yet so does that mean i can not masterbate? also can you have sex even if you havent had your period yet? thanks alot (link)
Yeahh. You dont need your period to do that. I know your confused in all..and horny, but beofre you get REALLY kinky with it...you might just want to start off small u noe..like playing with yourself instead of fingering yourself...your 14 so you dont want to be loose! lol

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR


okay lately my boyfriend has been saying he doesnt think I like him anymore, but the thing is..i LOVE him and i shouldnt have to convince him that. but last night he called my house at midnight and then hung up, and when i called back he said"nevermind". after minutes of begging him to tell me he told me that he called because he doesnt think i like him anymore. hes done this many times before and we've been together for a long time. i just dont understand..i always tell him i love him..what could be making him think this way??
if anyone can help me with this i'd be really thankful! (link)
Wow that guy sounds like me. Its not that he doesnt think that you DONT LOVE HIM anymore, its that maybe he has soooooooooooooooo much fealings for you that wen you dont always show it he gets a little fuzzed? you know? well try sitting down and talking to him about how much you love him, ask him why he feels that way. I feal the same way with my bf that ive been dating for two years and sumtimes you just forget. Try saying something spontanuous to him...bE LIKe baby your so beautiful...just load him with compliments..lol!

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR


lately ive been having SO much trouble with guys! first of all this guy said that he that i was hott and thought i was a cool girl and seem really nice and said "we should get to know each other better" but then he said he wanted to do stuff with me..and he just broke up because he had to with his girlfriend of over a year..he still always says i love you lauren on his away messages and everything but then he acts like he wants to get to know me better? we didnt talk for awhile then today hes like hey im gonna be at my friends are you gonna go over to his neighbors house? and im like nooo im leaving tomorrow outta town and hes messaged back and was like dangit i was looking forward to seeing you!! which i dont even know if he is going back out with his girlfriend because their parents said they couldnt go out for some reason but they wanted to behind their back! i mean i told him before that i dont know if we should "get to know each other better" because they were both like in love and then hes like well shes probably gonna leave me for another guy anyways..so now thats all confusing! and all this stuff..and then i kinda was crushin on this other guy before we always flirted and i loved talking to him and he just just adorable and the sweetest ever but he liked this other girl and now they are going out..so that hurt me too..now we cant flirt and stuff and he always talks about his girlfriend and it makes me sad seeing him because i know we cant talk and flirt like we use to and he probably doesnt see me as that kinda girl now since he really likes his girlfriend..and then a couple days ago i was talkin to this kid on AIM that i thought was really cute and everything but we havent met yet ive just always thought he was cute and stuff...ive seen him around alot ..well he just blew me off so now i feel like a complete idiot! now if i see him again im gonna be embarassed because im gonna feel like he thinks im some stupid girl that he doesnt want to talk to..im so fed up with guys ive never even had a boyfriend but ive madeout with some! im 16/f..

should i keep hanging out with these guys and trying? but i dont want to get hurt...i just really want a guy..or a friend anything!! they all seem to screw me over :[ i just wish i could have someone that would understand me and could be there for me! i have my best friends but a guy would be nice too...ive waitied 16 years for a guy!? i feel like i'll never get the opportunity because things always get messed up

well sorry so long but thanks for helping and taking your time to read this!
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Well no, you DO NOT WANNA BE second best. Beleive ME. My frend was in this sitiation like 2 days ago! lol...well they guy was like noo i like the other girlfrend better...stop trying so much. it sounds to me like guyz really like you, it maybe that you come on a little strong. i noe its hard not having a boyfriend but i was just like you once and i was like..why does this keep happening and a long story short after this guy was a total jerk to me...two days later i met this guy named cory and weve been dating for TWO YEARS! lol..so the right guy will come you just have to trust that he will

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR



Is a Sedu hair straightener any good? (link)
http://www.folica.com/Sedu_Ionic_Cera_d1560.html

I got this website for you, it says its pretty good to and its not too expensive! GoO girll!! lol

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR


My friend is continuing to hurt herself. When I was on the phone with her last night she cut herself about eight times. I don't know what to do she has done this repeatedly and i'm afraid she is really going to hurt herself. What can I do or what should I say? (link)
Hmm sweetie this is a though one. I used to cut myself to and i used to tell my boyfriend just to scare him to see how he would react. Sit down with her and tell her how you feel tell her that you dont like when she does it, tell her that you love her very much and that you dont want to se her get hurt. If she countinues doing it you need to tell someone! She could die! YOU NEED TO HELPP HERR..its for attenition i promise!

i looked up this website for you i hope it helps hun

http://www.hopeline.com/6/suicide.asp

i hOpE i HeLPeD! ANyThiNG ElsE?...
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
*MWAH!* lOve aSheR


Ok, so every time my cell phone rings, and its any where near my cable modem, the signal gets interupted, and I get booted off the internet. Also, the speakers make a funky sound. Does anyone else have problems with this? And is it something that could just be wrong with my modem, because its still under warranty (I think).

Its a motorolla ROKR and a SURFBoard modem if that matters. (link)
Well its normal. But try putting your cell phone in your lap or away from the computer but so that you can here it...sorry i hoped i helped but its completyley normal thou!

hope i help...anything else?
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hi i just have a question can u get pregnant by putting your vagina to a hot tub jet for like 5 minutes???????????????????????????????????????????????????? I hope not cause my friend did it and she is very scared. please write back. (link)
No sweetie you cant. Unless sum guy squirted his little fishies(sperm) in the hot tub 1st.


Ok so at the moment I am in hawaii at my aunts house and the place is INVESTED with roaches. usually i wouldnt mind them, but yesterday they were all over my bed and it was gross. we dont have time for an exterminator and wouldnt want one because of a price...so does anyone know any homemade tricks on how to trap roaches? i heard theres one trick about peanut butter and a jar but im not sure... (link)
DO they have a home depot in hawwii do they? If soo go there and get sum stuff to put around

http://www.homedepot.com/prel80/HDUS/EN_US/diy_main/pg_diy.jsp?CNTTYPE=NAVIGATION&CNTKEY=locator%2findex.jsp&BV_SessionID=@@@@2078635823.1151703343@@@@&BV_EngineID=cccjaddiejilehjcgelceffdfgidgjn.0&MID=9876

that should show you all the locations...they have bookoo roach stuff there! id probally ...Keep the room clean, make sure the floor is clean so they are easier to spot..take your bed of all the walls...and windows..




is it normal to get your period once a month for only 3 days? (link)
Yeah i get it to just like that, but if you keep geeting it at irregular times like you get a period every 4 weeks or every 9 weeks you should go to the docotor.

HoPe I HElPEd..if you have anything else
http://www.myspace.com/x0asherbeth
x3 asher beth!!! *mWaH!*




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